SELF-LOVE SPOTLIGHT: The Selfish Sensualist
Because self-love is about so much more than sex toys.
On Valentine's Day of 2023, I continued my "tradition" of giving away an everlasting rose, courtesy of Spectrum Boutique — and other goodies to make your self-love a little more luxurious.
The petals give this humping toy plenty of pizzazz, plus the (pretty yonic) central bud gives the user's clit a little more focus when grinding on it like a pillow.
Rumbly vibrations, great control panel, yummy girth. It's a Fun Factory G5 vibe, which automatically makes it drool-worthy. Read my Fun Factory Big Boss review.
Michelle Elman's dating advice book, The Selfish Romantic
I've received reader questions about the boundary-setting and communication skills it takes to live the sexually selfish Pillow Princess life — and my "prescription" is Michelle Elman's book.
Women sometimes date while performing a version of femininity that they're told will please men, and we're not doing that here. What do you want, outside of the male gaze? What do you want your life to look like when you are the subject of pleasure in multiple respects?
A bottle of Personal Fav plant-based arousal serum
The wind blew different when I used this lube. Whether it's a placebo effect, I'm not sure yet, but this lube feels great, the bottle is classy, and the packaging is super cute. The bottom of the box acknowledges that: "I know my bottom's cute, but it's what's inside that counts."
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A big thank-you to Spectrum Boutique for donating all these lovely goodies and to Michelle Elman for writing such a great book! The Rosae, Big Boss, and Whet will all ship via Spectrum, while I will order The Selfish Romantic separately. I just want more people to read it. <3
PLEASURE PRINCESS. COMPACT, HIGH-CAPACITY HUMAN. CERVIX SORCERESS.
I've tested over 350 sex toys and love diving deep for cervical orgasms, A‑spot stimulation, and kinky odysseys into the subconscious.
Mesmerizing mindfucking or physical fisting? Blowing men or minds? Opening books or legs? Why not all of the above?
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