Mega-Guide to Fisting and 26+ Huge Dildos, Compared!

My vagina is made of the same material as the inside of Mary Poppins’ purse.

My vagina is made of the same material as Mary Poppins’ purse. A soda can fits inside. Yet, a recent partner had a mere single finger inside me when he said, “Wow, you’re tight.”

He had no idea that he was about to have his whole hand inside me.

My vagina doesn’t ‘take’ a fist; it consumes as it goes into ‘crush and cum’ mode.

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How I personally feel about vaginal fisting

Fisting gives me some of the most intense orgasms my body is capable of, back-to-back, seemingly indefinitely. Pillows for screaming into are highly recommended.

I’ve walked the talk so many times that I keep forgetting how this heteronormative culture views fisting.

To me, it’s not about hole-punching and destruction as an extreme sport. Instead, it’s a natural and highly intimate progression of fingering. My vagina doesn’t “take” a fist; it consumes as it goes into “crush and cum” mode.

And I want others to experience the marvel of fisting as well.

UPDATE: I’ve reviewed b-Vibe’s vibrating fist dildo! Get all the details and find out why I love it. <3

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What to expect in this guide to fisting and giant body-safe dildos

This guide to fisting will discuss the optimal mindset for fisting preparation, undoing the stigma and shame, technique, and, of course, body-safe silicone fisting warm-up dildos!

My focus is on vaginal fisting, but those seeking information on butt stuff may nevertheless find parts of this post helpful. I’m also not going to delve toooo too deep into the fantasy dildo realm; that’s a topic that merits a whole other post.

It’s a looooong guide, so be sure to pause and read through the table of contents if it’s your first time here.

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The modifiers, “silicone” and “body-safe” are important here.

Silicone is nonporous for our purposes, and you can boil and bleach such toys to sanitize them. While silicone dildos are more expensive upfront (compared to PVC and jelly), nonporous dildos made of glass, steel, and silicone are far easier to care for.

More importantly, with proper maintenance, silicone dildos will not cause you gynecological harm for something like a chemical burn or microbial infection. Yeah, jelly dildos can leech toxins, and porous materials can house germs under the surface. Silicone dildos are inert for our purposes. I care about your health and well-being.

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Combating the stigma around fisting

Let’s lay down the foundation.

How can someone feel emotionally safe when trying fisting? I don’t mean concerns about physical damage (though we’ll get to that, too).

I’m talking about the shame and stigma, as someone familiar with the unsolicited commentary about the presumed state of my holes.

“Let’s just say she’s ‘open’ to new things.”

“How does her partner even feel pleasure after being vaginally stretched out like that?”

I’ve heard it all before.

My current philosophy around big dildos and fisting is, “I say nothing [to the haters]. I just keep having a good time.”

Really, it’s okay. I’ve had vaginal intercourse immediately after fisting or using a huge dildo. My vagina has (unintentionally) cracked a partner’s finger. And I know that the pelvic floor, as with any other muscles, can be strong and flexible.

See also: 4 Commandments For Size Royalty

All good times and no harm done; my vagina is still “tight” after fisting.

But I understand that the insensitive comments may cut deeper for my readers. On that front, I’d like to remind you that fisting isn’t all-or-nothing.

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Long-term habits for fisting preparation

Use progressively girthier dildos or more fingers, little by little — not just for physical preparation, but to ease your mind and gather evidence that your vagina is highly resilient.

Try a slightly bigger dildo for some sessions. Use your usual dildo or have intercourse for other sessions. Mix it up, and observe for yourself over time that, “Yeah, I’m actually not getting loose from using this big dildo.” Then rinse and repeat with more massive sex toys at the speed of comfort.

Your state of mind is one of the most critical parts of getting ready for fisting. The same applies if you’re scared of being desensitized by strong vibrators. Been there and done that.

I’d also encourage you to do pelvic floor exercises. Cycles of clenching and relaxing your vagina are both useful for fisting preparation. This suggestion isn’t just about staying “tight,” but also:

• Conscious awareness and control of what your pelvic floor is doing
• Strength training can contribute to flexibility

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Mindset reminders when you’re about to be fisted

Flexibility is cultivated over time; your body and mind learn that it is safe to unwind. That applies to the pelvic floor muscles during fisting, too.

