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Why Do Men Buy & Jack Off to Women’s Used Panties?

What kind of man buys and sniffs used panties? Is he a per­vert? A los­er cuck? A fetishist, or kinky, or just some­one being a reg­u­lar wank­ing dude? He could be any or all of the above — it’s in the…

3 Emotional Needs of Sext Chat & Femdom Enthusiasts 1

3 Emotional Needs of Sext Chat & Femdom Enthusiasts

"I work with men's men­tal health" is how I'd euphem­ize my work as a pro-​Domme. And it's the truth. When a client is com­pelled to spend thou­sands of dol­lars a month to talk to me, it's not (just) because he…

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Sultry Body Care: My Favorite Lube, Massage, CBD, Pheromones & More!

Pairing potions and lotions with your gad­gets and giz­mos galore Whether you're driz­zling on dil­dos or lap­ping lube off a part­ner, you deserve to know the sex­u­al well­ness and body care prod­ucts I've: This mega-​​guide includes lubes, lotions, arousal gels,…

Domina Decoded: 5 Femdom Principles for Male Obedience 2

Domina Decoded: 5 Femdom Principles for Male Obedience

Master female dom­i­nance and male sub­mis­sion, rule over him, and have him eat­ing out of your hand. Men's myr­i­ad moti­va­tions for sex go beyond the phys­i­cal release — even with the slight­est graze under the psyche's sur­face. Just a few reasons…

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7 Steamy Skills For Soft Dominant Dirty Talk

Torment with plea­sure and dis­ci­pline with praise. Soft Domination can have a hard-​​hitting psy­cho­log­i­cal impact with tears of over­whelm and ecsta­sy — no chains or whips nec­es­sary. Our focus here is the brain and cun­ning lin­guis­tics. So you want to…

To Rock My World, Stop Asking, "Did You Cum?" 5

To Rock My World, Stop Asking, "Did You Cum?"

Your part­ner deserves bet­ter than flat­ten­ing inti­ma­cy down to a pass/​​fail grade. Go deep­er. You deserve play­ful teas­ing and ban­ter like, “Tell me what you want. Use your words. I know you can do it,” while watch­ing the oth­er person…

SELF-LOVE SPOTLIGHT: The Selfish Sensualist 6

SELF-LOVE SPOTLIGHT: The Selfish Sensualist

Because self-​​love is about so much more than sex toys. On Valentine's Day of 2023, I con­tin­ued my "tra­di­tion" of giv­ing away an ever­last­ing rose, cour­tesy of Spectrum Boutique — and oth­er good­ies to make your self-​​love a lit­tle more luxurious.…

3 Types of Submissives Who LOVE Cock Cages! 8

3 Types of Submissives Who LOVE Cock Cages!

Why male chasti­ty is more ver­sa­tile than you might think “I want to drink cum out of your ass with a straw,” ini­ti­at­ed a new naughty chat cus­tomer. Oh, you’re one of thooooose peo­ple, my inner mono­logue observed. I've heard…

High Libido Woman: Nature or Nurture? 9

High Libido Woman: Nature or Nurture?

Am I con­sti­tu­tion­al­ly wired to be hornier than the aver­age woman, or is there a "nur­ture" com­po­nent that I have inter­nal­ized? Today, we exam­ine some of the exter­nal fac­tors influ­enc­ing a woman's high libido ⁠— and her will­ing­ness to act…

Are Creampies a Kink? Why Are People Into Them? 10

Are Creampies a Kink? Why Are People Into Them?

On today’s episode of pas­sion­ate, play­ful seman­tics: are creamp­ies a kink? Cue Carrie Bradshaw typ­ing at her Macbook with the voiceover, “And I couldn’t help but won­der…” Some of my read­ers have said, “If you call them creamp­ies, they def­i­nite­ly are…