BMS Factory Pillow Talk Sassy review: powerful G-spot vibrator
My clitoris is discerning differently from many reviewers’. Where most prioritize power, I care a lot more about range and control. And when I use the Pillow Talk Sassy, I get to have it all— the combination of rumble and range is almost the epitome of what my clitoris finds essential.
For $43, I would have fangirled over just using this vibrator externally, fine-tuning the speed for multiple back-to-back orgasms. The G-spotting head, though, totally sealed the deal. I want to make every effort to be buried in the tomb with the Pillow Talk Sassy when I die.
With the PowerBullet technology that BMS Factory is known for, the Sassy is plenty rumbly and powerful. And not just that, but its continuous range of speeds is unparalleled by just about any other vibrator I’ve ever tried. That’s what makes it my go-to.
The Pillow Talk Sassy as a G-spot vibrator
First things first: the Sassy is an insertable vibrator with a 1.5″ wide head, a generously curved G-spotting neck, and a flexible shaft. Its head is only slightly bulbous— moderate circumference, and not super round or front-loaded. It also has 5″ of insertable length, allowing it to hit a variety of G-spot depths.
For me and many others, this vibrator will fall into a “Goldilocks” happy medium. The front-facing part of the tip is just slightly flattened, and enough to knead my G-spot, but still round enough to thrust.
The bulbousness and curve are enough to nestle along the curve of my pubic bone and stay there. There’s no awkwardly straight tapering that makes my vagina want to suck in the tip way past the G-spot.
All in all, the Sassy’s head is a gentle option for easy aiming without being super rigid or direct. However, if you want something more intensely curved but still flexible, you may want to consider the Embrace G Wand (more on that in the next two sections) for its rounder, more bulbous head. If you do want something rigid, consider the Swan Wand.
Why is speed control so important to me?
If you consider the kind of manual stimulation I like, it may put my pickiness into perspective. With a partner’s finger on my clit, I tell him to slow down after I orgasm, and then pick up the speed again to go for another. Stimulation speed needs to be very strategic if I want to cut the refractory period between orgasms and have many in quick succession.
I’m more sensitive right after an orgasm, so continuing to go fast kills my pleasure plateau. For this reason, if I turn up a vibrator’s speed to quickly push myself over the edge, I want either a.) a subtle but discernible speed change, or b.) to quickly be able to turn the speed back down.
Great G-spot vibrators for speed control
For option a., the BMS Factory Pillow Talk Sassy is hands-down the best fit for me I have ever tried, featuring a continuous range of steady speeds. They’re all controlled by one button, which may bother some users. However, after an orgasm, I find it easy enough to quickly press the button and hold it to ramp the speed back up.
For option b., the Embrace G Wand has a 3-button control panel that allows me to turn the speed up and down quickly. I love both of them for different reasons. The Embrace G Wand has more precise and intuitive control, but the Sassy is rumblier and has far more vibration range on both the slow end and the fast end of the speed spectrum.
I find that because the Pillow Talk Sassy‘s vibrations are deeper than the Embrace G’s, its lower speeds and its higher speeds both are more enjoyable.
BMS Factory’s PowerBullet® vibrators
Honestly, I almost declined to review the Pillow Talk Sassy because of its generic appearance. Probably 80% of the reason that I wanted to try it was because I knew that BMS Factory designed it with a rechargeable Powerbullet motor.
Every single Powerbullet toy I had ever tried had terrific vibrations. Every last one: the Jopen Lust L2, Swan Wand, and now, the Pillow Talk Sassy. To get a better idea of how powerful a Powerbullet vibrator can be, consider that the BMS Factory Palmpower Wand is touted as a lightweight alternative to the Hitachi.
And I’m not just saying that PowerBullet is impressive just to say it; concrete attributes make it so. The only one that you probably care about, though, is that the copper weight in the motor is more massive than most vibrators’. As a result, the vibrations are deeper and richer. There’s literally more weight to them.
I was so impressed upon turning the Sassy on and hearing how low the motor purred. And it’s not a “why does this weak-ass setting exist?” type of low-speed. It’s rumbly enough that it doesn’t need high speeds to compensate. Quite the contrary! The low speed helps me appreciate the rumble even more.
When I escalated the speed, I thought to myself at some point, “HOW ARE THERE EVEN HIGHER SPEEDS THAN WHAT I WAS ON JUST NOW?”
Storage and cleaning
This vibrator comes with, of course, a charger, but also, the charger is labeled! There’s also a sturdy box, a satin pouch, and cleaning brush.
The vibrator itself body-safe silicone. You can use water-based or oil-based lube with it, and clean it with soap and water. If you want to disinfect it, spray the insertable portion with a mild bleach solution. It’s splash-proof but not submersible, so don’t let it sit in bleach. I also suggest keeping bleach away from the metal part on the handle to avoid corrosion.
That brings me to my next point: there’s a lot of texture on the handle. It’s a non-factor for me because, to reach my G-spot, I don’t use much of the shaft. Thus, my vag gunk and lube rarely get near the handle. I hesitate to use it for cervix stimulation. If you do insert this vibrator deeply, the included cleaning brush helps dig into the nooks and crannies of the toy’s surface.
Overall thoughts on the BMS Pillow Talk Sassy
I wouldn’t recommend the Sassy people who want…
- pinpoint stimulation – consider a Jopen Lust L2 or Leaf Life
- a more generous curve – consider instead the California Exotics G Wand, which is still flexible but more bulbous
- a rigid G-spotting neck – try the Mini Swan Wand
- to reach a full-speed boost right away— it does take a few seconds to ramp up
- any pattern settings at all
- something that won’t vibrate their hand— the handle’s vibrations are definitely there, but they’re no worse than the LELO Mona 2‘s
I would recommend the Sassy to people who…
- prioritize a huge vibration range
- want an affordable but rumbly G-spot vibrator
- like having low, purring vibrations to warm up
- turn up vibration speed for multiple orgasms
The one significant change I’d make is to add a “down” button, but for the price tag, I’m not complaining. If you think you might fan squeal over PowerBullet as much as I do, you can get the Pillow Talk Sassy from Peepshow Toys in pink or baby blue for $43.
I received this item in exchange for my thorough, honest, and unbiased review. I do use affiliate links throughout my posts. However, if I don’t care for a toy, I’ll let you know, even if it goes the grain, or if I wanted to like the toy. Thank you, Peepshow Toys!