Sex Toys for Every Star Sign & Pleasure Persona: A Gift Guide

Toys for your zodiac sign, from audacious Aries to poetic Pisces

This stellar shopping guide pairs sex-positive products with astrology-inspired archetypes — diving into the symbolism and Hellenic planet rulership to match your erotic energy.

Non-believer? No problem! You’ll likely recognize pieces of your pals’ personalities in these astrology gift guide descriptions. Take what resonates.

Since the focus is on personality types, I’ve labeled the list by traits but arranged them by sun sign dates.

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If you do appreciate astrology, you’ll notice that I’m going off of Venus and Mars signs more than sun signs.

Let’s kick off this cosmic journey.

Aries, the Ram: Igniting the Hero’s Journey

Approximate Aries sun dates: March 19 – April 19

Aries Star Sign Traits

Aries is a cardinal fire sign, marking the beginning of the astrological year and the first day of spring. Its martial — ruled by Mars — energy is associated with:

• Lively new beginnings
• Boldness, brash, bravado
• Striking the match for fire-starting
• Dynamically leading and succeeding
• Passionate power and determination

Restlessness and zesty zeal are two sides of the same coin for our fiery friends.

Aries Personality as Sex Toys

In Toyland, the archetypal Aries personality brings up bold bulges and significant sensations:

Evolved Novelties’ Gyro Vibe thumps and quakes with little subtlety on my clit — its motor is the definition of extra, for better or worse!

The Tantus Magma features lava-like drips that grip and pull at the walls with every G-spotty outstroke, while the tip can go all the way in with its 7” insertable length.

La Boutique Voila’s Mighty Hammer was inspired by Thor’s war hammer, Mjolnir. It symbolizes power and strength, much like Aries’ pert presence.

Uberrime’s A-Spot Avenger rounds off Aries’ role as the mythical hero of the zodiac. This deep penetration dildo comes in three color schemes you might recognize: The Incredible, The Mighty, and The Patriot.

Taurus, the Bull: Solid, Sensual & Luxurious Loving

Approximate Taurus sun dates: April 19 – May 20

Taurus Star Sign Personality

We’re settling into spring and the growing season. In contrast to Aries’ martial connotations, Taurus is an earth sign ruled by the realm of Venus:

• Attuned to sensory experiences
• Deriving pleasure from the physical world
• Deep appreciation for beauty, luxury, and comfort
• Lush grounds loyal loving

Aries is what I call “wham-bam”; Taurus can be sensual but still boldly embodied.

Taurus as Pleasure Products

Je Joue vibrators embody Taurean energy in a sex toy line. They’re intense if you want them to be, delivering deep, purring rumble that resonates and finesses your favorite hot spots. Moreover, their controls and speed range make them rad and reliable for any mood.

My favorite Je Joue sex toys include the following.

• Je Joue’s G-Kii is the best G-spot vibrator I’ve tried. A friend said I sounded like I was getting stabbed while screaming while cumming on the G-Kii. It’s also formidable for A-spot play.
• Amour by Je Joue offers options for light fluttering, vivacious vibrations, and pinpoint focus, all in a dainty bullet with a heart-shaped “leaf.”
• Duet by Je Joue has the same strong motor as Amour but with a textured top. Try tip drilling with this classic but bigger bullet — my walls love the silky silicone studs.

Exsens’ body care products and Foria Intimacy Botanicals also give big Taurus vibes. My faves from them include:

• Under the Influence: Lychee fruit fragrance with pheromones. Exsens’ pheromone perfumes contain copulins, putative scent signals of the fertile, feral, and DTF.
• CBD-infused suppositories and sex oil for warmth, pain relief, and gentle relaxation

After all, what is fine dining without slowing down for a tantalizing amuse-bouche or hors d’oeuvre?

Gemini, the Twin: Switchy, Versatile Variety

Approximate Gemini sun dates: May 20 – June 20

Gemini Venus & Mars Personality

Gemini symbolizes facets and duality, with mercurial traits like:

• The blending of masculine and feminine in one
• The analytical intellect and the gregarious gabbing
• Flexibility and adaptability
• Mastery of dirty talk
• A love for variety

Sex Shop Picks for Gemini

Fun Factory’s Limba Flex is adaptable like a Gemini. It comes in three sizes, and its posable wire core bends into steep C-curves and shallow S-curves, hitting a range of internal erogenous zones.

Pair the Limba Flex with a strap-on harness for more vers vibes. Or get a strapless strap-on like the Share Lite. Will you top or bottom? Why not both?

Flip to a random page in Kate Sloan’s book, 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do. Whether you’re mild or wild, you’ll more than likely find a kinky suggestion you’ve never tried before.