Relaxation is the name of the game:

• Don’t try fisting on a stressful day
• Schedule more than enough time
• Maybe try some CBD lube
• Give yourself a serene environment
• Go slow
• Have a full-body massage and a few orgasms first, if you can

Also, remember that if you can’t go all the way, that’s cool, too. While I understand that being fisted for the first time is a significant milestone, I think having fun (and staying safe!) throughout the process should come first. Listen to your body’s cues about what you can handle.

Slight discomfort is normal, but shooting pain isn’t. If it’s hard for you to decide where to draw the line, remember that you can pull the fist or dildo back to your comfort zone. Pause. Attempt to increase depth again later. Again, having fun should be the top priority.

Reserve fisting for solo sessions and partners attentive to your comfort and pleasure. Vaginally consuming a hand is a big deal.

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Fisting techniques and general guidelines

Now we’re getting to the fisting technique. It’s probably what you originally came here for, yeah?

Porn to learn about fisting

If you’re looking for somewhat-educational porn, CrashPad’s Guide to Fisting is a great place to start. I can’t spread enough positivity about it (but I certainly tried in my review)!

CrashPad’s Guide to Fisting gives you:

• A visual overview of how to transition from fingering to fisting
• Clips of multiple fisting scenes of varying intensities, like a pornception
• Fisting depicted as a reciprocal act of intimacy
• Beautiful humans enjoying themselves!

Fisting can be as sensual and sweet as you want it to be, and I think Lorelei Lee, Beretta James, and Shine Louise Houston do a beautiful job demonstrating that.

You can watch CrashPad’s Guide to Fisting by:

• Renting for $5.95 for 48 hours
• Buying it for $8.33 to stream indefinitely
• Subscribing to PinkLabel.TV, which allows you access to a vast library of other indie porn flicks, with or without fisting
  • Shown below: a still from Fisting Club Episode 1

Bellesa Plus also has a few ethical porn flicks featuring fisting. They’ve dubbed themselves “the Netflix of porn.”

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Before stretching the limits

I recommend incorporating clitoral stimulation before and during giant insertions. Have a few orgasms first, if you can.

Ideal candidates for pairing internal and external stimulation include:

• Mini-wand massagers
• Bullet vibrators (BMS Swan Maximum, We-Vibe Tango X, etc.)
• Low-profile air pulse stimulators (Dame Aer, We-Vibe Melt)

They’re especially remarkable because they don’t take much space on the vulva, leaving plenty of room for a big insertable.

If you’d prefer to use a full-sized wand like the Doxy Die Cast or Magic Wand Plus, a vulva massage can still increase blood flow and help you relax.

Then, use your line-up of big dildos to warm up to fisting. I’ll save that part (the best part!) of the guide for last.

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Best lube to use for fisting

You’ll want to use a lot of lube for fisting, especially along the front wall, to reduce friction on the urethra.

The ideal personal lubricant for fisting is probably water-based with a thick, gel-like consistency. Hybrid lubes (which have a bit of silicone) also fit the bill. They’re a nice balance between long-lasting and easy to wash off.

Some of my favorite fisting lubes include:

• Sliquid Sassy, padded with extra cotton cellulose
• Wicked Simply Aqua Jelle
• Sensuva Erosense Hybrid (shown in the picture above)
• Wicked Simply Hybrid Jelle

(Find more of my favorite body care products.)

While you can use oil-based lube internally, I wouldn’t put it in my vagina. Everyone’s vaginal microbiome is different, though some users may find that an oil-based lube is more compatible with theirs. As for silicone lube, I find it too thin for fisting, and even worse, it can degrade the integrity of my favorite (silicone) fisting warm-up dildos. Plus, it’s on the pricey side.

Lotions & potions for relaxation and arousal

On another note, CBD lube can help for fisting warm-up, but I don’t think it’s thick enough for the main event. Try rubbing some CBD-infused lubricant (I like GoLove and Morgasm) on the vulva 10 minutes before you start penetration.

Use code SUPERSMASH for 10% off GoLove or SSC for 15% off Morgasm

Also, consider an arousal balm on the outside. I like the one by Bijoux Indiscrets a lot; it’s slightly warming but nothing too wildly tingly.

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Hand position for fisting

Fisting starts one finger at a time and ramps up to a duck-billed hand.

The fister’s fingers are straight while their thumb is tucked against the palm. Hand size matters when fisting, but so does folding and streamlining it.

