It’s no mystery that I love VixSkin. In fact, my rave review of Vixen Creations’ VixSkin Johnny is the most popular post on my blog. The tl;dr is that the firm inner core and squishy silicone outer layer not only make it extremely realistic, but also gentle relative to standard single-density silicone while still being… Read More Review: Vixen Creations VixSkin Outlaw
Welcome to Elust #84 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #85? Start with the rules, come back August 1st… Read More Elust #84
(All .gifs are from superphazed.tumblr.com) It was my second time smoking with my partner. The first time was over a year and a half ago. Why the time gap? Cannabis affects me disproportionately. Two hits and I’m practically useless, immobilized, and terrified that I’ll spontaneously have an orgasm if I’m in public… or terrified of everything,… Read More Stoned Birthday Sex
Intro This toy was sent to me complimentary, courtesy of the Castle Sex Toys Megastore in exchange for a review. The Fun Factory Bi Stronic Fusion is the only Stronic pulsator I’ve tried whose shape works for me. Let’s backtrack to 2014, when Fun Factory released the Stronic line. (Or clickity here if you want… Read More Review: Fun Factory Bi-Stronic Fusion
It’s true that a lot of sex bloggers’ clitorises like rumble and power, but I wanted to give my $0.02 from the other side: reasons why more power isn’t necessarily better, and recommendations for others who are built like me. Click here to jump straight to the recommendations. Huh?! Didn’t you say you liked your powerful toys?… Read More Mini-Review Round-Up: JimmyJane Intro 1 & other gentle vibes that rock
There are women (especially hetero) who say they don’t want orgasms with a partner. Or at all. That’s totally okay, BUT I think it’s important to be honest with oneself (and her partner) about WHY she doesn’t want orgasms. This doesn’t apply to everybody, but many possible reasons can be worked around. Maybe she’s never… Read More Sometimes saying, “I don’t want orgasms” means more than just that.
This week, a new and poorly interpreted study about the sensitivity of circumcised vs. intact penises has been circulating and, once again, people are falling for the clickbait debate without actually reading the study. What news headlines say: “Study Suggests Getting Circumcised Doesn’t Make Your Wiener Less Sensitive After All” What the study’s preview actually says: 62 men… Read More Claims & Clarification: Foreskin Sensitivity to Stimulation
Sexy spring renewal is the theme of this week’s TMI Tuesday questions, fitting right in with my intent to change my habits and the direction of my blog. There will be more detailed (and serious) posts soon, but for now, I want to do something lighthearted. Thinking of a current relationship that is important to you,… Read More TMI Tuesday 4/5/16: Spring Time, Sexy Time
I used to always recommend the BMS Factory Swan Wand whenever asked for recommendations for a powerful rechargeable vibrator. It not only boasts Hitachi-style earthquake power, patterns that don’t totally dip in power, but also two different sized ends with an independently controlled motor: one 2″ thick end for broad external stimulation or girthy G-spot pressure,… Read More Review: BMS Factory Swan Wand
Sex is an instinctual drive, but we’re not born inherently knowing how to harness or enjoy it. We slowly discover arousal, ways to touch ourselves, and ways to enjoy touching and being touched by another person. I share with you this Q & A today as a reminder that every journey progresses a little differently,… Read More Q & A: expectations vs. reality in sex, and practicing mindfulness
