Elust #84

Welcome to Elust #84 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #85? Start with the rules, come back August 1st… Read More Elust #84

Mini-Review Round-Up: JimmyJane Intro 1 & other gentle vibes that rock

It’s true that a lot of sex bloggers’ clitorises like rumble and power, but I wanted to give my $0.02 from the other side: reasons why more power isn’t necessarily better, and recommendations for others who are built like me. Click here to jump straight to the recommendations. Huh?! Didn’t you say you liked your powerful toys?… Read More Mini-Review Round-Up: JimmyJane Intro 1 & other gentle vibes that rock

Sometimes saying, “I don’t want orgasms” means more than just that.

There are women (especially hetero) who say they don’t want orgasms with a partner. Or at all. That’s totally okay, BUT I think it’s important to be honest with oneself (and her partner) about WHY she doesn’t want orgasms. This doesn’t apply to everybody, but many possible reasons can be worked around. Maybe she’s never… Read More Sometimes saying, “I don’t want orgasms” means more than just that.

Claims & Clarification: Foreskin Sensitivity to Stimulation

This week, a new and poorly interpreted study about the sensitivity of circumcised vs. intact penises has been circulating and, once again, people are falling for the clickbait debate without actually reading the study. What news headlines say: “Study Suggests Getting Circumcised Doesn’t Make Your Wiener Less Sensitive After All” What the study’s preview actually says: 62 men… Read More Claims & Clarification: Foreskin Sensitivity to Stimulation

Review: BMS Factory Swan Wand

I used to always recommend the BMS Factory Swan Wand whenever asked for recommendations for a powerful rechargeable vibrator. It not only boasts Hitachi-style earthquake power, patterns that don’t totally dip in power, but also two different sized ends with an independently controlled motor: one 2″ thick end for broad external stimulation or girthy G-spot pressure,… Read More Review: BMS Factory Swan Wand

Q & A: expectations vs. reality in sex, and practicing mindfulness

Sex is an instinctual drive, but we’re not born inherently knowing how to harness or enjoy it. We slowly discover arousal, ways to touch ourselves, and ways to enjoy touching and being touched by another person. I share with you this Q & A today as a reminder that every journey progresses a little differently,… Read More Q & A: expectations vs. reality in sex, and practicing mindfulness