Category: Techniques & Health

3 Types of Submissives Who LOVE Cock Cages! 1

3 Types of Submissives Who LOVE Cock Cages!

Why male chasti­ty is more ver­sa­tile than you might think “I want to drink cum out of your ass with a straw,” ini­ti­at­ed a new naughty chat cus­tomer. Oh, you’re one of…

"Pillow Princess": 5 Ways I'm Reclaiming the Title 2

“Pillow Princess”: 5 Ways I’m Reclaiming the Title

The orgasm ratio between me and my male part­ners is eas­i­ly over 10:1 — 10 of mine for every one of theirs. I’m hav­ing a good time, and so are they.…

Artistic diagram of menstrual cycle phases and uterus

How Each Menstrual Cycle Phase Affects My Sex Life

If some­one says that cis women are wildest dur­ing their peri­ods, they’ve nev­er seen me sex toy shop­ping and booty-calling dur­ing ovu­la­tion. One of my Instagram fol­low­ers com­mis­er­at­ed: You’re not alone,…

Condoms 101: choosing the perfect condoms for you! 3

Condoms 101: choosing the perfect condoms for you!

It’s a myth that stan­dard con­doms are uni­ver­sal and fit every­one. (Yes, even if your fore­arm can fit in one!) Using the right con­dom size is cru­cial for the wear­er’s comfort…

Review: Pelle Whim squishy vulva grinding toy 8

Review: Pelle Whim squishy vulva grinding toy

External cli­toral mas­sage that stim­u­lates even the parts you can’t see The first two nights that I was inti­mate with my part­ner, our go-to activ­i­ty wasn’t inter­course or oral or butt…

The 4 Commandments For Size Queens With Vaginas 17

The 4 Commandments For Size Queens With Vaginas

“Let’s just say she’s ‘open’ to new things,” some­one com­ment­ed on a viral video of my sex toy col­lec­tion. Big dil­dos are among the most polar­iz­ing and stig­ma­tized toys for…

4-Inch Clitoris: a homology to penises in pleasure 19

4‑Inch Clitoris: a homology to penises in pleasure

How often have you heard the bull­shit that female anato­my is con­fus­ing? Or worse, that male orgasms are a giv­en, while female orgasms are dis­tant and oth­er­world­ly? I’m here to…

7 Factors in Picking the Right Menstrual Cup 23

7 Factors in Picking the Right Menstrual Cup

Before I tried a men­stru­al cup, I bled all over my bed every month. Pads and tam­pons con­sis­tent­ly failed to con­tain my heavy flow. Fuck that shit. Menstrual cups have been an absolute…

How to Get More Comfortable With Anal Sex 26

How to Get More Comfortable With Anal Sex

All bod­ies have holes with sen­si­tive nerve end­ings, and they have things to put into holes. Sometimes it feels good, and some holes take more prepa­ra­tion than oth­ers do. Such is…

Exploring the A-Spot (Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone) 30

Exploring the A‑Spot (Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone)

The A‑spot — or AFE zone — is one of the most under­rat­ed eroge­nous zones in exis­tence. It’s an area on the front vagi­nal wall, all the way in and farther…

How to Have Clean Anal Sex: 4 Considerations 32

How to Have Clean Anal Sex: 4 Considerations

Shit hap­pens. We all know that the anus’s pri­ma­ry pur­pose is that of an exit. Understandably, clean­li­ness is among the biggest con­cerns about anal sex. It’s only sec­ond to per­haps picking…