(The receiver’s body size also matters, but probably not as much as you think. I’m merely 5’1” tall.)

Once your hand has been inside your partner’s hole for a hot minute, closing the fist is optional. Bex Caputo had more to say about it on The Dildorks podcast. I don’t particularly care for a closed fist inside me.

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Go slowly. Stop when you need to

However slow you think fisting preparation needs to be, go even slower. We’re talking mere millimeters at a time and sometimes not even moving one’s hand at all.

It goes a long way to keep the hand or fisting warm-up dildo stationary while the receiver clenches and relaxes. Go in a few more millimeters. Pause. Twist and swivel slightly for a bit. Make teeny, tiny thrusts. Repeat the cycle. Hold. Push. Swivel and rotate. Pause. Hold. And so on.

(Many of my XL dilator how-to tips help here, too!)

While the fister is doing that, I’d recommend the receiver do cycles of clenching and relaxing. Squeeze the pelvic floor muscles while the hand is motionless to reaffirm to your body that it’s safe and can handle the vaginal stretching, and relax while the topping partner pushes or turns their hand. Also, remember to take big, slow breaths through the whole process.

Many readers also asked how to handle pressure on the urethra when fisting. I don’t have a solution for everyone dealing with it, but I’ll share what helped me:

• Using softer dildos with more tapered tips (nothing super firm or blunt) for warm-up
• Tilting toward the back wall (and away from the front wall) — basically leaving some extra slack/room at the front
• Ceasing movement at the first sign of discomfort. You don’t have to end the scene right away, but if you proceed, at least hold the insertable in place and clench around it for a while. Then push in slightly further while relaxing.
• Recognize that leveling up to girthy dildos and fists may take months or even years. It used to be that a 2.1” thick vibrator would pull against my urethra on the way in, but that’s not the case anymore. Give it time.

Getting knuckles past the pubic bone is the most challenging part. Again, hand size matters, but the ability to fold one’s hand and straighten knuckles is even more critical. After that, everything more or less gets sucked in. 

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Okay, we’re in. Now what?

Continue doing small movements for as long as it feels good to both of you. Slowly expand the range of motion, whether that’s thrusting, turning, or “come hither” bending.

One suggestion: fist with your palm facing their front wall. Bend your fingers back and forth. Or revolve them in circles to play with the cervix or A-spot.

If they prefer G-spot stimulation, turn your hand in the opposite direction: palm towards the backside. Focus on the “out” stroke and pull your knuckles against the G-spot. (Think of this erogenous zone as the dip just slightly past the pubic bone.)

If you close your fist, remember to straighten your hand again before pulling it out.

Congratulations! Now you know the basics of fisting techniques. Let’s start shopping for fisting preparation dildos!

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Using a big dildo to prepare for fisting

For experienced players, fisting might be a straight shot from 1-2-3-4 fingers, then thumb.

If you’re new to fisting, though, the giver’s hand more than likely will get cramped and sore from all the squeezing around it. Let’s give credit for their athleticism, too.

Fisting warm-up dildos literally take off the pressure.

Here’s my categorization of the best dildos for fisting preparation:

1. Pre-warm-ups – Thick dildos that are above average but still very much in the realm of a normal human penis
2. Dilators – No-frills dildos made specifically for getting comfortable with the next size
3. Tapers – They’re more pointy and start super slim but ramp up
4. Off-label use – Wands and plugs probably weren’t initially made for vaginal insertion, but I do what I want.
5. OMGs – Bigger dildos with roughly soda can thickness. These can feel good against my cervix, depending on squishiness.
6. OMFGs – A self-explanatory next step up
7. “Okay, too much for me, but you do you” – Dildos that make me want to be nice to mothers everywhere for giving life.

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Factors in choosing a big dildo: size, firmness, and more

Here’s how I’d sum up picking the right dildo size:

• 1.25” diameter is on the small side of average
• 1.4 to 1.5” is about standard
• 1.75” diameter is where many shops would say size queen territory starts
• 2” tends to be the cutoff after which big dildos are considered a fetish
• 2.1” is the diameter of the top of a soda can
• 2.6” is the diameter across the middle of a soda can

Shown to the right is a pair of calipers measuring the shaft diameter of the Uberrime Amante, which is slightly bigger than average in girth.

Extreme big dildos are super intense, as you can imagine.

