Partnered sex is one of the most complicated things we're expected to teach ourselves. Some parts come naturally, while others are less intuitive at first. Here are some small adjustments in the bedroom that can have an explosive impact. 1.…
by Super Smash Cache · Published April 14, 2019
· Last modified March 12, 2024
[Content warning: this post contains recollection of sexual assault. If that's a hard topic for you, skip #5.] I wish we talked about chlamydia the way we talk about strep throat. It's not the infection that terrifies people — a…
by Super Smash Cache · Published February 12, 2019
· Last modified February 6, 2024
ANY SEX TOY CAN BE A COUPLE'S TOY IF YOU USE IT WITH A PARTNER. Some toys, though, are more convenient to combine with particular partnered activities than others. These are my top picks, from a mostly vanilla standpoint (kinkier…
by Super Smash Cache · Published November 13, 2018
· Last modified August 10, 2023
As much as I love my gigantic dildos, they're not the most practical toys to take with me when I'm on-the-go or visiting family. Sometimes, I have only a backpack to fit my belongings in for the week. I'm an adult,…
by Super Smash Cache · Published September 27, 2018
· Last modified September 19, 2023
Back in 2018, I had the freedom to display what I (at the time thought) was a metric fuckton of toys. Times have changed a lot: I have way more now! But I have fond memories of the built-in bookshelf…
by Super Smash Cache · Published June 17, 2018
· Last modified September 19, 2023
American cock vs. European cock: have you ever wondered the difference? Or had aspirations to travel the world and, maybe in the process, hook up with lovers of different cultural backgrounds? If you're an in the U.S., you might (depending on the…
by Super Smash Cache · Published June 8, 2018
· Last modified September 19, 2023
Vaginal weightlifting is so much more than just a fetish party trick! It's also one of many fun ways to cultivate increased sexual sensitivity or stronger, longer orgasms. Orgasms aren't everything, but who wouldn't want to maximize their enjoyment? For people with…
by Super Smash Cache · Published June 4, 2018
· Last modified March 12, 2024
Social media detoxing can be a radical self-care step in today's hyper-connected world. Of course, I'm hardly the first to say that. Telling someone to quit Facebook (or just cut down) is kind of like telling them to meditate, express…
by Super Smash Cache · Published March 8, 2018
· Last modified September 19, 2023
If you're an art student, you've probably seen most of your friends naked in each other's art. Nudity just isn't a big deal in artsy communities— as a matter of fact, it's necessary and standard for learning about the human…
by Super Smash Cache · Published February 10, 2018
· Last modified March 5, 2024
Sometimes, it feels like everyone loves the Hitachi Magic Wand Original except me. "May I introduce you to the Hitachi?" "You NEED a Hitachi!" "It's the Cadillac of Vibrators!" "It can make anyone orgasm!" I'll be the combo-breaker and say…
by Super Smash Cache · Published January 26, 2018
· Last modified August 13, 2023
Like many other Americans, I grew up with the vague notion that foreskin was something that some people removed, but didn't know much beyond that. I didn't know that most of the world doesn't circumcise. Moreover, I didn't know what…
by Super Smash Cache · Published January 21, 2018
· Last modified August 10, 2023
Cervical orgasms are perhaps the most polarizing type of orgasms. Some people feel like their cervix and the surrounding areas (the vaginal fornices) are divine white light. Others can't fathom that playing around a body part associated with deep OB-GYN…