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Sex Toys for Every Star Sign & Pleasure Persona: A Gift Guide

Toys for your zodi­ac sign, from auda­cious Aries to poet­ic Pisces This stel­lar shop­ping guide pairs sex-​​positive prod­ucts with astrology-​​inspired arche­types — div­ing into the sym­bol­ism and Hellenic plan­et ruler­ship to match your erot­ic ener­gy. Non-​​believer? No prob­lem! You'll likely…

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Why Do Men Buy & Jack Off to Women’s Used Panties?

What kind of man buys and sniffs used panties? Is he a per­vert? A los­er cuck? A fetishist, or kinky, or just some­one being a reg­u­lar wank­ing dude? He could be any or all of the above — it’s in the…

3 Emotional Needs of Sext Chat & Femdom Enthusiasts 1

3 Emotional Needs of Sext Chat & Femdom Enthusiasts

"I work with men's men­tal health" is how I'd euphem­ize my work as a pro-​Domme. And it's the truth. When a client is com­pelled to spend thou­sands of dol­lars a month to talk to me, it's not (just) because he…

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Sultry Body Care: My Favorite Lube, Massage, CBD, Pheromones & More!

Pairing potions and lotions with your gad­gets and giz­mos galore Whether you're driz­zling on dil­dos or lap­ping lube off a part­ner, you deserve to know the sex­u­al well­ness and body care prod­ucts I've: This mega-​​guide includes lubes, lotions, arousal gels,…

Best Thrusting Toys vs. Gorilla Grip Coochie: Comparison of Contraptions 2

Best Thrusting Toys vs. Gorilla Grip Coochie: Comparison of Contraptions

This cunt con­sumes colos­sal can-​​sized cocks and cracks fin­gers. The lat­ter abil­i­ty is a haz­ard at times — my walls crush thrust­ing toys like a vise, over­pow­er their func­tion­al­i­ty, and occa­sion­al­ly eject erec­tions. I would say to play the world’s…

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Mastering the G-Spot's Mystique (To Unlock More Elation!)

MORE NUANCED WAYS TO UNDERSTAND (AND HAVE FUN WITH) THE G‑SPOT A dil­do tilt­ed just right can be starry-​​eye-​​inducing — and fin­ger flex­ing goes a long way in plea­sure if you know where to aim! This post focus­es on one of…

Breaking Chains: Defining BDSM & Reimagining Roles 4

Breaking Chains: Defining BDSM & Reimagining Roles

Fifty Shades of Grey. Secretary. Chains and whips in Rihanna's 2010 dance-​​pop hit, S&M. When the main­stream thinks of BDSM, they think of a neat bina­ry of: But BDSM is far more faceted and nuanced — with far more shades of…

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FUN FACTORY Just Turned 27!

Happy 27th birth­day, FUN FACTORY! It’s been about 9 years since this Germany-​​based lux­u­ry sex toy com­pa­ny stole my heart. FUN FACTORY has shaped the indus­try in many ways we take for grant­ed. For one, they were the first to…

7 Steamy Skills For Soft Dominant Dirty Talk 5

7 Steamy Skills For Soft Dominant Dirty Talk

Torment with plea­sure and dis­ci­pline with praise. Soft Domination can have a hard-​​hitting psy­cho­log­i­cal impact with tears of over­whelm and ecsta­sy — no chains or whips nec­es­sary. Our focus here is the brain and cun­ning lin­guis­tics. So you want to…

THROWBACK: 5 First Sex Toys, 10 Years Later! 6

THROWBACK: 5 First Sex Toys, 10 Years Later!

400 SEX TOYS! TEN YEARS! It's been a decade since I start­ed col­lect­ing sex toys — and five years since I made my blog into a busi­ness! Can you believe it?! My sex toy col­lec­tion has grown so much since…