V-DAY SEX TOY GIVEAWAY: The Selfish Sensualist
Because self-love is about so much more than sex toys.

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This Valentine's Day, I'm continuing my "tradition" of giving away an everlasting rose, courtesy of Spectrum Boutique. One winner will receive everything.
What's in the prize pack:
A Uberrime Rosae clitoral grinder
The petals give this humping toy plenty of pizzazz, plus the (pretty yonic) central bud gives the user's clit a little more focus when grinding on it like a pillow.
A Fun Factory Big Boss vibrator
Rumbly vibrations, great control panel, yummy girth. It's a Fun Factory G5 vibe, which automatically makes it drool-worthy. Read my Fun Factory Big Boss review.
Michelle Elman's dating advice book, The Selfish Romantic
I've received reader questions about the boundary-setting and communication skills it takes to live the sexually selfish Pillow Princess life — and my "prescription" is Michelle Elman's book.
Women sometimes date while performing a version of femininity that they're told will please men, and we're not doing that here. What do you want, outside of the male gaze? What do you want your life to look like when you are the subject of pleasure in multiple respects?
A bottle of Personal Fav plant-based arousal serum
The wind blew different when I used this lube. Whether it's a placebo effect, I'm not sure yet, but this lube feels great, the bottle is classy, and the packaging is super cute. The bottom of the box acknowledges that: "I know my bottom's cute, but it's what's inside that counts."



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A big thank-you to Spectrum Boutique for donating all these lovely prizes and to Michelle Elman for writing such a great book! The Rosae, Big Boss, and Whet will all ship via Spectrum, while I will order The Selfish Romantic separately. I just want more people to read it. <3
Rules for entry
Must be 18 or older to enter. This giveaway goes live February 14th, 2023 at 3:00 ET and ends at 23:59 ET on February 27th, 2023. Once entries close, I’ll contact the winners by email. Respond within 48 hours to claim your prize. Otherwise, I’ll pick a new winner.
Notes on shipping
This giveaway is open internationally, with some caveats. See Spectrum Boutique’s shipping policies page for more details.
Because of mail delays due to COVID, international orders might take slightly longer than usual to arrive.
We are not responsible for any fees or taxes imposed by your country including but not limited to customs fees/tariff.
We are not responsible if your products are turned away at customs, if the country does not allow adult products to enter its borders or if it is criminal to possess an adult product generally or specifically. Please research ahead on the policy of the country you are shipping to.