Category: Dating & Hookups

5 Top Online Dating Platforms: what my friends & I think of them 1

5 Top Online Dating Platforms: what my friends & I think of them

I've had a lot of expe­ri­ence with meet­ing friends, roman­tic part­ners, and busi­ness alliances from the inter­net — nowa­days, it's an essen­tial tool for social­iz­ing. Naturally, my friends and I…

4 Shitty Dating Advice Marketing Ploys I'm Sick of Seeing 8

4 Shitty Dating Advice Marketing Ploys I'm Sick of Seeing

I'm grossed out by preda­to­ry online mar­ket­ing towards women deal­ing with con­fu­sion and heartache. I get that, when you're strug­gling, a quick web search here and there can be ther­a­peu­tic for…

The Polite Way to Break Up (With Your Therapist) 15

The Polite Way to Break Up (With Your Therapist)

It's not easy to share your dark­est thoughts with some­one and trust that they'll under­stand — let alone advise with a har­mo­nious bal­ance between accep­tance and growth. And when a…

How to "Date Yourself" 16

How to "Date Yourself"

After British Vogue inter­viewed Emma Watson, the media fix­at­ed on the 20 sec­onds where she talked about being sin­gle and "self-partnered." It was a con­ver­sa­tion where she spoke about mental…

4 Common Misconceptions About Sex-Positive Bloggers 23

4 Common Misconceptions About Sex-Positive Bloggers

When I reveal that I'm a sex toy review­er, I some­times hear vari­a­tions of "Really?! But you're so quiet/wholesome/[insert anoth­er syn­onym for demure]!" On a bad day, I might clap back,…

My Past Sexy Side Hustles & Free Stuff (Beyond Reviews!) 29

My Past Sexy Side Hustles & Free Stuff (Beyond Reviews!)

In the cur­rent gig econ­o­my, you've prob­a­bly heard Millennial femme friends joke about sug­ar[ baby]ing, finan­cial dom­i­na­tion, or sell­ing used panties to pay off stu­dent loans. Or just for extra…

4 Great Reasons to Consider Hiring an Escort 34

4 Great Reasons to Consider Hiring an Escort

An escort's job is to make fan­tasies hap­pen, immers­ing clients in the expe­ri­ence. It often goes beyond phys­i­cal grat­i­fi­ca­tion to include psy­cho­log­i­cal cap­ti­va­tion and emo­tion­al com­fort. And for that, I…

Why I Don't Hunt For "Unicorns" / FFM Threesomes 36

Why I Don't Hunt For "Unicorns" / FFM Threesomes

Given a long enough time­line, prac­ti­cal­ly every straight dude I've been with has asked me for: an FFM three­some, espe­cial­ly with one of my (unspec­i­fied) cis female friends butt stuff, but with…