V-DAY SEX TOY GIVEAWAY: The Selfish Sensualist

Because self-love is about so much more than sex toys.

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This Valentine's Day, I'm con­tin­u­ing my "tra­di­tion" of giv­ing away an ever­last­ing rose, cour­tesy of Spectrum Boutique. One win­ner will receive everything.

What's in the prize pack:

A Uberrime Rosae clitoral grinder

The petals give this hump­ing toy plen­ty of piz­zazz, plus the (pret­ty yon­ic) cen­tral bud gives the user's clit a lit­tle more focus when grind­ing on it like a pillow.

A Fun Factory Big Boss vibrator 

Rumbly vibra­tions, great con­trol pan­el, yum­my girth. It's a Fun Factory G5 vibe, which auto­mat­i­cal­ly makes it drool-worthy. Read my Fun Factory Big Boss review.

Michelle Elman's dating advice book, The Selfish Romantic

I've received read­er ques­tions about the boundary-setting and com­mu­ni­ca­tion skills it takes to live the sex­u­al­ly self­ish Pillow Princess life — and my "pre­scrip­tion" is Michelle Elman's book.

Women some­times date while per­form­ing a ver­sion of fem­i­nin­i­ty that they're told will please men, and we're not doing that here. What do you want, out­side of the male gaze? What do you want your life to look like when you are the sub­ject of plea­sure in mul­ti­ple respects?

A bottle of Personal Fav plant-based arousal serum

The wind blew dif­fer­ent when I used this lube. Whether it's a place­bo effect, I'm not sure yet, but this lube feels great, the bot­tle is classy, and the pack­ag­ing is super cute. The bot­tom of the box acknowl­edges that: "I know my bottom's cute, but it's what's inside that counts."

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Enter to win now!

The main way to enter is via my Instagram post, but you can col­lect bonus entries for email sub­scrip­tions here!

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V‑DAY 2023: THE SELFISH SENSUALIST

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A big thank-you to Spectrum Boutique for donat­ing all these love­ly prizes and to Michelle Elman for writ­ing such a great book! The Rosae, Big Boss, and Whet will all ship via Spectrum, while I will order The Selfish Romantic sep­a­rate­ly. I just want more peo­ple to read it. <3

Rules for entry

Must be 18 or old­er to enter. This give­away goes live February 14th, 2023 at 3:00 ET and ends at 23:59 ET on February 27th, 2023. Once entries close, I’ll con­tact the win­ners by email. Respond with­in 48 hours to claim your prize. Otherwise, I’ll pick a new winner.

Notes on shipping

This give­away is open inter­na­tion­al­ly, with some caveats. See Spectrum Boutique’s ship­ping poli­cies page for more details.

Because of mail delays due to COVID, inter­na­tion­al orders might take slight­ly longer than usu­al to arrive.

We are not respon­si­ble for any fees or tax­es imposed by your coun­try includ­ing but not lim­it­ed to cus­toms fees/tariff.

We are not respon­si­ble if your prod­ucts are turned away at cus­toms, if the coun­try does not allow adult prod­ucts to enter its bor­ders or if it is crim­i­nal to pos­sess an adult prod­uct gen­er­al­ly or specif­i­cal­ly. Please research ahead on the pol­i­cy of the coun­try you are ship­ping to.