If you’d rather read something funny and oddly specific, I can’t think of anything more mercurial than Mary Roach’s Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex. It’s one of many things that can happen when sex is an ADHDer’s special interest. (My blog is another. Can you guess what my Mars sign is?)

Eye of Love’s Matchmaker Black Diamond pheromone perfume is a unisex scent of cedar, black currant, and lemon with undertones of oak, amber, and musk — beckoning bi babes and gender benders. Fittingly, there’s an “Attract Them” option!

Cancer, the Crab: Soft, Strong & Soul-Nourishing

Approximate Cancer sun dates: June 20 – July 22

Cancer Star Sign Personality

Cancer is the cardinal water sign — “Big Mama” of the zodiac. This leader of the summer:

• Is hard on the outside but mushy on the inside, like a crab
• Tenaciously protects, like a “mama bear”
• Intuitively picks up on waxing and waning changes around them
• Nurtures and loves deeply
• Grows and births beauty in the world

Yes, Cancer is associated with emotional ebbs and flows like the moon, but also the wisdom and expansion endowed by big, bold Jupiter. It nourishes, grows, and creates.

Cancer Zodiac Sign as Sex Toys

Uberrime’s Amante triple-density dildo has a firm core, a gooey gel-like middle layer, and a medium-soft tip and “skin” layer. It’s mushier on the inside than on the outside.

The Happy Moon toy delivers assertive air pulses despite its cutesy exterior — like how Cancerians are sometimes dismissed as the “sensitive crybabies” of the zodiac when the archetype is more of a fierce mother figure.

For sensitive-breasted babes, OhMiBod’s Sphinx vibrating nipple clamps offer state-of-the-art Bluetooth remote control capability. More importantly, they pack more punch than competitors I’ve tried — buzzy but will still make me cum through the waxing and waning waves controlled by a partner.

Crotchless panties with pearl strands along the center add feminine flair and texture. Because of their aquatic influence and resemblance to the moon, pearls could be considered a secondary birthstone for Cancerians. We’re luminous, layered, and full of grit.

Leo, the Lion: Vibrant Vim & Verve

Approximate Leo sun dates: July 22 – August 22

Leo Zodiac Symbolism

Leo is ruled by the Sun. As the center of the solar system and life energy, this sign is associated with:

• Leading with charisma, especially in the limelight
• Expressing affection with passionate gusto
• Generosity, spoiling their partner with grand gestures
• Thriving on admiration and praise from others

Leo Star Sign as Sex Toys

Leo’s association with solar vitality makes its sex toy avatar a no-brainer: this sign is the Fun Factory Vim.

Vim is a bold, bright, regal ruler of its domain — seriously, it’s the rumbliest rechargeable wand I’ve ever tried. Such passion and energy, and it comes in a Sunrise Orange swatch? The Fun Factory Vim perfectly embodies Leo in a sex toy.

Leos are also flashy and attention-seeking, like the njoy Disco‘s light-catching mirror shine and captivating curves. Its stainless steel is also stable and stiff, fitting of a fixed sign.

Uberrime’s Spiral, AKA Helios 2.0, was named after the Hellenic personification of the sun. One of its original color schemes is a firey fusion of Candy Apple Red, Orangesicle, and Lemon Pop (but the palette shown above is more like a nebula.

Fun Factory’s Tiger G5 is available in bright India red, and its affordable knockoff, Yummy Sunshine, is lemon buttercream yellow.

The popping palettes and rowdy ribbing on these toys will definitely seize attention.

Virgo, the Maiden: Devotion in the Details

Approximate Virgo sun dates: August 22 – September 22

Virgo Venus Traits

Think of your friend who blazes at 3x speed through audiobooks about cutting-edge research on romantic attachment and communication skills. That’s Virgo Venus.

Virgo Venus applies analytical thinking to matters of the heart:

• Rock-solid reliability, sincerity, and transparency
• Health consciousness and high standards of cleanliness
• Attention to detail in subtle gestures and everyday acts
• Service-oriented support
• Discerning and pragmatic problem-solving
• Thoughtful, practical gifts that make you feel very seen

Virgo Venus Sex Toys & Gifts

Virgo Venus wants the best in class, even if it could be clinical. I associate Virgo Venus with:

The Magic Wand Plus corded wand — rumblier than the original, has excellent controls (up and down buttons), and is cost-effective for everything it does. It’s seriously one of the best intimate massagers you could get for the price.

Positioning cushions leverage optimal angles for penetration. Elevate your (or your partner’s) hips to go deeper and aim with intention. Try the Dame Pillo or variations of the Liberator Wedge.

