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How to Cast a DIY Silicone Dildo at Home 1

How to Cast a DIY Silicone Dildo at Home

If you’re a reg­u­lar read­er of my blog, you prob­a­bly already agree that dil­dos can be high­ly col­lectible pieces of art. They’re func­tion­al tools, but it sure as hell helps me get excit­ed when I find a dil­do aes­thet­i­cal­ly pleasing.…

Top 10 Best Sex Toys of 2019 & Year-End Recap 5

Top 10 Best Sex Toys of 2019 & Year-End Recap

My 2019 read like the premise for a Netflix Original sit­com: the tri­als and tribu­la­tions of a nomadic sex toy review blog­ger. For extra spice, throw in: the Millennial angst of an unused bach­e­lor’s degree the end of a year-and-a-half rela­tion­ship scream­ing matches…

My Past Sexy Side Hustles & Free Stuff (Beyond Reviews!) 20

My Past Sexy Side Hustles & Free Stuff (Beyond Reviews!)

In the cur­rent gig econ­o­my, you’ve prob­a­bly heard Millennial femme friends joke about sug­ar[ baby]ing, finan­cial dom­i­na­tion, or sell­ing used panties to pay off stu­dent loans. Or just for extra spend­ing mon­ey. It’s not a myth— there’s no short­age of…

Choosing the Best Anal Toys (for Beginner & Intermediate Play) 25

Choosing the Best Anal Toys (for Beginner & Intermediate Play)

My vagi­na is size roy­al­ty, but my butt is a plug ple­beian. Even if I had­n’t men­tioned that before in a review, you might have noticed my rel­a­tive lack of posts about anal play. It’s not because I haven’t put…

5 Countries Where Traveling With or Buying Sex Toys Is Illegal 27

5 Countries Where Traveling With or Buying Sex Toys Is Illegal

Sex blog­ging comes with perks like jack­ing off for work, but down­sides like trav­el lim­i­ta­tions. The right to buy sex toys is one that I admit­ted­ly take for grant­ed. It’s not a minor priv­i­lege. Without dil­dos, I could­n’t effec­tive­ly mas­sage my…

10 A-Spotty Dildos For Deep Penetration and Cervix Massage 34

10 A‑Spotty Dildos For Deep Penetration and Cervix Massage

Sex Toys That Target the Anterior and Posterior Fornices Discovering cer­vi­cal orgasms changed my sex life. For myself, the orgasms from deep pen­e­tra­tion feel like potent hits of oxy­tocin — heart-eyes emo­jis and implo­sions far more full-bodied than cli­toral or G‑spot orgasms.…

Why I Don't Hunt For "Unicorns" / FFM Threesomes 36

Why I Don’t Hunt For “Unicorns” / FFM Threesomes

Given a long enough time­line, prac­ti­cal­ly every straight dude I’ve been with has asked me for: an FFM three­some, espe­cial­ly with one of my (unspec­i­fied) cis female friends butt stuff, but with only me receiv­ing My response to the for­mer used to be,…

5 Easy Ways to Have Better Sex 38

5 Easy Ways to Have Better Sex

Partnered sex is one of the most com­pli­cat­ed things we’re expect­ed to teach our­selves. Some parts come nat­u­ral­ly, while oth­ers are less intu­itive at first. Here are some small adjust­ments in the bed­room that can have an explo­sive impact. Adjust your breathing…

What I learned about STIs the hard way (and what else kept me up at night) 45

What I learned about STIs the hard way (and what else kept me up at night)

[Content warn­ing: sex­u­al assault. If that’s a hard top­ic for you, skip #5.] I wish we talked about chlamy­dia the way we talk about strep throat. It’s not the infec­tion that ter­ri­fies peo­ple, but the stig­ma of sex­u­al abnor­mal­i­ty. It’s the…

My top 10 sex toys & products for partner play 46

My top 10 sex toys & products for partner play

Sex toys are for peo­ple from all walks of life— not just sin­gle cis­women this Valentine’s Day. And prac­ti­cal­ly any sex toy can be a cou­ples’ toy if you use it with a part­ner. Some toys, though, are more convenient…

Exposed Nocturnal Bullet, Maia Jessi, and Avant Pride P1 in sunglasses case

10 travel-friendly sex toys that discreetly fit in a sunglasses case

As much as I love my gigan­tic dil­dos, they’re not the most prac­ti­cal toys to take with me when I’m on-the-go or vis­it­ing fam­i­ly. Sometimes, I have only a back­pack to fit my belong­ings in for the week. A bulky VixSkin…