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To Rock My World, Stop Asking, "Did You Cum?" 1

To Rock My World, Stop Asking, "Did You Cum?"

Your part­ner deserves bet­ter than flat­ten­ing inti­ma­cy down to a pass/​​fail grade. Go deep­er. You deserve play­ful teas­ing and ban­ter like, “Tell me what you want. Use your words. I know you can do it,” while watch­ing the oth­er person…

The overlap between human sex dolls (dollification) and other kinks.

7 Kinks to Combine With a Dollification Fetish

Ever want to be posed, played with, and fin­ished inside like a fuck doll? Or tossed around? Welcome to the won­der­ful world of dol­li­fi­ca­tion. What is dol­li­fi­ca­tion? In sim­ple terms, dol­li­fi­ca­tion is a fetish for role­play­ing a liv­ing doll. In…

Morgasm CBD-infused and original formula tubes

5 Ways to Intensify Sex With CBD Arousal Lube

Novelty and antic­i­pa­tion are vital to sala­cious thrills — and an arousal lube can lev­el up that explo­ration! Once you set aside the lin­ear rou­tine of kiss-​​foreplay-​​intercourse-​​ejaculation-​​done, you ele­vate your erot­ic ecsta­sy and open your­self up to a broad­er buffet…

Cum Together While I Clench My Cunt. 3

Cum Together While I Clench My Cunt.

“His pants don’t come off until I orgasm,” I say in my Pillow Princess par­a­digm. Sometimes, though, he cums while his pants are still on, too. Sometimes, we both fin­ish at the same time while nei­ther of us is moving. …

3 Types of Submissives Who LOVE Cock Cages! 4

3 Types of Submissives Who LOVE Cock Cages!

Why male chasti­ty is more ver­sa­tile than you might think “I want to drink cum out of your ass with a straw,” ini­ti­at­ed a new naughty chat cus­tomer. Oh, you’re one of thooooose peo­ple, my inner mono­logue observed. I've heard…

16 Best Fun Factory Sex Toys I Love (...And 5 I Dislike!) 5

16 Best Fun Factory Sex Toys I Love (...And 5 I Dislike!)

Fun Factory makes stel­lar vibra­tors and pul­sators, but I’ve cum more on some than oth­ers.  To cel­e­brate their 26th birth­day, let’s take a walk down mem­o­ry lane. Here are the best Fun Factory toys I’ve tried — and the worst…

High Libido Woman: Nature or Nurture? 6

High Libido Woman: Nature or Nurture?

Am I con­sti­tu­tion­al­ly wired to be hornier than the aver­age woman, or is there a "nur­ture" com­po­nent that I have inter­nal­ized? Today, we exam­ine some of the exter­nal fac­tors influ­enc­ing a woman's high libido ⁠— and her will­ing­ness to act…

Types of Dildo Bases ⁠— and 6 things you could do with them 7

Types of Dildo Bases ⁠— and 6 things you could do with them

Play with pen­e­tra­tion beyond lying on your back and hand-​​thrusting dil­dos, missionary-​​style. The non-​​insertable por­tion of a dil­do can make a more con­sid­er­able dif­fer­ence than you'd think. I’ve pre­vi­ous­ly writ­ten about mak­ing mas­tur­ba­tion feel more real­is­tic, which encom­passed a wide…

Are Creampies a Kink? Why Are People Into Them? 8

Are Creampies a Kink? Why Are People Into Them?

On today’s episode of pas­sion­ate, play­ful seman­tics: are creamp­ies a kink? Cue Carrie Bradshaw typ­ing at her Macbook with the voiceover, “And I couldn’t help but won­der…” Some of my read­ers have said, “If you call them creamp­ies, they def­i­nite­ly are…

How Do Sex Bloggers File and Pay Taxes? 9

How Do Sex Bloggers File and Pay Taxes?

My life isn’t all orgasms and rain­bows; there’s much unglam­orous admin work behind the scenes. If you want to kill a bon­er, just men­tion pay­ing tax­es. Unfortunately, tax returns are part of the busi­ness of sex blog­ging in the United…

Diary of a Sex Educator: my job and my dating experiences 10

Diary of a Sex Educator: my job and my dating experiences

I want to find a sanc­tu­ary in my long-​​term part­ner. That applies dou­bly when you're in a polar­iz­ing career field. Sometimes, being a sex edu­ca­tor can put me in uncom­fort­able sit­u­a­tions in the dat­ing world, but I have to remember…