Category: Sex Ed

STIs & What I Wish More People Knew About Them 1

STIs & What I Wish More People Knew About Them

[Content warn­ing: this post con­tains rec­ol­lec­tion of sex­u­al assault. If that's a hard top­ic for you, skip #5.] I wish we talked about chlamy­dia the way we talk about strep throat. It's not the infec­tion that ter­ri­fies peo­ple — a…

Top 10 Sex Toys & Products for Partner Play 2

Top 10 Sex Toys & Products for Partner Play

ANY SEX TOY CAN BE A COUPLE'S TOY IF YOU USE IT WITH A PARTNER. Some toys, though, are more con­ve­nient to com­bine with par­tic­u­lar part­nered activ­i­ties than oth­ers. These are my top picks, from a most­ly vanil­la stand­point (kinki­er…

A guide to organizing your sex tools for easy access and fun presentation!

5 Ways to Optimize Sex Toy Storage & Organization!

Back in 2018, I had the free­dom to dis­play what I (at the time thought) was a met­ric fuck­ton of toys. Times have changed a lot: I have way more now! But I have fond mem­o­ries of the built-​​in bookshelf…

Fun with foreskin: tips, techniques, and .GIFs! 3

Fun with foreskin: tips, techniques, and .GIFs!

American cock vs. European cock: have you ever won­dered the dif­fer­ence? Or had aspi­ra­tions to trav­el the world and, maybe in the process, hook up with lovers of dif­fer­ent cul­tur­al back­grounds? If you're an in the U.S., you might (depend­ing on the…

Vaginal Weightlifting & Ways to Make Kegels Fun 4

Vaginal Weightlifting & Ways to Make Kegels Fun

Vaginal weightlift­ing is so much more than just a fetish par­ty trick! It's also one of many fun ways to cul­ti­vate increased sex­u­al sen­si­tiv­i­ty or stronger, longer orgasms. Orgasms aren't every­thing, but who wouldn't want to max­i­mize their enjoy­ment? For peo­ple with…

Cervical Orgasms & Stimulation: a BS-Free Guide to Deep Erogenous Zones 5

Cervical Orgasms & Stimulation: a BS-Free Guide to Deep Erogenous Zones

Cervical orgasms are per­haps the most polar­iz­ing type of orgasms. Some peo­ple feel like their cervix and the sur­round­ing areas (the vagi­nal for­nices) are divine white light. Others can't fath­om that play­ing around a body part asso­ci­at­ed with deep OB-GYN…

6 Reasons Why "Vibrator Addiction" is BULLSHIT 6

6 Reasons Why "Vibrator Addiction" is BULLSHIT

Even the most sup­port­ive friends can have mis­con­cep­tions. "I don't know how you still have sen­si­tiv­i­ty," I often hear when I talk about my We-​​Vibe Tango. "Don't vibra­tors numb you? I mean, a man can't com­pete with that." My short answer is, "No,…

The G-Spot Exists. Cut the Pedantic Semantics. 7

The G-Spot Exists. Cut the Pedantic Semantics.

The G‑spot is the area of, for many peo­ple, sen­si­tive tis­sue on the front wall of the vagi­na, near where the pubic bone recedes. It's nick­named such because Gräfenberg coined the name for it in the 1970s. Bullshit claim: “The…

Blow job glitch art

4 Tips For Basic Blowjob Troubleshooting

An anony­mous fol­low­er asked this ques­tion about oral sex: Hello, when I give blowjobs to my boyfriend, some­times he shakes and quiv­ers but recent­ly he has stopped doing that. He also has nev­er come from blowjobs and so I'm won­der­ing if…