njoy Pure Wand Review: intense steel G-spot dildo
Before using your Pure Wand, apologize to your neighbors in advance for all the screaming.
Have some towels ready, even if you think you can't squirt. Maybe set aside some time to fully appreciate pounding your G‑spot to oblivion over and over again.
If you want the absolute most directly intense G‑spot dildo, one whose engineering is a timeless classic, this is it. Most sex shops won't even send the Pure Wand out for reviews anymore because it's already so well-praised that it simply doesn't need more. So if this is your first time, then welcome. I am truly honored to be the angel who blesses your G‑spot.
Upon seeing the Pure Wand, many of my friends think, "HUH?!?! How is that supposed to be a sex toy?" But what the uninitiated eye sees as this G‑spot dildo's most intimidating features, are precisely its strengths. The Pure Wand's weight, steep curve, and rigid material are why I can jiggle it back and forth and come within 10 seconds.
In this review...
- Dude, it's heavy AF
- Two ends to choose from, both amazing
- Prepare for squirting
- Okay, it's not perfect, but it's damn close
- G‑spot pleasure for life
Using the njoy Pure Wand's 1.5lb weight
Yes, it's heavy. After all, the Pure Wand is essentially a G‑spotting hammer. With this steel dildo weighing about a pound and a half (or 680g), its closed storage case feels like a brick. But rest assured: the weight means a little movement goes a long way. Small circles, jiggling in place, rocking back and forth, or just pulling on the handle to hold the head in place and apply pressure. That's pretty much all you'll need.
You might gain arm strength from thrusting faster when you're about to come. I don't want to deny that the lighter Jopen Comet Wand might be more comfortable for those with mobility issues. But the Pure Wand and Comet Wand stimulate the G‑spot in slightly different ways. The Comet Wand's silicone surface has drag, for nestling into the dip behind the pubic bone, pulling and gripping on the G‑spot.
The Pure Wand, by contrast, relies on its weight for more pressure. It's also easier to aim because the parenthetical curve does most of the work. One end reaches and sticks up into the G‑spot, while the end that rests outside the body serves as a handle. A little tilt at the handle is enough to direct the inserted head right where you want it.
Dipping my toes in vaginal weightlifting
Its weight also makes it a lot of fun for Kegels. Back in early college and my sexual awakening, I had a habit of holding the Pure Wand's small end and let the dildo hang out of me while showering, styling my hair, and putting on make-up. I'd take breaks when I dropped it, of course, and re-insert it. Since I seriously can't feel the jiggle of kegel balls, it's cool having the visual and mechanical feedback of how long I can hold this weight.
Alternatively, I've tried linking a kegel ball set's retrieval loop to a bucket handle using a carabiner. From there, I filled the bucket with pennies or small dumbbells for weight… but the Pure Wand is more convenient!
UPDATE: I have written a more in-depth guide to vaginal weightlifting — from beginner to the Kegelbell vaginal gym to dumbbells!
A rad double-ended dildo
There are two heads to choose from: one 1" wide, and the other 1.5" wide. Both work beautifully for the G‑spot, though the smaller end might be comfortable for the prostate.
The small end, I use for pinpointed stimulation and a quickie orgasm. If the Zumio is my external "instant orgasm" button, the Pure Wand's small end is the internal analog; I don't have any other dildo that so precisely targets my G‑spot. The large end, like more for steady pressure than anything else. Most times, hold in place while pushing the handle down and using a clit vibe. Occasionally, I might rock it back and forth, but the pressure is the key.
I highly recommend trying a robust clitoral vibrator with the Pure Wand. This isn't because it's not enough on its own for me, though that's probably the case for most people with vaginas. Instead, I find that using a powerful external vibrator balances the internal intensity and synergizes. It doesn't even feel like I'm thrusting something against my G‑spot; it just feels like it's in pure bliss of its own accord.
UPDATE: Find out how the njoy Pure Wand measures up to my other favorite metal dildos!
Squirting with the njoy Pure Wand
With or without the clit vibe, the Pure Wand is enough to make me squirt, but having some clitoral stimulation makes it easier for me to relax. Again, I advocate having something absorbent to lie down on so that, if you do feel like squirting, you're not worried about making a mess. I'm still kind of in a weird mental place about squirting. It's totally okay to "just" have some awesome non-squirting orgasms. However, it's better to be prepared and comfortable regardless.
If you want examples of squirting and using the Pure Wand, Pinklabel.TV and CrashPadSeries.com are helpful and ethical places to start. Specifically, CrashPad episodes 131, 191, and 234 all feature the Pure Wand. I wasn't kidding when I said that the Pure Wand is beloved among sex toy connoisseurs!
And if squirting doesn't happen, enjoy the orgasm all the same! There's so much pressure on women to perform a certain way in bed, and there's no hierarchy of orgasms. The best kind of orgasm is whichever one makes you feel good.
Why might someone not like the Pure Wand (...and alternatives to check out)
The Pure Wand's G‑spot stimulation is about as intense as you can get. If you've read this far, that probably doesn't bother you, but I do have to emphasize that. If you don't like intense and direct G‑spot stimulation, don't get a Pure Wand.