Once I go past the 2.1” diameter mark, my G-spot and internal clitoris are bullied. I must orgasm when there’s that much pressure against them. Sometimes, with softer or more tapered models, I can get cervix or A-spot stimulation, too.

Girth isn’t the only thing that matters in a fisting warm-up dildo, though.

So does curvature. Bent toys, for example, tend to target the A-spot and G-spot. That’s ideal for having some fun before you even attempt to insert a whole hand.

Length also matters in dildo selection. Even if you’re not inserting all of a dildo’s shaft, it’s still useful. You get more control of where the tip is angled. So if you want ample front wall stimulation or you want more of a handle for reach, a dildo longer than 6” is ideal.

I’ve also used a cheap shore durometer to measure silicone’s hardness.

Firm single-density dildos feel more intense than squishy ones, and dual-density dildos offer you the best of both worlds. They have a firm core for aiming, but their soft tips are gentle against the cervix. Also notable: softer dildos won’t drag against the urethra as much.

These shore hardness readings I took weren’t an exact science. The durometer I used doesn’t register the full spectrum of silicone densities I have on hand. Readings also varied depending on the contours where I stuck the durometer’s pin. As such, take these firmness ratings with a pinch of salt. They’re not exact; they’re a general guideline for comparison.

Got it? On to the actual toys themselves.

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Maker Spotlight: Dee’s Big Daddies

You might have guessed that Dee’s Big Daddies focuses on huge silicone dildos, but what’s not as obvious is that they also have a mid-sized Dee’s Wee Daddies line.

In short, their realistic silicone dongs generally come in five sizes, from “average human” to “WOOAAAHH”

So if you find a shape you love, you can get it in the next size up!

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Best sex toys for fisting preparation

These are my all-around favorites and go-to sex toys to prepare for fisting, now that I’ve already gotten comfortable with using huge dildos vaginally.

Dildos and plugs for fisting training

• Squarepegtoys G Squeeze – a plug made explicitly for vaginal use. Comes in 8 sizes (!!!)
• Oxballs Ergo Large super soft – a squishy plug measuring about 2.3” across and 4.8” insertable. Comfortable for all-day wear if you get the right size.
• Vixen Randy single-density – a medium-firm dildo about 2.1” across, a little thinner than a soda can
• Tantus Bishop – a slightly squishier and super long dildo about 2.6” across, with curved contours and front-loading for A-spot and G-spot massage. It’s overall the best large dildo for fist preparation IMO.
• Tantus Fist Trainer – same firmness as the Bishop, but as the name suggests, the Fist Trainer is more pointed to emulate a duck-billed hand

If you’re not quite size royalty yet and need a little help rising through the ranks, keep reading.

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The pre-warm-up dildos

These dildos are a bit girthy but not quite extreme or beyond-human. They’re a great place to dip your toes in the water and see if huge dildos are suitable for you.

My top picks, from mild to wild:

• Dee’s Big Daddy Dante XL – long, squishy dildo for going deep
• Uberrime Divo – textured realistic dildo with grippy foreskin textures
• Uberrime Aqua-King – Aquaman-themed dildo with double-crowned head
• Pris Toys Syren – squish and textures galore for gripping the front wall
• Velvet Prime Sammie – compact self-thrusting dildo with girthy shaft and grippy veins
• Njoy Eleven – bludgeon-like stainless steel dildo
• VWELL’s SuperFit XL Dilator Kit – made specifically for expanding to above-average cocks

It’s hard to pick favorites from that list, but if I had to choose, the top three would be the Eleven, Sammie, and Dante XL.

What makes each of these fat dildos so special?

Comparison among the thick (but not too thick!) dildos

	Max Diameter	Mid-Shaft Diam.	Diam. Near Base	Usable Length	Firmness (Outer Layer)
VixSkin Outlaw	1.9	1.7	1.7	8.5	2
VixSkin Colossus	2.3*	1.7	1.7	6	2
Uberrime Aqua-King	2.1	1.7	1.7	7.5	5
njoy Eleven	2	1.7	n/a (no base)	9.5	F-ING HARD

We have a range of hardnesses, from VixSkin’s plush outer layer at a 2 and stainless steel being off the charts.

(The shore durometer I used was meant to measure soft rubbers. Also, since the Colossus is a sleeve with some stretch, its circumference is dependent on what you slip it over.)

