3 Types of Submissives Who LOVE Cock Cages!

Why male chastity is more versatile than you might think

“I want to drink cum out of your ass with a straw,” ini­ti­at­ed a new naughty chat customer.

Oh, you’re one of thooooose peo­ple, my inner mono­logue observed. I've heard it all.

Male sub­mis­sives' kinks tend to clus­ter togeth­er. Among them, the fol­low­ing three arche­types loooove hav­ing their cocks caged:

• The beta cucks
• The sis­sy fembois
• The jack­off addicts

They’re fla­vors and vari­ants rather than neat­ly delin­eat­ed box­es; there’s much over­lap and com­mon­al­i­ty, including

• Unresolved inse­cu­ri­ties and hang-​ups around masculinity
• The penis as a sym­bol of pow­er (or lack thereof)
• Playing around with the ideas of what it means to be a “real” man
• Handing over pow­er (and there­fore respon­si­bil­i­ty) to some­one else

I’ve pre­vi­ous­ly touched on the range of rea­sons peo­ple might find chasti­ty cock cages hot. Consider this new­er post a clos­er look at just a few recur­ring arche­types and my obser­va­tions of their human messiness.

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A disclaimer about kink-shaming

Some of these kinks and sub-​kinks aren’t polit­i­cal­ly cor­rect. We can inspect the tox­i­c­i­ty behind these ideas and where they came from while also remind­ing our­selves that:

1. There’s no thought police.
2. Our sub­con­scious kinks don’t nec­es­sar­i­ly align with our con­scious ethics.
3. Fantasies can be fan­tasies, with facets cherry-​picked, ide­al­ized, and exaggerated.
4. Kink is a chance to explore some­thing gnarly in a safe envi­ron­ment behind closed doors.

Now that that’s out of the way, let’s get to the fun part: what kind of cis men enjoy male chastity?

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The friendzoned beta cucks

In a nut­shell, cuckolds/​cucks are aroused by their partner’s sex­ca­pades with some­one else.

Why might a man like being cuckolded?

There are a few dif­fer­ent angles to the appeal of cuckolding:

• Masochistically enjoy­ing the humiliation
• Compersion for their partner’s enjoyment
• Sadistically want­i­ng to watch their part­ner get rekt

The first one lends itself well to chasti­ty play, though it’s often a combination.

These guys want to be “put in their place” and degrad­ed for their per­ceived fail­ure to be “real” men by tra­di­tion­al stan­dards. They’ve like­ly been reject­ed and won­dered why they weren’t good enough — and get off on the idea that a cer­tain type of guy (tall, buff, big dick, what­ev­er) is way more mas­cu­line and deserv­ing of beau­ti­ful women.

And, from there, it’s not hard to see how cock cages can ele­vate the kink: “Let’s lock the cock, because it’s not like yours has any use to me.” That could play on deep-​seated shame about penis size itself or, more gen­er­al­ly, about the beta cuck’s attractiveness.

More kinks linked to the cuckolding fetish

Friendzoning — “I like keep­ing you around, but you’re not attrac­tive enough to sleep with. I’m rid­ing a big dick while you’re jerk­ing it in the car out­side in a tissue.”

Virginity — “You’re such a los­er that no woman would want to touch you.”

Gaping holes — It’s often from the stand­point of either, “My dick was big enough to do that” or “Someone else’s dick was big enough to do that, and I can’t compare”

Creampies — Seeing fur­ther phys­i­cal evi­dence left behind of some­one else mark­ing his ter­ri­to­ry. It may or may not involve the humil­i­a­tion of eat­ing some­one else’s cum.

Financial dom­i­na­tion — “Alpha fucks and beta bucks. Paying up and offer­ing ser­vice is your only chance at pleas­ing me.” 

BBC fetishiza­tion — Not uncom­mon for men, so it had to be at least men­tioned, even though it’s prob­lem­at­ic. At best, it’s play­ing into a stereo­type. Worse, it’s objec­ti­fy­ing to frame an entire race of men as ani­mal­is­tic, par­tic­u­lar­ly when jux­ta­posed with a spe­cif­ic type of woman being paint­ed as inno­cent and get­ting defiled.

Tl;dr I get it, and I’m not a fan. Got it?

Okay, onto the fol­low­ing sub­set of cage­able compliance.

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The sissy fembois

These guys also want a reprieve from main­tain­ing a mas­cu­line image, but by eroti­ciz­ing wear­ing fem­i­nine cloth­ing — which may involve affir­ma­tion or humil­i­a­tion. Cock cages can take it a step fur­ther, tuck­ing away the “lit­tle clit­ty” where the wear­er can’t use it to pen­e­trate a partner.

Sissies tend to like the following kinks

“Forced” fem­i­niza­tion — If I’m “mak­ing” a man put on make­up or do house­hold chores in a maid cos­tume, it takes away the shame and guilt of doing some­thing that he likes but is stigmatized.

Bimbo role­play and dol­li­fi­ca­tion - No brains, no exec­u­tive decision-​making — just bent over to serve as a fuck­able hole in a sequin mini-​skirt. (Women can enjoy being bim­boi­fied, too, for a sim­i­lar rea­son: an “excuse” to let their mind go blank and just be.)

Pegging - Reversing the roles as the woman wears a strap-​on and anal­ly pen­e­trates a man.

Small penis humil­i­a­tion — Playing with the idea that his penis is use­less or inef­fec­tu­al because of its size. Real talk: I don’t believe that, but I’ll humor a part­ner if he finds it erot­ic to have his penis size com­pared to my toys.

Blackmail role­play - Some sub­mis­sives get off on the thrill of risk when some­one threat­ens to expose them. Again, an out­side force is lever­ag­ing some­thing to “force him” into servi­tude, absolv­ing him of the guilt he may feel.

Panty sniff­ing - I don’t have an expla­na­tion for this one. I just know it’s a thing where some guys smell the pheromones, and they lose con­trol, think­ing, “Do I want to be inside her, or do I want to be her?”

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jackoff addicts

These goon­ers are help­less to their desires and love get­ting des­per­ate and gross. The longer they pump and edge, the more var­ied and exot­ic (read: “weird”) their kinks grow, and the avoid­ance of post-​nut clar­i­ty makes the fall even hard­er when they finish.

They make espe­cial­ly great can­di­dates for chasti­ty caging in the con­text of tease & denial. It turns them on, phys­i­cal­ly hurts, reminds them of their des­per­a­tion, turns them on more  — and the cycle con­tin­ues while I fuck with their heads. They might cum and expe­ri­ence the shame spi­ral into, “Why did I fin­ish while think­ing about that?” Or I might tell them to ruin the orgasm while their per­ver­sion grows.

Financial dom­i­na­tion can also add to the eroti­cism; the mon­e­tary trib­utes put a numer­i­cal val­ue on how pow­er­less they feel in the pres­ence of some­one they find attrac­tive. And the more mon­ey they’ve sent, the harder-​hitting the evi­dence that piles up.

That could be paired with humil­i­a­tion for the finan­cial sub’s sup­posed infe­ri­or­i­ty. Further, it’s anoth­er poten­tial play on gen­der stereo­types: that low­ly, mind­less pigs have no self-​control and will do any­thing for a nut.

Does that reflect my world­view? Absolutely not. I’m a hor­mone mon­ster, too, but I’m proud of it.

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