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Holiday sex toy deals & steals online

Sex toy sales at Peepshow Toys

Up to 20% off gift sets & bundles at Peepshow Toys

Tiered sale on Peepshow’s holiday collection, which includes almost everything I’d want.

  • 10% off a purchase of $75 or more
  • 15% off $100 or more
  • 20% off $125 or more

Tiered sale at Peepshow Toys banner

75% off Fifty Shades of Grey Ultimate Gift Set

Banner: HUGE kinky gift pack for 75% off at LoveHoney

This now-$100 kit includes a sampler of everything you’d need to get started exploring sex toys and BDSM. Examples include a silicone rabbit vibe, wrist and ankle cuffs, a hogtie, a Wartenberg wheel, a flogger, bondage tape, rope, nipple clamps, a blindfold, a butt plug, and SO MUCH more.

Original price: $400. Now $100. The rabbit vibrator alone would be $89.99 at regular price, so… this gift kit is great for if you and a sweetie wanna try ALL THE THINGS. And even if you like only half of the things, there’s so much variety to try out at a discounted price.

I don’t love FSoG, but uh… I know a deal when I see one.

10% off Crystal Delights glass toys

Through December 13th at SheVibe. Discount applied at checkout.

Banner: 10% off Crystal Delights artisan glass sex toys

Holiday sales at Vibrant

Take 15% off entire purchase with code SNOWFLAKE December 10th

Free shipping on entire purchase with code FREESHIP18 December 14th

20% off Holiday collection with code HOLIDAY18 December 15th-18th

25% off select LELO products

My top picks: Smart Wand Large and Mia 2. Do NOT get the Hex.

Kinky sales at The Stockroom

50% off Schlossmeister Dungeon line through December 24. Discount applied in cart.

Up to 30% off select restraints, impact, and sex toys through December 25.

Kinky Krampus sale

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Shops / makers / beyond toys / rad toys

Every shop on this list is an excellent place to get body-safe sex toys, but they each have a little something-something that makes them unique. I’d rather you didn’t buy sex toys from Amazon because of the chance that you’ll get a knock-off/counterfeit.

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Vibrant: backed by Planned Parenthood of the Rocky Mountains

Shop for sex toys while supporting reproductive health care! Vibrant has a partnership with PPRM, which provides contraception, cancer screenings, STI testing, prenatal care, and more. Free shipping on orders over $50. Use coupon code SUPER for 10% off.

Spectrum Boutique: hand-picked by sex educator & artist Zoë Ligon

Spectrum has a robust AF gender expression section, a huge variety of sex ed books, and they’re the only general shop on this list that stocks the Jollie and polka-dot Jollet (clear silicone filled with rainbow puff balls!) by Luz Arte. Get 10% off your whole order any time at Spectrum with coupon code SELFLOVE or ILYSM

Peepshow Toys: curated, quality sex toys for every body and budget

Quickly find affordable toys, like NoFrilldos, the Blush Temptasia line, and the Exposed Nocturnal bullet. Plus, you can also find artisan Uberrime dildos there!  Free shipping on orders over $70. Get 10% off your order with coupon code SUPERSMASHCACHE

SheVibe: low prices, vast selection, kick-ass artwork

Seriously, they’re the first shop I check when looking for a specific product. Along with basic NoFrilldos, they have a great selection of unique toys from Funkit, plus other hard-to-find brands like BS Atelier and Hole Punch Toys. Plus, free shipping on orders over $75.

Luvoqa: find unique luxury sex toy brands

Luvoqa’s inventory includes quite a few sex toys that aren’t available at SheVibe, so I recommend checking them out, too. Such hard-to-find brands include ceramic Persian Palm dildos, FT London, Svakom, and elegant Rococo-themed Zalo vibrators.

Good Vibrations: an oldie but goodie with an easy-to-use interface

The original Good Vibrations shop was founded in 1977. Though plenty of sex shops refuse to stock toys with phthalates, Good Vibrations was one of the first. I highly recommend using Good Vibrations’ website if you’re easily overwhelmed by choices— their filters are super helpful.

Early to Bed: another oldie but goodie indie shop

Early to Bed is a Chicago-based indie shop that’s been around for a very long long time. They were established in 2001, and they’re run by some of the warmest people in the industry. The website is very personable— Early to Bed writes their own pros, cons, and helpful usage tips in every product description.

The Pleasure Garden: UK-based, inclusive & disability-friendly

I highly recommend the Pleasure Garden shop if you live in Europe! They place heavy emphasis on accessibility, AND you can ask them for personalized sex toy recommendations relating to disabilities and medical conditions. Free shipping on orders over £50. Get 10% off with coupon code SUPER

Couples’ Toy Store: couple-oriented sex shop with a rewards program

This sex shop’s loyalty rewards program gives you 5% back in points on every purchase. Their blog also shares couples-oriented advice— not just sex, but also dating and relationships, as the shop name would suggest. Part of their philosophy is that in relationships, sex toys help keep the passion alive.

Wildflower Sex: a newer sex shop, carefully curated for pleasure

Wildflower Sex is a Brooklyn-based sex shop established in 2017. I also love their educational sex Q & A videos, empowering t-shirt designs, and selection of natural & herbal body care products.

Sex toys straight from the manufacturer

Silicone dildos and butt plugs
Clear silicone dildos

…with pom-poms, glitter, or anything else you want embedded?!?!?! Get 15% off with coupon code SUPERSMASHCACHE

Powerful & discreet couples’ toys

Jeweled princess plugs, spiral dildos, and glass basics

Beyond sex toys

Stockroom: BDSM, kink toys, and bondage gear

Undercover Condoms: bulk condoms at a discount

Pinklabel.TV: ethical and feminist-friendly porn

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