Pleasure Pep Talk Protocol & Philosophy

One orgasm, 10 orgasms, 20 orgasms in one session? Whatever the electricity feels like for you here and now, enjoy the vibe.

Expanding Ecstasy Everywhere

You deserve to feel good. Build on your enjoy­ment of sex and enjoy­ment of life by explor­ing and mapping:

• Your plea­sure bodyscape — find­ing your phys­i­cal hot spots and breath­ing you deep to get you going
• Your plea­sure mind­set — prime your mind to feel good, become best friends with your desires, and focus on the fan­tas­tic feelings
• Your bound­aries — say no to what (and who!) doesn't feel good so you can make room for your ful­ly fer­al fuck­ing expression
• Toyland's topog­ra­phy — toys are tools for get­ting in touch with the smor­gas­bord of sen­sa­tions around you
• …and embrac­ing the edges as you expand, so you can feel safe explor­ing the unfa­mil­iar and get­ting cre­ative with the total­i­ty of possibilities

How Does it All Come Together?

Brain-​breath-​body inte­gra­tion goes beyond the gen­i­tals, fur­ther into the mind­fuck, and feel­ing it all over.

Subjectifying your sex­u­al­i­ty and sen­su­al­i­ty shifts from a per­for­mance for the out­side view­er to the inside expe­ri­encer. Revel in the body's innate abil­i­ty to feel "oh-​god-​oh-​fuck-​yes" ecstatic.

Demystifying, des­tig­ma­tiz­ing, and savor­ing your sub­con­scious desires lets you:

• Cultivate risk aware­ness and tol­er­ance for the taboo
• Break bina­ry box­es and reject­ing main­stream limitations
• Navigate nuance, dark­ness, and dimen­sion­al­i­ty as humans

We'll con­tex­tu­al­ize the pol­i­tics of plea­sure so that self-​care, inti­mate part­ner care, and com­mu­ni­ty care converge.

We'll say "fuck you" to your lim­it­ing social conditioning.

Take your plea­sure into your own hands. Explore new things, do your Kegels, breathe, and enjoy. Don't believe the bull­shit that it's inher­ent­ly hard­er for women to orgasm. We don't have to accept the "orgasm gap" on a cul­tur­al level.

Go deep­er, feed the fer­al, so you can feel good about feel­ing good and unlock potent plea­sure on your own terms.

Claiming plea­sure begins with believ­ing that your body is capa­ble and deserv­ing of great things — what­ev­er that looks like for you.

Because, ulti­mate­ly, my work isn't just about enjoy­ing sex but also rel­ish­ing your radi­ant life.

Where Did This All Come From?

My blog orig­i­nat­ed by shar­ing less con­ven­tion­al path­ways to plea­sure, such as:

• Deep pen­e­tra­tion and cer­vi­cal orgasms
• Exploring the A‑spot (ante­ri­or fornix)
• Fisting, vagi­nal stretch­ing, and huge toys
• Stainless steel dil­dos to fuck­ing blud­geon my womb
• Pleasure Princess life — because, when the cul­ture of sex­u­al plea­sure often cen­ters on het­ero men, a woman say­ing "We're doing this my way" is bold as fuck.

How to Work With Me

• Sex toy shop­pers and exper­i­men­tal fuck­ers can: 
  • Click around my reviews and buy­er guides
  • Email me for toy recommendations
  • Book a plea­sure pep talk for one-​on-​one peer support
• Content col­lab­o­ra­tors and spon­sors can check out this page about my services
• Femdom and spicy chat clients can text or call me via Sextpanther

Want to go deep­er? If you:

• Are look­ing to learn beyond my sex ed arti­cles, Femdom field notes, and banter
• Have ques­tions beyond the scope of an email

…set up an appoint­ment!