"Pillow Princess": 5 Ways I'm Reclaiming the Title
The orgasm ratio between me and my male partners is easily over 10:1 — 10 of mine for every one of theirs. I'm having a good time, and so are they.…
Category: Dating & Hookups
Q&A: What's it like to be a male escort?
For me personally, [being a good man] means facing and resolving biases that I may have regarding the idea of gender equality and helping other men resolve them, too. Guest…
7 Questions to Unfuck Your Love Life & Yourself
Can you journal your way to a more fulfilling, better love life? I certainly think so. It takes a degree of introspection to discern one's own: … along with their partners'…
I'm Ready to Start Dating. Now What?
I went on dates with 22 people within 13 months between relationships. People get exhausted, just hearing that statistic. While meeting people to date is often simple, it’s not necessarily easy —…
3 Must-Have Pleasure Products For Couples: Tongue-Tied, Wicked Jelle, & The Layer
Ignite the passion and keep it going. While I love using toys to spice it up, this list is about other sultry accessories and add-ons that couples would especially adore.…
4 Shitty Dating Advice Marketing Ploys I'm Sick of Seeing
I'm grossed out by predatory online marketing towards women dealing with confusion and heartache. I get that, when you're struggling, a quick web search here and there can be therapeutic…
The Polite Way to Break Up (With Your Therapist)
It's not easy to share your darkest thoughts with someone and trust that they'll understand — let alone advise with a harmonious balance between acceptance and growth. And when a…
How to "Date Yourself"
After British Vogue interviewed Emma Watson, the media fixated on the 20 seconds where she talked about being single and "self-partnered." It was a conversation where she spoke about mental…
4 Common Misconceptions About Sex-Positive Bloggers
When I reveal that I'm a sex toy reviewer, I sometimes hear variations of "Really?! But you're so quiet/wholesome/[insert another synonym for demure]!" On a bad day, I might clap…
My Past Sexy Side Hustles & Free Stuff (Beyond Reviews!)
In the current gig economy, you've probably heard Millennial femme friends joke about sugar babying, financial domination, or selling used panties to pay off student loans. Or just for extra…
4 Great Reasons to Consider Hiring an Escort
An escort's job is to make fantasies happen, immersing clients in the experience. It often goes beyond physical gratification to include psychological captivation and emotional comfort. And for that, I…
Why I Don't Hunt For "Unicorns" / FFM Threesomes
Given a long enough timeline, practically every straight dude I've been with has asked me for: an FFM threesome, especially with one of my (unspecified) cis female friends butt stuff, but…