What kind of man buys and sniffs used panties? Is he a pervert? A loser cuck? A fetishist, or kinky, or just someone being a regular wanking dude? He could be any or all of the above — it’s in the…
by Super Smash Cache · Published March 7, 2024
· Last modified July 16, 2024
"I work with men's mental health" is how I'd euphemize my work as a pro-Domme. And it's the truth. When a client is compelled to spend thousands of dollars a month to talk to me, it's not (just) because he…
by Super Smash Cache · Published February 6, 2024
· Last modified August 31, 2024
Pairing potions and lotions with your gadgets and gizmos galore Whether you're drizzling on dildos or lapping lube off a partner, you deserve to know the sexual wellness and body care products I've: This mega-guide includes lubes, lotions, arousal gels,…
by Super Smash Cache · Published September 13, 2023
· Last modified July 16, 2024
Master female dominance and male submission, rule over him, and have him eating out of your hand. Men's myriad motivations for sex go beyond the physical release — even with the slightest graze under the psyche's surface. Just a few reasons…
by Super Smash Cache · Published September 8, 2023
· Last modified March 11, 2024
Here's one of my greatest regrets as a sex blogger — and what I wish I had said. When a friend of a friend mentioned being unable to finish during sex with his wife, I wish I had suggested: It's not…
by Super Smash Cache · Published July 3, 2023
· Last modified July 19, 2024
Torment with pleasure and discipline with praise. Soft Domination can have a hard-hitting psychological impact with tears of overwhelm and ecstasy — no chains or whips necessary. Our focus here is the brain and cunning linguistics. So you want to…
by Super Smash Cache · Published May 31, 2023
· Last modified July 16, 2024
Your partner deserves better than flattening intimacy down to a pass/fail grade. Go deeper. You deserve playful teasing and banter like, “Tell me what you want. Use your words. I know you can do it,” while watching the other person…
by Super Smash Cache · Published February 14, 2023
· Last modified July 17, 2024
Because self-love is about so much more than sex toys. On Valentine's Day of 2023, I continued my "tradition" of giving away an everlasting rose, courtesy of Spectrum Boutique — and other goodies to make your self-love a little more luxurious.…
by Super Smash Cache · Published February 2, 2023
· Last modified October 10, 2023
In March of 2022, Fun Factory USA interviewed me for their blog post, "6 Truths about Dating Sex Industry Pros." I — along with four other sexuality professionals — spilled the tea on what it's like to date us, from…
by Super Smash Cache · Published November 4, 2022
· Last modified July 17, 2024
Why male chastity is more versatile than you might think “I want to drink cum out of your ass with a straw,” initiated a new naughty chat customer. Oh, you’re one of thooooose people, my inner monologue observed. I've heard…
by Super Smash Cache · Published June 15, 2022
· Last modified March 11, 2024
Am I constitutionally wired to be hornier than the average woman, or is there a "nurture" component that I have internalized? Today, we examine some of the external factors influencing a woman's high libido — and her willingness to act…
by Super Smash Cache · Published April 15, 2022
· Last modified September 19, 2023
On today’s episode of passionate, playful semantics: are creampies a kink? Cue Carrie Bradshaw typing at her Macbook with the voiceover, “And I couldn’t help but wonder…” Some of my readers have said, “If you call them creampies, they definitely are…