As well, it's perfect for aiming a little past the pubic bone, which works for the overwhelming majority of people. A few people with vaginas might find that their G‑spot is shallower, and part of the spongy tissue on the pubic bone. For those with shallower G‑spots, a shallower curve and less bulbous head might be helpful. Try the Chrystalino Superior.
Other potential sources of discomfort
Some may find it uncomfortable to remove the Pure Wand because of the drastic dip between the head and shaft. If the Pure Wand locks firmly in place when you try to pull it out, I say to turn it so that the dip is facing sideways first. Then pull it out. That's a relatively easy solution that doesn't entail missing out on amazing orgasms.
Something less intense to consider first
If you're unsure whether the Comet Wand or Pure Wand is right for you, start with a curved or bulbous glass dildo, like the Chrystalino Champ or Superior. And if you're not sure whether even glass is right for you, a Tantus Sport. It's silicone, so it has some give to it, and a bit thinner. Then decide from there whether you want to level up to something more intense.
You'll have to put waaaaay more effort into finding your G‑spot with the Sport if you don't know where it is already, though. Personally, because of its ease in aiming, choosing the Pure Wand as the first G‑spot toy I ever bought was one my life's best decisions.
njoy Pure Wand = G-spot pleasure for life
If you've decided to get a Pure Wand, your G‑spot will never be the same again. Your investment will last a lifetime. And how many orgasms do you think you can use the Pure Wand for before you die? Short answer: a fucking lot. Not "just" orgasms, but some of the best orgasms your G‑spot could give you.
The Pure Wand's stainless steel construction means that it ain't going anywhere. Like even if there was a fire in my home, I might not even rescue my njoy Pure Wand before exiting because it'd almost certainly survive. This dildo will outlive you.
After 4 years, I still maintain my stance on the njoy Pure Wand: from Kegels to learning about my G‑spot's response to stimulation, it was the most foundational toy for getting to know my body.
So many sex toys have come and gone over the years, but njoy's designs haven't changed much at all. They don't need to, when there's nothing to add and nothing to take away. The Pure Wand is a holy grail among sex bloggers for a reason: it's the closest a G‑spot dildo has ever come to perfection.
You can find the njoy Pure Wand at Peepshow Toys. If it's not on sale by the time you're reading this, you can still get 10% off your entire order using coupon code SUPERSMASHCACHE
FURTHER READING: a ranking of aaaalllll my best stainless steel dildos! It was so hard to choose just one when they're all my favorite.
Thank you to Peepshow Toys for sending me the njoy Pure Wand in exchange for a review. It's entirely a holy grail toy, and I understand why most shops won't let new reviewers try it, so writing this post was a privilege.
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Got one of these on Black Friday last year…OMG! I found it most similar to one of my glass toys, but even heavier. And paired with my Pillow Talk Racy…amazing!
This is a terrific review; one of the many that motivated me go out and buy a pure wand of my own 😀 you’re definitely not lying when talking about the weight and somewhat odd shape at first glance, but after trying it a few times I realize how much I adore it — I like using the smaller end as a warming up toy and then switching to the bigger end for more stimulation or reaching for something else if I’m looking for a different kind of penetration. You’re totally right that this really isn’t a thrusting toy, more of a grinding and wiggling one (and your anecdote of using it in the shower during college is giving me Ideas lmao). Love your site, and thanks for the review!
I can’t wait to get one!
I’ve always wanted to get my hands on one of these to try! I’ve started a wish-list of toys I most want, and this is definitely towards the top of that list. Yay
I read so many reviews, all had nothing but good things to say about this toy. I bought it. I learned we're all very different and just because it seems like everyone else loves it doesn't mean I will too. In Fact I really don't like it. Maybe I need more practice, maybe my insides are so tilted that I'll never find my g‑spot no mater what toy I use, maybe I just don't like g‑spot stimulation, I don't know but the pure wand just didn't do it for me. I appreciate that you listed some alternatives, maybe one of those will be better suited for me.
It certainly is intense. I'm still figuring it all out. Thanks for the pull out advice!
I don’t know if it’d be right for me, but the Pure Wand is such a beautiful toy. I wonder if I’d like it if I ever got the opportunity to try it.
this is my favorite toy rn. i like intense and focused g spotting and nothing else compares!!! great review!!
Love how informative this review is. ?
I've heard so many good things about this, but I haven't figured it out yet
Thanks for the review! I had no idea it was so heavy! I also love how you describe the intensity. I do hope to get one someday 🙂
I love thia review, it’s the most informative review I’ve ever read on the Pure Wand. I’m going to put it on my list, I hope one finds it’s way to me soon!
My next giveaway is in the brainstorming phase, and I'm thinking I'll include fewer, more expensive toys… like the Pure Wand. 😉
I love this review!! Hopefully I’ll get my hands on one soon
I don't thrust much with it because it tires my wrist, so I thought I was weird for liking little circular strokes. (I appreciate the removal tip, too!)
The weight is no joke- I tried to lick one clean once, dropped it, and chipped a tooth. Fortunately, it only caught the very edge and wasn't very noticeable, because I did *not* want to have to explain a dildo mishap to anyone who asked.
Fabulous review — very much enjoyed it and some cool pics too 😉