Master female dominance and male submission, rule over him, and have him eating out of your hand. Men's myriad motivations for sex go beyond the physical release — even with the slightest graze under the psyche's surface. Just a few reasons…
Here's one of my greatest regrets as a sex blogger — and what I wish I had said. When a friend of a friend mentioned being unable to finish during sex with his wife, I wish I had suggested: It's not…
by Super Smash Cache · Published July 2023
· Last modified August 2023
Torment with pleasure and discipline with praise. Soft Domination can have a hard-hitting psychological impact with tears of overwhelm and ecstasy — no chains or whips necessary. Our focus here is the brain and cunning linguistics. So you want to…
Your partner deserves better than flattening intimacy down to a pass/fail grade. Go deeper. You deserve playful teasing and banter like, “Tell me what you want. Use your words. I know you can do it,” while watching the other person…
by Super Smash Cache · Published February 2023
· Last modified August 2023
Because self-love is about so much more than sex toys. On Valentine's Day of 2023, I continued my "tradition" of giving away an everlasting rose, courtesy of Spectrum Boutique — and other goodies to make your self-love a little more luxurious.…
by Super Smash Cache · Published February 2023
· Last modified July 2023
In March of 2022, Fun Factory USA interviewed me for their blog post, "6 Truths about Dating Sex Industry Pros." I — along with four other sexuality professionals — spilled the tea on what it's like to date us, from…
by Super Smash Cache · Published November 2022
· Last modified September 2023
Why male chastity is more versatile than you might think “I want to drink cum out of your ass with a straw,” initiated a new naughty chat customer. Oh, you’re one of thooooose people, my inner monologue observed. I've heard…
by Super Smash Cache · Published June 2022
· Last modified July 2023
Am I constitutionally wired to be hornier than the average woman, or is there a "nurture" component that I have internalized? Today, we examine some of the external factors influencing a woman's high libido — and her willingness to act…
by Super Smash Cache · Published April 2022
· Last modified September 2023
On today’s episode of passionate, playful semantics: are creampies a kink? Cue Carrie Bradshaw typing at her Macbook with the voiceover, “And I couldn’t help but wonder…” Some of my readers have said, “If you call them creampies, they definitely are…
by Super Smash Cache · Published March 2022
· Last modified August 2023
I want to find a sanctuary in my long-term partner. That applies doubly when you're in a polarizing career field. Sometimes, being a sex educator can put me in uncomfortable situations in the dating world, but I have to remember…
by Super Smash Cache · Published January 2022
· Last modified August 2023
The orgasm ratio between me and my male partners is easily over 10:1 — 10 of mine for every one of theirs. I'm having a good time, and so are they. So why does the internet seem to hate Pillow Princesses…
by Super Smash Cache · Published November 2021
· Last modified July 2023
If someone says that cis women are wildest during their periods, they've never seen me sex toy shopping and booty-calling during ovulation. One of my Instagram followers commiserated: You're not alone, girl. My Tinder bio when I'm ovulating goes from,…