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Table of contents
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Sex education
Body talk and health
- The guide to closing the "orgasm gap" (and why clitorides and penises aren't that different)
- A BS-free guide to cervical orgasms
- Exploring the A‑Spot (AFE Zone)
- Mega-guide to fisting and 24 huge dildos, compared!
- Ways I've made my orgasms more intense (including breath and energy orgasms)
- 5 Ways to Elevate Sex With CBD Arousal Lube
- How each menstrual cycle phase affects my sex life

Erotica
Banter
Dating, relationships, and kink
- “Pillow Princess”: 5 Ways I’m Reclaiming the Title
- Are creampies a kink? Why are people into them?
- EVEN MORE Truths about Dating as a Sex Industry Professional: THE UNABRIDGED NOTES
- 3 Types of Submissives Who LOVE Cock Cages!
- 4 Shitty Dating Advice Marketing Ploys I’m Sick of Seeing
- I'm a woman with a high libido. What's up with that?
Buyer guides
Dildos I adore
- njoy Eleven
- Uberrime Aptus
- Uberrime Night King
- Pipedream Icicles No. 70
- Uberrime Anurian
- L'Acier Reverb
- Vixen Creations Randy
- Uberrime Amante
- NS Novelties G‑Spot Glow Wand
- Tantus Bishop XL Super Soft
- NS Novelties Colours DP Pleasures
- Vixen Creations Gambler
- SelfDelve Aubergine / Eggplant
- SelfDelve Corn on the Cob
- L'Acier Capo
Non-vibrating external toys
Powered toys I love
(Vibrators, thrusters, oscillators, and more!)
- FUN FACTORY VIM
- Je Joue G‑Kii
- Magic Wand Rechargeable and Plus
- We-Vibe Rave
- Velvet Thruster Teddy GS and Prime Sammie
- Doxy Die Cast
- Fun Factory Volta
- Fun Factory Stronic Surf
- Zumio I and E oscillator
- Cal Exotics Empowered Queen
- California Dreaming Santa Cruz Coaster
- BMS Factory Swan Wand Classic
- Hot Octopuss Amo