In March of 2022, Fun Factory USA interviewed me for their blog post, “6 Truths about Dating Sex Industry Pros.” I — along with four other sexuality professionals — spilled the tea on what it’s like to date us, from…
Why male chastity is more versatile than you might think “I want to drink cum out of your ass with a straw,” initiated a new naughty chat customer. Oh, you’re one of thooooose people, my inner monologue observed. I’ve heard it all. Male…
Am I constitutionally wired to be hornier than the average woman, or is there a “nurture” component at play? Today, we examine some of the external factors influencing a woman’s libido — and her willingness to act on it. I don’t…
On today’s episode of passionate (but playful) shitposting semantics: are creampies a kink? Cue Carrie Bradshaw typing at her Macbook with the voiceover, “And I couldn’t help but wonder…” Some of my readers have said, “If you call them creampies, they definitely…
I want to find a sanctuary in my long-term partner. That applies doubly when you’re in a polarizing career field. Sometimes, being a sex educator can put me in uncomfortable situations in the dating world, but I have to remember what…
The orgasm ratio between me and my male partners is easily over 10:1 — 10 of mine for every one of theirs. I’m having a good time, and so are they. So why does the internet seem to hate Pillow Princesses…
If someone says that cis women are wildest during their periods, they’ve never seen me sex toy shopping and booty-calling during ovulation. One of my Instagram followers commiserated: You’re not alone, girl. My Tinder bio when I’m ovulating goes from, “I…
For me personally, [being a good man] means facing and resolving biases that I may have regarding the idea of gender equality and helping other men resolve them, too. Guest writer introduction incoming! The escorting industry gets a bad rap from…
Can you journal your way to a more fulfilling, better love life? I certainly think so. It takes a degree of introspection to discern one’s own: Life goals and core values Motivations underlying their tendencies Personal history and trauma responses … along with their partners’ to…
I went on dates with 22 men within 13 months between relationships. People get exhausted, just hearing that statistic. While meeting people to date is often simple, it’s not necessarily easy — I don’t want to minimize the time and energy it takes.…
Sex toys are a fantastic way for couples to ignite their passion and keep it going. Partners can use potentially any type of toy on each other, but this list is for other spicy things that couples would especially adore.…
I’ve had a lot of experience with meeting friends, romantic partners, and business alliances from the internet — nowadays, it’s an essential tool for socializing. Naturally, my friends and I have Big Opinions about some of the most popular dating apps.…