Oxballs Ergo Large (squishy butt plug used vaginally) and XS

About a year and a half ago, I learned the hard way what I didn't want in a vagi­nal plug. I just want­ed to be stuffed all day, not under­stand­ing the pit­falls of using the fat AF Tantus Ringo for that par­tic­u­lar pur­pose. Now my blog post about that mis­take is infa­mous­ly the first rel­e­vant search result when some­one Googles, "huge butt plug used vaginally."

I am glad, though, that it allowed oth­ers to learn from my expe­ri­ences. As the sales stats for Uberrime's Sensi would sug­gest, there is much demand for vagi­nal plugs. That's part of why I am excit­ed to announce that the Oxballs Ergo Large plug is every­thing my vagi­na hoped the Tantus Ringo would be. And if you're curi­ous how the Oxballs Ergo XS feels anal­ly, I gotchu too.

UPDATE: There's are oth­er Oxballs Ergo plug col­or options available! 

• A firmer Ergo avail­able in blue and black swirl (XS, S, and M only)
• Sparkly blue — only slight­ly firmer than the shim­mery smoke gray

Oxballs Ergo Large plug dimensions

The Oxballs Ergo Large is 2.3" at its max diam­e­ter and 1.35" at its thinnest. For com­par­i­son, the Tantus Ringo is 2.25". Even my ex who had insert­ed the (way fat­ter) VixSkin Gambler inside me raised an eye­brow at the Ergo. Oxballs' Super Soft sil­i­cone, though, is a bit springi­er than fresh gum­my can­dy— far soft­er than Tantus's Super Soft sil­i­cone. It's com­fort­able by my stan­dards, though your mileage may vary. With 4.75" of insertable length, you might find it irri­tat­ing if you have a low cervix.

Best vaginal plug ever?!?!

For me, the Ergo has the opti­mal com­bi­na­tion of fea­tures for vagi­nal use. For one, its tip is round. It's also slight­ly off-​center, mean­ing that I can wear this plug with the tip tilt­ed for­ward and not direct­ly point­ing towards my cervix. Alternatively, the Ergo's curved "kid­ney" shape leans toward the prostate. And final­ly, SQUISHY!!! I already said that before, but it's still key to the Ergo's appeal. Unlike the Tantus Ringo, I find that it com­fort­ably squish­es in front of or behind my cervix with­out jab­bing it.

I can't empha­size the squish enough. Like the Uberrime Sensi, the Oxballs Ergo is a delight to clench and squeeze around, feel­ing it get longer and nar­row­er as it con­forms to my walls. And, of course, when I relax, it springs back to its orig­i­nal width. There's sta­tion­ary resis­tance to squeeze round dur­ing orgasm. The flared base is long but flex­i­ble, allow­ing room a clit toy. YAY FOR GETTING DOUBLE STUFFED.

Oxballs Ergo XS plug (used anally)

Dimensions and features

On the com­plete oppo­site end of the Ergo's size range, the XS plug is 1.3" across at the widest, 0.8" at the nar­row­est, and 2.75" of insertable length. And the base fits com­fort­ably between the cheeks. Hell yes. Side note: inscribed on the Ergo L plug's base is, "BULLDOG," in all caps, and the XS's says, "PUPPY."

The potential downside of a squishy butt plug

One of my Twitter fol­low­ers was skep­ti­cal about the squish. Wouldn't the less def­i­nite shape make the plug more chal­leng­ing to insert? In short, yes. I thought to myself, "How the hell is my butt going to coop­er­ate?" The but­t­hole has two sphinc­ters— you can con­scious­ly con­trol the out­er one, where­as the inner one does its own thing. I couldn't COMMAND my inter­nal sphinc­ter to relax; I had to wait patient­ly. Once it did, the squish made the rest of the inser­tion super comfortable.

Oxballs Ergo vs. b-Vibe Snug Plug— both among the best butt plugs

I wrote in my notes, "SO FILLING. CONSTANT PRESSURE." The Ergo's move­ment isn't as intense as the b‑Vibe Snug Plug's, but I like them for dif­fer­ent rea­sons. Whereas there's some sphinc­ter stretch while wear­ing the Ergo, the Snug Plug's neck is bare­ly there. Which one to get comes down to whether you'd pre­fer more inter­nal pres­sure or at the opening.

My verdict on the Oxballs Ergo squishy plug for vaginal and anal use

The Oxballs Ergo is com­fy AF in either ori­fice, but I don't rec­om­mend it as a first or even sec­ond butt plug. Not least because the XS isn't extra small by my butt's stan­dards, but also because it's bulbous.

(Yes, the njoy Pure Plug is bul­bous as well, and rigid, but its sur­face is far slick­er.) The Oxballs Ergo is blunter than a tra­di­tion­al tapered plug, though you could squish it near the tip to start small.

It's more for those who are already com­fort­able with plugs but want a yield­ing one for long-​term wear. If you're a butt begin­ner, I'd sug­gest get­ting the Blush Luxe Beginner Kit or Doc Johnson Mood Naughty.

As a vagi­nal plug, though? Oh, hell, yes. The Oxballs Ergo is per­fect for the full­ness you seek.

Get it from Peepshow Toys in one of five sizes, from just below the aver­age penis's girth to just below that of a soda can. And get it fast— the Oxballs Ergo is part of Peepshow Toys' 2‑day ship­ping col­lec­tion.