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Riding the $1,000 Motorbunny Original, Sybian, and Tremor saddle vibrators broke my brain 5

Riding the $1,000 Motorbunny Original, Sybian, and Tremor saddle vibrators broke my brain

Ride-​on sex machine com­par­isons — beyond "any of them on my clit could make me cry." Why wouldn't I take the...

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Solina Maxima XXL & Aura Uncut (Dickmatizing Dual-Density Dildo Reviews, Part 2) 6

Solina Maxima XXL & Aura Uncut (Dickmatizing Dual-Density Dildo Reviews, Part 2)

A swoop­ing head that … mes­mer­izes my cervix … Lickable, engorged veins and arter­ies I can feel in mul­ti­ple direc­tions,...

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Nancy Avo & Lem Clit Toy Review: high performers or hype? 7

Nancy Avo & Lem Clit Toy Review: high performers or hype?

Only one of these toys gets my seal of approval. Several read­ers asked what I thought of Lem, the super...

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HOW FREAKING CUTE is this Pearl 2 seashell panty vibe by Honey Play Box? 8

HOW FREAKING CUTE is this Pearl 2 seashell panty vibe by Honey Play Box?

Microdosing Botticelli's Venus by wear­ing this shell-​shaped Bluetooth panty vibrator. Honey Play Box's Pearl 2 is one of the cutest...

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How the We-Vibe Temp Temperature Play Vibrator Won Me Over 9

How the We-Vibe Temp Temperature Play Vibrator Won Me Over

Warming up to the warm­ing and cool­ing We-​Vibe Temp was a wild ride. "Why, though?" I thought the first time I...

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Deep Penetration Vibes: VeDO Quiver Plus vs. Nu Sensuelle Nubii Siren Review 10

Deep Penetration Vibes: VeDO Quiver Plus vs. Nu Sensuelle Nubii Siren Review

VeDO's Quiver Plus vibra­tor is exact­ly my type: long and lean for div­ing deep. It's every­thing I love in a toy. Perhaps...

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Exhilarating expansion — get creative with the totality of possibilities!

Subjectifying sexuality and sensuality — shifting it from a performance for the outside viewer to the inside experiencer.

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