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Every shop on this list is an excellent place to get body-safe sex toys, but they each have a little something-something that makes them unique. I’d rather you didn’t buy sex toys from Amazon because of the chance that you’ll get a knock-off/counterfeit.

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Vibrant: backed by Planned Parenthood of the Rocky Mountains

Shop for sex toys while supporting reproductive health care! Vibrant has a partnership with PPRM, which provides contraception, cancer screenings, STI testing, prenatal care, and more. Free shipping on orders over $50. Use coupon code SUPER for 10% off.


Spectrum Boutique: hand-picked by sex educator & artist Zoë Ligon

Spectrum has a robust AF gender expression section, a huge variety of sex ed books, and they’re the only general shop on this list that stocks the Jollie and polka-dot Jollet (clear silicone filled with rainbow puff balls!) by Luz Arte. Get 10% off your whole order any time at Spectrum with coupon code SELFLOVE or ILYSM


Peepshow Toys: curated, quality sex toys for every body and budget

Quickly find affordable toys, like NoFrilldos, the Blush Temptasia line, and the Exposed Nocturnal bullet. Plus, you can also find artisan Uberrime dildos there!  Free shipping on orders over $70. Get 10% off your order with coupon code SUPERSMASHCACHE


SheVibe: low prices, vast selection, kick-ass artwork

Seriously, they’re the first shop I check when looking for a specific product. Along with basic NoFrilldos, they have a great selection of unique toys from Funkit, plus other hard-to-find brands like BS Atelier and Hole Punch Toys. Plus, free shipping on orders over $75.


Luvoqa: find unique luxury sex toy brands

Luvoqa’s inventory includes quite a few sex toys that aren’t available at SheVibe, so I recommend checking them out, too. Such hard-to-find brands include ceramic Persian Palm dildos, FT London, Svakom, and elegant Rococo-themed Zalo vibrators.


Good Vibrations: an oldie but goodie with an easy-to-use interface

The original Good Vibrations shop was founded in 1977. Though plenty of sex shops refuse to stock toys with phthalates, Good Vibrations was one of the first. I highly recommend using Good Vibrations’ website if you’re easily overwhelmed by choices— their filters are super helpful.


Early to Bed: another oldie but goodie indie shop

Early to Bed is a Chicago-based indie shop that’s been around for a very long long time. They were established in 2001, and they’re run by some of the warmest people in the industry. The website is very personable— Early to Bed writes their own pros, cons, and helpful usage tips in every product description.


The Pleasure Garden: UK-based, inclusive & disability-friendly

I highly recommend the Pleasure Garden shop if you live in Europe! They place heavy emphasis on accessibility, AND you can ask them for personalized sex toy recommendations relating to disabilities and medical conditions. Free shipping on orders over £50. Get 10% off with coupon code SUPER


Couples’ Toy Store: couple-oriented sex shop with a rewards program

This sex shop’s loyalty rewards program gives you 5% back in points on every purchase. Their blog also shares couples-oriented advice— not just sex, but also dating and relationships, as the shop name would suggest. Part of their philosophy is that in relationships, sex toys help keep the passion alive.


Lovehoney: 365-day return policy

Return any item for any reason within a year of buying it at Lovehoney. I want readers to know that this is an option if they’re unsure whether they’d like an item.

Note: they’re not as inclusive or attentive to body-safe materials as the other shops listed here, but the return policy is unmatched for an adult shop. Just don’t buy any insertables made of transparent materials from their website.


Wildflower Sex: a newer sex shop, carefully curated for pleasure

Wildflower Sex is a Brooklyn-based sex shop established in 2017. I also love their educational sex Q & A videos, empowering t-shirt designs, and selection of natural & herbal body care products.


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