BMS’s Swan Maximum bullet is rumbly AF, has a wide speed range that goes beyond the cult classic We-Vibe Tango X in strength, and, of course, has buttons for increasing and decreasing speed as you go through different phases of arousal and orgasm.

GoLove CBD lube is water-based, making it compatible with condoms and silicone toys. Its ingredients are specially selected to stay close to the vagina’s natural pH and osmotic balances. In short, get the sensual relaxation of CBD with a range of ways to play and a flora-friendly formulation. Take 10% off GoLove CBD with code SUPERSMASH

Books that get into the nitty-gritty of communication, with examples of what to do (and what not to do) and prompts and fuel for thought:

• Barbara Carrellas’s Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century
• Stella Harris’s Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships
• Emily Nagoski’s Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections
• Sue Johnson’s Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
• Susan Scott’s Fierce Love: Creating a Love That Lasts – One Conversation at a Time

Libra, the Scales: Serene Sensations & Artful Aesthetics

Approximate Libra sun dates: September 22 – October 22

Libra Venus Traits

Libra loves love itself — vibing well with Venus! Traits associated with placing the planet of love in Libra include:

• Ample aesthetic appreciation — think art, culture, and the finer things in life
• Seeking harmony and peace
• Alluring and affectionate, radiating romance
• Yielding, ceding to conflict by balance and compromise
• Delicate diplomacy comes naturally to them

Libra Star Sign as Sex Toys

Crystal Delights’ twisting glass dildos are, above all, luxurious and beautiful — pleasing my pussy and my eyes. The smooth sliding against my walls caresses my clit from the inside.

Uberrime’s Rosae rose-shaped silicone clitoral grinder features soft petals for my petals — and converges into a cushy clit-massaging mound at the center. It yields and pushes back just enough.

Crave’s Vesper necklace vibrator is dainty, discreet, and pinpoint enough to be worth it for casual users. Wear this icon of pleasure in plain sight — if you know it, you know it.

How friggin’ cute is Shots’ Loveline Lily vibrator? It measures 1.25” across and along the bulk of the bulb — a delightful tip driller for penetration. (I’m willing to overlook the puny vibrations for the elegant exterior here. Libra is about softness and balance anyway, yeah?)

Eye of Love‘s pheromone perfume fits Libra since the combination of androstenol and estratetraenol is meant to influence the emotional side of social bonding. (Contrast it to the more carnal copulins mentioned in my section about Taurean pheromone perfume.)

• The Bloom Sunny Daze fragrance is a decidedly sweet and feminine mix of bergamot, Damascus rose, and jasmine.
• Morning Glow is another bright blend of fruity and floral, with ylang-ylang, freesia, jasmine, violet, and musky base notes.

Scorpio, the Scorpion: Deep, Dark Desires & Possessive Passion

Approximate Scorpio Sun dates: October 22 – November 21

Scorpio & Sexuality

Scorpio Venus and Mars are known for their intensity — for worse and for better, respectively. I associate Scorpio Venus with:

• Intense passion and magnetic attraction
• Emotional depth and sensitivity
• A yearning for radical honesty and trust
• Possession and jealousy

That last point is fun fantasy fodder for kinky Scorpio Mars lust, but sometimes it doesn’t play out well with Scorpio Venus’s desires in love.

Pluto is the modern ruling planet of Scorpio and represents the subconscious, power, and the deep, dark side of emotion. Classical astrology, however, focuses more on Mars’ assertive and passionate qualities in Scorpio.

Scorpio Sex Toys & Kink Accessories

There isn’t anything more Scorpio Venus than the viral rose suction toy or rose-emblazoned Doxy Die Cast wand.

Of all the rose toys, the most well-known “soul snatcher” is super strong with no subtlety, going from 0 to 60 to 100 really fast.

And that’s quite fitting of Scorpio Venus: intense, alluring, deep, and potentially overpowering. The rose‘s air pulses are all-or-nothing.

Meanwhile, you might get some mercy from adjusting the pressure with the Doxy Die Cast. Or you could use straps around a submissive’s legs to hold the wand in place with no escape.

Consider also muffling moans with silicone rose gags. Add a rose butt plug if that’s your thing.

Last but not least, Velvet Alley’s anatomical heart toys fit the vibe, too. The heart is sensitive to every emotion, beating fervently and pumping blood to amorous organs. And heartbreak… well, it hurts. Try:

• Heartbreak by Velvet Alley for external humping
• The Heartache! Dolly’s Revenge dildo if internal stimulation is more your thing. It features a stylized “knife” stabbing a sculpted anatomical heart.

How’s that for passion?

