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Carnal Confessions from the Kinky Congregation 1

Carnal Confessions from the Kinky Congregation

I am Superior Trask, head of penance, here to dis­close the sins of the con­gre­ga­tion. Punishment and spir­i­tu­al cleans­ing shall be con­duct­ed amid your sin­ful souls; the rosary will also be prayed for your bro­ken, kinky minds. For this super…

Glass tentacle dildos

Dildos vs. "The Real Thing": Which One I'd Rather Have

A dil­do isn’t going to dance with one arm around my waist and the oth­er hand pulling my hair, tilt­ing my head for a kiss. Sex toys don’t have juicy, part­ed pil­low lips and tongues that “Yes, and” — kiss­ing me…

Domina Decoded: 5 Femdom Principles for Male Obedience 2

Domina Decoded: 5 Femdom Principles for Male Obedience

Master female dom­i­nance and male sub­mis­sion, rule over him, and have him eat­ing out of your hand. Men's myr­i­ad moti­va­tions for sex go beyond the phys­i­cal release — even with the slight­est graze under the psyche's sur­face. Just a few reasons…

Breaking Chains: Defining BDSM & Reimagining Roles 4

Breaking Chains: Defining BDSM & Reimagining Roles

Fifty Shades of Grey. Secretary. Chains and whips in Rihanna's 2010 dance-​​pop hit, S&M. When the main­stream thinks of BDSM, they think of a neat bina­ry of: But BDSM is far more faceted and nuanced — with far more shades of…

7 Steamy Skills For Soft Dominant Dirty Talk 5

7 Steamy Skills For Soft Dominant Dirty Talk

Torment with plea­sure and dis­ci­pline with praise. Soft Domination can have a hard-​​hitting psy­cho­log­i­cal impact with tears of over­whelm and ecsta­sy — no chains or whips nec­es­sary. Our focus here is the brain and cun­ning lin­guis­tics. So you want to…

THROWBACK: 5 First Sex Toys, 10 Years Later! 6

THROWBACK: 5 First Sex Toys, 10 Years Later!

400 SEX TOYS! TEN YEARS! It's been a decade since I start­ed col­lect­ing sex toys — and five years since I made my blog into a busi­ness! Can you believe it?! My sex toy col­lec­tion has grown so much since…

Gooner Humiliation Kink Affirmations for Jack-Off Addicts 7

Gooner Humiliation Kink Affirmations for Jack-Off Addicts

Savor this humil­i­a­tion Femdom track for jerk-​​off addicts! There’s some goon­er degra­da­tion, tease, denial, and the tini­est morsel of find­om. As always, kink takes place in a con­trolled envi­ron­ment with con­sent. This post might not be for you if humiliation…

To Rock My World, Stop Asking, "Did You Cum?" 8

To Rock My World, Stop Asking, "Did You Cum?"

Your part­ner deserves bet­ter than flat­ten­ing inti­ma­cy down to a pass/​​fail grade. Go deep­er. You deserve play­ful teas­ing and ban­ter like, “Tell me what you want. Use your words. I know you can do it,” while watch­ing the oth­er person…

The overlap between human sex dolls (dollification) and other kinks.

7 Kinks to Combine With a Dollification Fetish

Ever want to be posed, played with, and fin­ished inside like a fuck doll? Or tossed around? Welcome to the won­der­ful world of dol­li­fi­ca­tion. What is dol­li­fi­ca­tion? In sim­ple terms, dol­li­fi­ca­tion is a fetish for role­play­ing a liv­ing doll. In…