As such, the Dante XL and Outlaw would be the most gentle-feeling among them. Consider also head shape. Uberrime’s Aqua-King feels the most intense of the silicone dildos in this section due to the combination of:

• Head-to-shaft contrast
• The pointed, sawtooth-like crowns
• The firmer silicone

But it can’t, of course, pummel my G-spot or A-spot with the njoy Eleven stainless steel dildo’s directness and sheer force.

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Dildo spotlight: b-Vibe’s vibrating fist dildo

Just check out my newer review of this vibrating fist and thank me later. It covers seven design details I love, from the smoothed-out knuckles to the orientation node on the base to the lube reservoir, so there’s minimal drip but lots of slip.

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The big tapered dildos & plugs

These dildos have pointy tips and ramp up in circumference for gradual vaginal stretching. They’re still challenging to consume in their entirety, but you can start with just the tip and ease into it.

My top picks, from mild to wild

• Squarepegtoys G Squeeze – super soft plug that ramps up in size and is way gentler than it looks
• Uberrime Kraken’s Revenge – textured tentacle dildo with curve for G-spot stimulation before you consume the whole shaft
• Uberrime Flora – floral fantasy dildo with a distinct, plug-like knot. Get the widest part of the bulb past your pubic bone, and let the tightest section of your vagina wrap around the Flora’s “neck.” It’s soft and fun to squeeze against the G-spot.
• b-Vibe’s Vibrating Fist – firmer but close to my hand size and more tapered, with vibrations and a handy-dandy lube reservoir
• Tantus Fist Trainer – Self-explanatory. Make no mistake: it is severe and far more advanced than the others in this section due to its firmness.

The Tantus Fist Trainer is among the firmest in this section, and it ramps up in girth the quickest. In contrast, the Deep Diver’s strength lies in its curvature and gradual gauge.

For a satisfying “popping” sensation against the G-spot or short-term vaginal plugging, I highly recommend the Squarepegtoys G Squeeze in a larger size or Uberrime Flora’s shape.

Squarepegtoys G Squeeze

The XL and XXL also made me cum instantly upon inserting and locking in the G Squeeze vaginal plug — and not just an orgasm, but an expansive one. Like, lasting longer than a minute with no effort on my part besides the initial penetration. Beyond that, the orgasms were hands-free. No thrusting, no rocking. Nothing. Just clenching and cumming and more clenching and more cumming.

And, of course, the XL and XXL G Squeezes are even more intense against the G‑spot when you turn them around. At these sizes and the super soft firmness, the G Squeeze vaginal plug is definitively a plug and not a dildo. Forget about thrusting or twisting; just squeeze around it.

—Squarepegtoys G Squeeze review

Squarepegtoys g squeeze review

Get the squarepegtoys g squeeze

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Plugs and wand massagers inserted vaginally

A.K.A. The “Off-Label” Uses

Oxballs Ergo super soft plugs

The Oxballs Ergo plugs come in a wide range of sizes for long-term wear — whatever your experience level with giant dildos or fisting. And they’re just fun to clench around.

Here’s how the Oxballs Ergo plugs I have measure up:

• Ergo XS – 1.3″ max width and 2.75″ insertable length
• Ergo L – 2.3″ max width and 5.75″ insertable length

Yeah, the Large is a huge butt plug, but my shore durometer barely registered the hardness at a 1. That’s how soft Oxballs’ super soft silicone is.

I’ve said it before: yes, you can use a huge butt plug vaginally, depending on the shape — though there are pussy plugs made exactly for that purpose.

Ideally, a vaginal plug would be:

• Slightly off-center
• Not too pointy
• Nice and squishy

That way, it won’t irritate your cervix too too much, and you can focus on the good part: enjoying vaginal stretching and preparing for what’s next.

Wand massagers used vaginally

Who looks at a fully silicone-coated wand massager and thinks, “Yeah, that looks yummy for sticking in my vagina”? Me. That’s who.

My favorite wands for insertion are the Dame Com, Swan Wand Classic, and We-Vibe Wand, all for different reasons.

Dame Com wand massager

The Dame Com is the most compact of the three but the most A-spotty and G-spotty. Between the girth, curve, and moderately-rumbly vibrations, I audibly insta-came the first time I tried the Dame Com internally.