Sagittarius, the Archer: Spontaneous, Stimulating Spirit

Approximate Sagittarius sun dates: November 21 – December 21

Sagittarian Personality in Love & Sex

Big, bold, expansive Jupiter rules Sagittarius. Those with this personality wonder and wander for wisdom.Their ecstatic exploration may include:

• Adventurous novelty-seeking
• Highly valuing intellectual stimulation and philosophical conversations
• Preferring relationships that allow for independence and freedom
• Sharing experiences that expand horizons

Sagittarius as Sex Toys, Smut, and More

Since the archer symbolizes this sign, I imagine Sagittarian sex toys as targeted hot spot “snipers”:

• The njoy Pure Wand was engineered for wham-bam front wall focus — if your G-spot is just past the pubic bone, this dildo will pound it like no other
• Try the NS Novelties Glass G-Spot Wand if you want to go a bit deeper along the A-spot. Similar deal: unyielding, rock-hard, will pummel your pussy — but it can go deeper than the Pure Wand
• Hot Octopuss’s Pulse Queen is a concentrated clitoral thumper with serious power

Want to get past the mascot — and appeal to intellect? Try:

• A subscription to PinkLabel.TV, an alternative queer-friendly porn site with indie flicks, spiritual instructionals, vintage videos, socially conscious commentary, and more.
• A gift card to an independent sex shop with a curated collection of expansive educational resources — try Aphrodisia Boutique, Spectrum Boutique, or Early to Bed

Even after years of blogging, these shops are still showing me sexual concepts I hadn’t considered before. Many were or are ahead of their time.

Gift cards to boutique-style shops leave room to scope the selection — on one’s own wandering (and wicked?) whims.

Capricorn, the Sea-Goat: Dutiful Daddy Dom

Approximate Capricorn sun dates: December 21 – January 19

Capricorn Personality in Sex and Love

“Time Daddy” Saturn rules Capricorn. Having Venus or Mars placed in this sign is associated with:

• Sharing drive and determination with a partner
• Appreciating traditional values, stability, and security
• Having a strong sense of duty and responsibility
• Possibly being perceived as prim and proper
• Building relationships to last, focusing on long-term practicality and perseverance

Capricorn as Sex Toys

I associate Capricorn’s classic carnal delights with high-end workhorses that keep going and going. They’re dependable names that have stood the test of time:

The Velvet Thruster has been around since 2017, and while others have tried to imitate it, there aren’t many other compact fucking machines I’d recommend for beating up my gorilla grip coochie.

njoy’s Eleven stainless steel dildo is a cult classic womb-bashing bludgeon for superior cervical sensations and deep penetration. You might love it for shallow stimulation, too, if big and broad is your thang. This dildo is a pleasure engineering marvel and will outlive you and me both.

Fun Factory’s rumbly Big Boss vibrator and The Boss dildo feature girth, curves, and a corona that grabs the G-spot. There’s nothing too wild here — just dependable designs that will make you cum and cum.

Anything Vixen Creations’ VixSkin — their dual-density dildos are luxuriously realistic and live up to the tagline: worth every inch. I’m partial to Johnny, Outlaw, and Cash.

If you want an even more realistic silicone dildo that looks and feels like a cock — veins, pores, sliding skin, floating balls, squishy pink tip, and all — try Abyss Creations’ RealCock 2. Each RC2 is hand-poured, airbrushed, and painted to perfection, stimulating the real thing with more detail than any other maker.

Dirk is the most popular RealCock 2 model, but I have the thicker, firmer, and straight-shafted Max.

Aquarius, the Water Bearer: Innovative and Refreshing

Approximate Aquarius sun dates: January 19 – February 18

Aquarius Personality in the Bedroom

Aquarius is ruled by Uranus, the sideways-spinning planet of the original and unexpected. As such, Aquarius in sex and love might be associated with:

• A forward-thinking approach
• Embracing uniqueness
• Progressive values
• Revolution and innovation

Aquarius Personality as Sex Toys

As with Aquarius, these unique toys trailblazed, forging pleasure pathways ahead of their time.

LuzArte and Spectrum Boutique’s Jollet shape was cast from the contours inside the vagina, locking into place along the G-spot’s dip and sloping behind the cervix. It’s super filling and featured colorful pom-pom embeddables inside the silicone long before it trended with big makers (think BMS Factory’s Party Marty).

Fun Factory Volta – goofy-looking? Maybe a little. But this offbeat design is versatile as fuck for vibrating against vulvas and penises and giving pinpoint focus and fluttering and dispersing sensations across its broad body. It’s rumbly and does it all externally.

