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by · Published September 30, 2019 · Last modified November 16, 2019
Sex Toys That Target the Anterior and Posterior Fornixes [This article is a repost with some edits. I originally wrote it for Spectrum Journal.] Discovering cervical orgasms changed my sex life. For myself, the orgasms from deep penetration feel like...
Butt stuff is one of the great equalizers— everyone has a butt. So why haven’t I written a guide about it yet? The truth is that the folx at b-Vibe can (and do) present anal play far more cohesively and...
The second time I ever got stoned, I had orgasms for 20 minutes straight. It happened about five years ago— at the time, I thought it was an unusual occurrence for my body. However, I’ve since cultivated my orgasms to...
Partnered sex is one of the most complicated things we’re expected to teach ourselves. Some parts come naturally, while others are less intuitive at first. Here are some small adjustments in the bedroom that can have an explosive impact. Adjust...
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by · Published April 14, 2019 · Last modified April 15, 2019
[Content warning: sexual assault. If that’s a hard topic for you, skip #5.] I wish we talked about chlamydia the way we talk about strep throat. It’s not the infection that terrifies people, but the stigma of sexual abnormality. It’s...
I love carrying heavy objects in my vagina, as anyone who has read my review of the 1.5lb (680g) njoy Pure Wand knows. But it’s not exactly practical to walk around all day with a big hunk of steel hanging out...
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by · Published September 21, 2018 · Last modified October 4, 2019
When I moved to a new state, one of the first things I did was check out a nearby sex shop. There, my boyfriend and I found a Picobong Remoji Lifeguard cock ring on clearance for $20 (regular price: $100), and...
American cock vs. European cock: have you ever wondered the difference? Or had aspirations to travel the world and, maybe in the process, hook up with lovers of different cultural backgrounds? If you’re an in the U.S., you might (depending on the...
Vaginal weightlifting is so much more than just a fetish party trick! It’s also one of many fun ways to cultivate increased sexual sensitivity or stronger, longer orgasms. Orgasms aren’t everything, but who wouldn’t want to maximize their enjoyment? For people with...
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by · Published March 28, 2018 · Last modified August 27, 2018
“What made you try fisting?” my straight friends asked me. Frankly, I had always found fisting hot. I had fisted a woman before. I knew that receiving a fist was something other people did, but I thought it was a...
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by · Published January 26, 2018 · Last modified October 6, 2018
Like many other Americans, I grew up with the vague notion that foreskin was something people removed, but didn’t know much beyond that. I didn’t know that most of the world doesn’t circumcise. Moreover, I didn’t know what purpose foreskin...
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by · Published January 21, 2018 · Last modified October 1, 2019
Cervical orgasms are perhaps the most polarizing type of orgasms. Some people feel like their cervix and the surrounding areas (the vaginal fornices) are divine white light. Others can’t fathom that playing around a body part associated with pap smears...