Use it on a partner who craves huge dildos and watch them either beg for more or for you to stop because it’s so overwhelming.

BMS Factory Swan Wand

Meanwhile, the BMS Factory Swan Wand is even girthier for more extensive vaginal stretching and suuuper powerful. We’re talking like Hitachi-level. So if you’ve ever wanted to insert the Magic Wand, the BMS Factory Swan Wand is for you.

We-Vibe Wand 2

Finally, the We-Vibe Wand 2 is even THICCer but has a more tapered tip, meaning it can help you prepare for fisting without nearly as much urethral irritation. It also offers We-Connect capability, and its low, bass-like purr makes it the rumbliest rechargeable wand I’ve ever tried. Close to the strongest, and the deepest for sure.

	Max Diameter	Mid-Shaft Diam.	Usable Length
Dame Com	2	1.5	8
BMS Swan Wand	2.1	1.3	8
We-Vibe Wand	2.2	n/a	4

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The OMGs – big but squishy dildos

These dildos give more significant vaginal stretching than the “Pre-Warm-Ups” but are still quite squishy on the outside.

• VixSkin Cash – thick and filling AF but pliable
• SelfDelve Aubergine – enormous eggplant dildo that slips into all my hot spots

Remember when I said that, above 2.1” thickness, it’s exponentially harder to find big dildos? Yeah, we’re now veering further away from prominent manufacturers and more towards indie makers.

VixSkin Cash

Orgasms with the VixSkin Cash meld and flow into each other, like a slow merging where you can hardly tell where you end and the other entity begins. In this case, it’s silicone against skin.

And I wouldn’t blame you for forgetting that it’s silicone.

That’s the main thing you need to know about the VixSkin Cash: yes, it’s huge, but also soft and sumptuous.

Veins flow along the flesh-like, outermost silicone layer … It’s hot how its density mimics a real cock’s movement against my thumb and fingers

— my full VixSkin Cash huge dildo review

SelfDelve Aubergine / Eggplant dildo

Silly? Sure. Sensual? Hell, yeah.

It’s bluntly voluminous for sure […] Once the broadest part is past my pubic bone, however, its glossy silicone is all smooth sailing and endless, intense orgasms. […]

It’s squishy enough to conform to my pubic bone’s dip and tessellate against my G-spot, while fat and firm enough to give my G-spot intense resistance. […] And for deep penetration? My A-spot and cervix are pleased.

— my full SelfDelve Aubergine / Eggplant dildo review

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The OMFGs – huge realistic dildos & more

Cue ahegao hot drooling face emoji. These big dildos will definitely prepare you for fisting. Or enjoy them on their own. If you can rise to the challenge, explosive orgasms abound — same deal as in the above section, but take it to the next level. I don’t need to make the rest of this post pornographic, do I?

• Big Daddy Dallas XL – fills me up so perfectly, leaving me dizzy and dazed
• Dee’s Big Danny XXL – this review made the maker blush
• Big Daddy Drake XXXL – that time I consumed 9 inches of dragon dong
• Hankey’s Toys Topher Michels – makes me cum so fast; I’m a two-pump chump
• Uberron & Uberous – aaaaaaaaaaa
• Uberrime Anurian – AaAAAAAAaaAa
• Tantus Bishop, Fist Trainer – AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Affordable picks: BMS Addiction Roman and Blush Neo Elite 10″

Uberrime Anurian dildo bigger than soda can

THICK DOESN’T EVEN BEGIN TO DESCRIBE IT. IT IS VOLUPTUOUS. THERE’S SO MUCH OF IT, with 2.7″ maximum diameter. It’s a human-amphibian hybrid fantasy dildo with:

• A two-lobed, pointed head
• A swollen and round mushroom tip corona
• RIDGES GALORE along the frenulum and below
• A shaft that tapers down from 2.7″ to 1.8″, like an extreme vaginal plug

It’s sooooooo, so pretty and filling that I had to add it to this guide, more than a half year after I originally wrote it! JUST GET THE UBERRIME ANURIAN. OR READ MY NEAR-PORNOGRAPHIC REVIEW.

BMS Addiction Roman realistic silicone dildo

This huge realistic dildo with balls measures a whopping:

• 8″ total
• 6″ insertable
• 2.4″ across the widest part of the shaft
• 8A Shore density (a little firm and quite intense!)