Tantus’s Tsunami is an A-spot aficionado — its waves and hooked tip press against multiple hot spots on my front wall in synchrony. Unconventional? Yes. Good, clean fun, per Tantus’s slogan? Hell yes.

Fun Factory’s Stronics pulse back and forth using a weighted magnet, unlike anything before them. This self-thrusting mechanism jostles my internal clitoris to oblivion with remarkable consistency, leading to many stupidly quick orgasms. Nobody else does linear pulsators like Fun Factory does. Try the Stronic Real, Stronic Surf, or Sundaze.

Uberrime Suavis and Sensi – I both am and am not proud that people used to find my blog by Googling, “huge butt plug used in vagina” or “can a butt plug be used vaginally?” Uberrime noticed the market potential and made silicone plugs specifically for vaginal use. They’re squishy and filling but rounded to evade the cervix and have smaller bases to leave the clit free for external stimulation.

Pisces, the Fish: Enchanting, Boundless Embrace

Approximate Pisces sun dates: February 18 – March 20

Pisces Personality in Love

Pisces is an emotional water sign that lacks Scorpio and Cancer’s hard shells. I think of Pisces as:

• Soft, flowing, and intuitive
• Deeply empathetic and compassionate
• Valuing soulful bonds and emotional depth
• Romantically fantastic (in the literal sense) and idealistic
• Selflessly giving
• Seeks peaceful resolutions

Does this sound familiar? Like Libra, Venus is exalted in Pisces, the planet of love! The difference is that Pisces Venus has more of a spiritual, soulful vibe, while Libra is relatively worldly and social.

Pisces Star Sign as Sex Toys

When I think of Pisces pleasure, I think of aquatic influences and vibrators that fit between bodies for partner play.

There’s a little something for everyone here:

Uberrime’s Aqua-King is a greatly girthy G-spotting and A-spotting dildo with a bold triple-crowned head and slight scaly surfaces. It strokes every inch inside along the front wall while its angled head slips behind the cervix — mmmmm.

Fun Factory’s Stronic Surf also rubs with ridges galore, like a precise and persistent partner who just won’t quit. Pris Toys’ dual-density Syren might be more for you if you want a light touch, though.

Uncover Creations’ Tentacle Grinders and Dee’s Big Daddy Davy are divine for riding and humping with the cephalopod suckers against the external clitoris — blurring the lines for what to expect from an all-silicone toy. Likewise for the super soft Pelle Orange Slice.

Finally, the Dame Pom and Fun Factory Laya 3 mini-vibrators are contoured for constant clitoral contact while making love. The former is flexible and focuses vibration at the pointed “beak,” while the latter is rigid and rumblier but more rounded and relatively dispersed. I prefer Pom with a partner and Laya 3 if I care more about solo play.

Pisces is also the last sign of the zodiac, connected to the 12th house and endings in astrology.

Closing Thoughts on This Sex-Positive Astrology Gift Guide

We’ve wandered the wide, wonderful world of the zodiac, marrying each magical star sign with some seriously sensational sex toys. Whether you’re a tenacious Taurus, virtuous Virgo, or limelight-loving Leo, a tantalizing toy will tick all your boxes.

Even star sign skeptics — going purely by personality — can have fun with ancient archetypes in our heroes’ journeys and dive into dazzling dimensions of delight.

Star Signs in Sex & Love FAQ

As always in astrology, take this with a grain of salt and recognize that we aren’t archetypes — humans contain multitudes.

What star signs are flirty?

Let’s define “flirty” as playfully exhibiting attraction to someone. The following signs’ stereotypes might be the most confidently coquettish:

• Gemini is quick-witted with playful banter. “Seduce my mind, and you can have my body,” wrote M.D. Waters
• Libra is ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty. Its charm manifests as grace, diplomacy, and elegance.
• Leo is magnetic and looooves being the center of attention.
• Sagittarius spreads its expansive spirit and zest for life to its lovers.

Which zodiac signs are powerful in sex?

• If we define power as domineering, the commanding energy of Aries, Capricorn, Virgo, and Scorpio could be considered powerful.
• If we’re going by the intensity of intimacy, Scorpio‘s all-consuming craving for closeness is definitely up there.
• If we’re going by firey fuel and vigorous energy, Leo, Sagittarius, and Aries are all peppy partners.
• Another winning combination for prioritizing pleasure is Taurus: strong, sensual, and indulgent.

Which star sign is good in bed? Which zodiac sign is sex-driven?

If you’re reading my blog, you’re probably a human who is:

• Sex-driven (or at least curious)
• Eager to learn more about sex and sex toys
• Seeking ways to expand your ecstasy

Chances are, you’re either already great in bed or on your way there, regardless of your star chart. 😉