Getting my period is sweet, sweet psychological relief — and not because I'm avoiding pregnancy. The beginning of menstruation for me marks the end of the worst phase of my cycle. My illness gave me a 1 in 3 chance of a…
"Let's just say she's 'open' to new things," someone commented on a viral video of my sex toy collection. Big dildos are among the most polarizing and stigmatized toys for women. Strangers have made all sorts of rude remarks and…
How often have you heard the bullshit that female anatomy is confusing? Or worse, that male orgasms are a given, while female orgasms are distant and otherworldly? I'm here to tell you that vulvas and vaginas aren't especially complicated. They…
How to Pick What Best Suits Your Needs WRITTEN BY SUPER SMASH CACHE / ILLUSTRATIONS BY SARAH WILLIAMSON If you’re overwhelmed by a pleasure boutique’s gadgets and gizmos, you’re not alone. Let’s start with the two broadest categories of sex toys: dildos and…
Chastity play and cock cages may seem brutal and otherworldly to the vanillas. "Do people ACTUALLY get turned on by that?" one might think. But the kink is more common than people realize. Just like anyone you walk past could be wearing…
Before I tried a menstrual cup, I bled all over my bed every month. Pads and tampons consistently failed to contain my heavy flow. Fuck that shit. Menstrual cups have been an absolute GODSEND for me. They are the PEAK of convenience for…
Take your Kegels to the next level! If my post about playing Pong/Brick with your vagina wasn't enough, here's a more in-depth guide into the wacky world of vaginal weightlifting. Reap the profoundly pleasurable benefits of pelvic floor exercises, such as: Bigger…
Buzzy is skin-deep. Rumbly is to the bone (sometimes). "Rumbly" and "buzzy" are two descriptors that sex bloggers use to describe vibration quality. The former is deep and often low-pitched, while the latter is surface-level or irritatingly high-pitched. What gives…
"Wow, you're really good at that," my boyfriend said after I pegged him for the first time. "Maybe it's because I'm using a nice [strap-on] harness for the job." "Or maybe you're just good at it!" I had pegged someone once before, yeaarrs…
All bodies have holes with sensitive nerve endings, and they have things to put into holes. Sometimes it feels good, and some holes take more preparation than others do. Such is the case with anal play, where concerns like cleanliness, self-consciousness,…
I've got gadgets and gizmos aplenty and whosits and whatsits galore! The 2020s are a decade where I readily have access to VR porn and body-safe self-thrusting dildos — things that people in past decades only dreamt of. My boyfriend can stick…
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. "I'm jealous! Women get so many sex toys to choose from," lamented some guys in my life. But when I ask whether they've used a vibrator with a partner or for penile masturbation, crickets chirp. Here's the thing: sex toys aren't…