Category: Banter

Find my social commentary, personal updates, and lighthearted listicles here. Though I’m more known for my reviews, it was narrative writing that got me into blogging in the beginning. My life doesn’t revolve around toys, you know. :)

Panam Palmer cosplay photos (Cyberpunk 2077) - Part 1 1

Panam Palmer cosplay photos (Cyberpunk 2077) – Part 1

Because why wouldn’t I want to be Night City’s sassiest nomadic heartthrob? This Panam Palmer cosplay is probably my first somewhat serious attempt at costuming. I’ve dressed up for Halloween parties before, that was often last-minute, and I didn’t go...

3 Reasons to Deprioritize Social Media for Adult Businesses 5

3 Reasons to Deprioritize Social Media for Adult Businesses

Imagine that merely mentioning “Link in bio” on your Instagram story could get your account flagged or deleted. A photo of a brightly-colored, abstractly shaped dildo gets marked as “adult solicitation.” Or an educational infographic about sexual health gets you...

Boobs vs. Butts & Bisexual Lighting 10

Boobs vs. Butts & Bisexual Lighting

“In the end, boobs are nothing more than fake asses. And if I had to choose between the original and the imitation, of course I would choose the original.” — Kangoku Gakuen / Prison School Ch. 68 So much of...

6 Reasons Chastity Cock Cages Can Be Hot 23

6 Reasons Chastity Cock Cages Can Be Hot

Chastity play and cock cages may seem brutal and otherworldly to the vanillas. “Do people ACTUALLY get turned on by that?” one might think. But the kink is more common than people realize. Just like anyone you walk past could...

5 Ways Companies Try to Screw Over Reviewers & Cam Models 25

5 Ways Companies Try to Screw Over Reviewers & Cam Models

The business of blogging involves alliances and collaborations with companies. How do you navigate that? Though many sex shops are delights to work with, psychic vampires also run rampant in the industry. They feed on the unsuspecting, trying to squeeze...

I'm Ready to Start Dating Again. Now What? 34

I’m Ready to Start Dating Again. Now What?

I went on dates with 22 men within 13 months between relationships. People get exhausted, just hearing that statistic. While meeting people to date is often simple, it’s not necessarily easy — I don’t want to minimize the time and energy it...

5+ Worn or Used Sexy Things to Sell — Beyond Underwear 38

5+ Worn or Used Sexy Things to Sell — Beyond Underwear

Selling used panties and bedroom props is a legit way to earn some extra spending money, especially if you’re an attractive woman. I briefly touched on the practice in my previous post about sexy side hustles (beyond reviews), but this...