Category: Articles & features

How to Cast a DIY Silicone Dildo at Home 1

How to Cast a DIY Silicone Dildo at Home

If you're a reg­u­lar read­er of my blog, you prob­a­bly already agree that dil­dos can be high­ly col­lectible pieces of art. They're func­tion­al tools, but it sure as hell helps me get excit­ed when I find a dil­do aes­thet­i­cal­ly pleasing.…

Top 10 Best Sex Toys of 2019 & Year-End Recap 2

Top 10 Best Sex Toys of 2019 & Year-End Recap

My 2019 read like the premise for a Netflix Original sit­com: the tri­als and tribu­la­tions of a nomadic sex toy review blog­ger. For extra spice, throw in: The insta­bil­i­ty of my liv­ing sit­u­a­tion gave some busi­ness part­ners a chuck­le. "Oh,…

My Past Sexy Side Hustles & Free Stuff (Beyond Reviews!) 3

My Past Sexy Side Hustles & Free Stuff (Beyond Reviews!)

In the cur­rent gig econ­o­my, you've prob­a­bly heard Millennial femme friends joke about sug­ar baby­ing, finan­cial dom­i­na­tion, or sell­ing used panties to pay off stu­dent loans. Or just for extra spend­ing mon­ey. It's not a myth— there's no short­age of…

4 Countries Where Traveling With or Buying Sex Toys Is Illegal 5

4 Countries Where Traveling With or Buying Sex Toys Is Illegal

Sex blog­ging comes with perks like jack­ing off for work, but down­sides like trav­el lim­i­ta­tions. The right to buy sex toys is one that I admit­ted­ly take for grant­ed. It's not a minor priv­i­lege. Without dil­dos, I couldn't effec­tive­ly massage…

10 A-Spotty Dildos For Deep Penetration and Cervix Massage 12

10 A-Spotty Dildos For Deep Penetration and Cervix Massage

Sex Toys That Target the Anterior and Posterior Fornices Discovering cer­vi­cal orgasms changed my sex life. For myself, the orgasms from deep pen­e­tra­tion feel like potent hits of oxy­tocin — heart-​​eyes emo­jis and implo­sions far more full-​​bodied than cli­toral or…

Why I Don't Hunt For "Unicorns" / FFM Threesomes 14

Why I Don't Hunt For "Unicorns" / FFM Threesomes

Given a long enough time­line, prac­ti­cal­ly every straight dude I've been with has asked me for: an FFM three­some, espe­cial­ly with one of my (unspec­i­fied) cis female friends butt stuff, but with only me receiv­ing My response to the for­mer used…

5 Easy Ways to Have Better Sex 16

5 Easy Ways to Have Better Sex

Partnered sex is one of the most com­pli­cat­ed things we're expect­ed to teach our­selves. Some parts come nat­u­ral­ly, while oth­ers are less intu­itive at first. Here are some small adjust­ments in the bed­room that can have an explo­sive impact. 1.…

STIs & What I Wish More People Knew About Them 17

STIs & What I Wish More People Knew About Them

[Content warn­ing: this post con­tains rec­ol­lec­tion of sex­u­al assault. If that's a hard top­ic for you, skip #5.] I wish we talked about chlamy­dia the way we talk about strep throat. It's not the infec­tion that ter­ri­fies peo­ple — a…

Top 10 Sex Toys & Products for Partner Play 18

Top 10 Sex Toys & Products for Partner Play

Practically any sex toy can be a couple's toy if you use it with a part­ner. Some toys, though, are more con­ve­nient to com­bine with cer­tain part­nered activ­i­ties than oth­ers. These are my top picks, from a most­ly vanil­la standpoint…

A guide to organizing your sex tools for easy access and fun presentation!

5 Ways to Optimize Sex Toy Storage & Organization!

Back in 2018, I had the free­dom to dis­play what I (at the time thought) was a met­ric fuck­ton of toys. Times have changed a lot: I have way more now! But I have fond mem­o­ries of the built-​​in bookshelf…