External clitoral massage that stimulates even the parts you can’t see The first two nights that I was intimate with my partner, our go-to activity wasn’t intercourse or oral or butt stuff or fingering or handjobs. Instead, we gravitated towards...
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by · Published December 2, 2020 · Last modified December 4, 2020
Getting my period is sweet, sweet psychological relief — and not because I’m avoiding pregnancy. The beginning of menstruation for me marks the end of the worst phase of my cycle. My illness gave me a 1 in 3 chance...
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by · Published November 15, 2020 · Last modified January 20, 2021
Sex toys aren’t just for ciswomen! There’s a plethora of sex toys for penises out there, from strokers and sleeves to pumps and prostate massagers. If you’re looking to try sensations beyond what your hands alone can offer, you’ve come...
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by · Published October 25, 2020 · Last modified January 20, 2021
Stuck in a sex toy sea of pink, purple, and cadaver beige? Fuck that. Nix the gendered marketing and stroll through my sex toy collection: the lush dildo forest where teals, greens, and powder blues are abundant. We’ll make it...
Looking for your G-spot or A-spot? Exploring your cervical fornices and deep spot for the first time? The 321 (Blast Off) and Seahorse acrylic dildos by Lovey Productions are perfect for that! They are exactly what my vagina needed when...
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by · Published October 3, 2020 · Last modified October 21, 2020
“Let’s just say she’s ‘open’ to new things,” someone commented on a viral video of my sex toy collection. Big dildos are among the most polarizing and stigmatized toys for women. Strangers have made all sorts of rude remarks and...
Sex Ed / Guides / Techniques & Health
by · Published September 24, 2020 · Last modified October 29, 2020
How often have you heard the bullshit that female anatomy is confusing? Or worse, that male orgasms are a given, while female orgasms are distant and otherworldly? I’m here to tell you that vulvas and vaginas aren’t especially complicated. They...
How to Pick What Best Suits Your Needs WRITTEN BY SUPER SMASH CACHE / ILLUSTRATIONS BY SARAH WILLIAMSON If you’re overwhelmed by a pleasure boutique’s gadgets and gizmos, you’re not alone. Let’s start with the two broadest categories of sex toys:...
Chastity play and cock cages may seem brutal and otherworldly to the vanillas. “Do people ACTUALLY get turned on by that?” one might think. But the kink is more common than people realize. Just like anyone you walk past could...