How Each Menstrual Cycle Phase Affects My Sex Life
If someone says that cis women are wildest during their periods, they’ve never seen me sex toy shopping and booty-calling during ovulation. One of my Instagram followers commiserated: You’re not...
Category: Techniques & Health
Condoms 101: choosing the perfect condoms for you!
It’s a myth that standard condoms are universal and fit everyone. (Yes, even if your forearm can fit in one!) Using the right condom size is crucial for the wearer’s...
Review: Pelle Whim squishy vulva grinding toy
External clitoral massage that stimulates even the parts you can’t see The first two nights that I was intimate with my partner, our go-to activity wasn’t intercourse or oral or...
PMDD: a life-threatening mental illness
Getting my period is sweet, sweet psychological relief — and not because I’m avoiding pregnancy. The beginning of menstruation for me marks the end of the worst phase of my...
The 4 Commandments For Size Queens With Vaginas
“Let’s just say she’s ‘open’ to new things,” someone commented on a viral video of my sex toy collection. Big dildos are among the most polarizing and stigmatized toys for...
4-Inch Clitoris: a homology to penises in pleasure
How often have you heard the bullshit that female anatomy is confusing? Or worse, that male orgasms are a given, while female orgasms are distant and otherworldly? I’m here to...
7 Factors in Picking the Right Menstrual Cup
Before I tried a menstrual cup, I bled all over my bed every month. Pads and tampons consistently failed to contain my heavy flow. Fuck that shit. Menstrual cups have been...
How to Get More Comfortable With Anal Sex
All bodies have holes with sensitive nerve endings, and they have things to put into holes. Sometimes it feels good, and some holes take more preparation than others do. Such...
Exploring the A-Spot (Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone)
The A-spot — or AFE zone — is one of the most underrated erogenous zones in existence. It’s an area on the front vaginal wall, all the way in and...
How to Have Clean Anal Sex: 4 Considerations
Shit happens. We all know that the anus’s primary purpose is that of an exit. Understandably, cleanliness is among the biggest concerns about anal sex. It’s only second to perhaps...
LetsGetChecked mail-in STI test kit review: Basic 3 (Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, & Trichomoniasis)
I was shocked the first time I saw a mail-in colon cancer test kit stocked at the drugstore— among many other kits, like food sensitivity, hormone balance, and STI testing....
5 Ways I’ve Made My Orgasms Longer and More Intense
The second time I ever got stoned, I had orgasms for 20 minutes straight. It happened about five years ago— at the time, I thought it was an unusual occurrence...
