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by · Published August 13, 2020 · Last modified October 24, 2020
I’ve had a lot of experience with meeting friends, romantic partners, and business alliances from the internet — nowadays, it’s an essential tool for socializing. Naturally, my friends and I have Big Opinions about some of the most popular dating...
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by · Published August 4, 2020 · Last modified October 21, 2020
Take your Kegels to the next level! If my post about playing Pong/Brick with your vagina wasn’t enough, here’s a more in-depth guide into the wacky world of vaginal weightlifting. Reap the profoundly pleasurable benefits of pelvic floor exercises, such...
Much has changed in the pleasure product industry since 2015. That was when I first wrote my post about the best affordable (and body-safe) sex toys! Since there have been so many fantastic new additions to my collection, I decided...
Buzzy is skin-deep. Rumbly is to the bone (sometimes). “Rumbly” and “buzzy” are two descriptors that sex bloggers use to describe vibration quality. The former is deep and often low-pitched, while the latter is surface-level or irritatingly high-pitched. What gives...
I’m grossed out by predatory online marketing towards women dealing with confusion and heartache. I get that, when you’re struggling, a quick web search here and there can be therapeutic for knowing you’re not alone. But it doesn’t take long...
I’ve worked with many great sex shops over the years, and many shitty ones. It’s no mystery: the retailers I link to over and over again are the ones who give back to their workers, shoppers, and community. Find out...
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“Wow, you’re really good at that,” my boyfriend said after I pegged him for the first time. “Maybe it’s because I’m using a nice [strap-on] harness for the job.” “Or maybe you’re just good at it!” I had pegged someone...
I’ve got gadgets and gizmos aplenty and whosits and whatsits galore! The 2020s are a decade where I readily have access to VR porn and body-safe self-thrusting dildos — things that people in past decades only dreamt of. My boyfriend...
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“I’m jealous! Women get so many sex toys to choose from,” lamented some guys in my life. But when I ask whether they’ve used a vibrator with a partner or for penile masturbation, crickets chirp. Here’s the thing: sex toys...