The Addiction Roman is just another member (hah) of BMS Factory’s affordable realistic dildo line. As with all its siblings, the Roman dildo is body-safe silicone and an utter steal for the price.

Blush Novelties Neo Elite 10” dual-density dildo

The Neo Elite 10” and 11” are also among the best huge silicone dildos you can get for the price.

Vixen Randy (single-density)

I deeply respect how sumptuous dual-density dildos feel, but the Vixen Randy’s defined head and OG firmness feel fantastic against my G-spot. The Vixen Creations Randy curved girthy dildo is shown below on the left.

(Don’t worry, it’s not the center thing, lmfao.)

Uberrime Uberron (without balls) and Uberous (colossal dildo with balls)

These dildos are both veeerrry soft, with defined coronas and some vein and foreskin texture.

While they ramp up to similar diameters near the base, the Uberron has more of a taper to it. It increases from 2” wide at the head to a whopping 2.9” at the bottom. Meanwhile, the Uberous’s shaft diameters range from 2.1” to 2.6” wide. 

Hankey’s Toys Topher Michels

There’s a reason I simply refer to it as “the big, wrinkly ball sack dildo.” But also, it’s possibly the best extra large dildo for G-spot stimulation that I’ve tried.

There’s so much skin-like surface grain and veinage, especially highlighted by the glossy silicone surface. […] 

One of the most noticeable traits (besides the balls) is the engorged head. […] Combine that with the curved shaft for the seriously targeted stimulation that my G-spot sometimes craves.

Even with shallow penetration, I’m practically a 3-pump chump when using Mr. Hankey’s Toys’ Topher Michels.

— my full Hankey’s Toys Topher Michels Medium review

Hole Punch Toys Moonshiner

The Moonshiner silicone dildo is for anyone who’s wanted to insert a wine bottle, but safely. Enough said.

Comparison of these yuuuuge dildos

	Max Diameter	Mid-Shaft Diam.	Diam. Near Base	Usable Length	Firmness
BMS Naked Addiction Roman	2.4	2.1	2	6	12
NS Colours DP Pleasures (tips squeezed together)	2.7	2.7	2.9	6.5	14
Blush Neo Elite 10"	2.7	2.3	2.4	9	5
Vixen Randy	2.2	2	2.1	5.5	13
Uberrime Anurian	2.7	2.7	1.8	6.5	5
Uberrime Uberron	2.9	2.4	2.9	8	5
Uberrime Uberous	2.6	2.2	2.6	6.5	5
Hankey's Toys Topher Michels	2.7	2.6	2.7	7	3.5

All of the dildos in this section are adored and demi-godly. I refuse to choose my favorite. However, if you’re very specific in your behemoth dildo preferences, here are some considerations:

For G-spot stimulation with a vast, flared mushroom tip dildo, get the Hankey’s Toys Topher Michels (HUGE) or Vixen Randy (still huge. But not wildly so).

If you want something that ramps up more slowly for deeper penetration, get the Uberrime Uberron or Uberous.

Not for me, but you do you

I can admit my limits — no shame in that.

The Split Peaches Screw You Large sounded manageable on paper, but its firmness and intense textures were too much for me. And the Tantus Pawn XL was way bigger than expected — 3” across the head instead of 2” across, and it only ramps up from there.

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Key takeaways from this mega-guide to fisting and giant dildos

1. Fisting can be a beautifully intimate act.

2. The pelvic floor muscles can be both flexible and strong. You don’t have to explain that to anyone.

3. Relaxation is of the utmost importance when preparing for fisting. Pair external stimulation with penetration. Work through a challenging girth by pausing, breathing slowly, then cycling through long phases of clenching and relaxing. You don’t have to push the insertable deeper continuously.

4. The hand is duck-billed while fisting. Once you’re inside, you can close the fist if you want, but it’s not necessary.

5. While you don’t NEED big dildos to prepare for fisting, having toys makes it easier for everyone involved. Thickness certainly matters in choosing a fisting warm-up dildo, but so does firmness.

6. Huge dildos can cause intense sensations and uncontrollable orgasms with even the smallest thrusts.

And I want more people to experience the pleasure of fisting.

Nowadays, I don’t even count how many people I’ve slept with anymore; I just count how often I’ve been the first person someone fisted.

Further reading: Girth Game Level-Up: SuperFit XL dilator kit review & how-to