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2 Spicy Outfits I'm Wearing to Dirty Show 22 in Detroit 1

2 Spicy Outfits I’m Wearing to Dirty Show 22 in Detroit

My pho­tog­ra­phy will be dis­played at Detroit’s upcom­ing, world-class Dirty Show art exhi­bi­tion! I guess even erot­ic art crit­ics love my col­lec­tion. 🙂 The event takes place over two week­ends, and thanks to Zoey from The White Unicorn shop, I…

"Pillow Princess": 5 Ways I'm Reclaiming the Title 2

“Pillow Princess”: 5 Ways I’m Reclaiming the Title

The orgasm ratio between me and my male part­ners is eas­i­ly over 10:1 — 10 of mine for every one of theirs. I’m hav­ing a good time, and so are they. So why does the inter­net seem to hate Pillow Princesses…

Flavored lube, penis strokers & plugs FOR PARTNER PLAY! 3

Flavored lube, penis strokers & plugs FOR PARTNER PLAY!

Among the perks of the sex blog­ger life: gift box­es from busi­ness part­ners! <3 This hol­i­day sea­son, XOXTOYS.ca sent me a pack­age full of sexy stock­ing stuffers — the lit­tle things that add a dash of spice to play­time. The box…

How discreet is your online sex toy shopping? 4

How discreet is your online sex toy shopping?

Raise your hand if you’ve ever been vic­tim­ized by sex toy pack­ages declar­ing, “VIBRATING MASSAGER” or “HEALTH CARE GADGETS.” I’ll wait. I’ve been there and done that, and I’m not thrilled about the expe­ri­ence. Discreet sex toy ship­ping is essen­tial when…

Q&A: What's it like to be a male escort? 5

Q&A: What’s it like to be a male escort?

For me per­son­al­ly, [being a good man] means fac­ing and resolv­ing bias­es that I may have regard­ing the idea of gen­der equal­i­ty and help­ing oth­er men resolve them, too. Guest writer intro­duc­tion incom­ing! The escort­ing indus­try gets a bad rap from…

Velvet Thruster Nanci Prime Relaunch Banner

RELAUNCH: Velvet Thruster Nanci Prime (FKA Abbey) & Teddy GS

The future of fuck­ing is here with the Velvet Thruster! With so many new high-tech sex toys, how do you choose a suit­able insertable for you? That’s where sex toy crit­ics like me come in. We’re unit­ed in our pas­sion for plea­sure and…

7 Questions to Unfuck Your Love Life & Yourself 6

7 Questions to Unfuck Your Love Life & Yourself

Can you jour­nal your way to a more ful­fill­ing, bet­ter love life? I cer­tain­ly think so. It takes a degree of intro­spec­tion to dis­cern one’s own: Life goals and core val­ues Motivations under­ly­ing their ten­den­cies Personal his­to­ry and trau­ma respons­es … along with their part­ners’ to…

Jute Rope & Wax Play BDSM Sensation Kit Review 8

Jute Rope & Wax Play BDSM Sensation Kit Review

Yes, BDSM can be slow and sen­su­al! Sliding rope and drip­ping wax against a part­ner’s body can make a pas­sion­ate scene on its own — or it can lead up to some­thing more explo­sive. Do you have the patience and imag­i­na­tion for…

Porn for Women: 6 Traits I Love Seeing! 10

Porn for Women: 6 Traits I Love Seeing!

Plenty of women watch porn. And, when what women want is a core con­sid­er­a­tion (instead of an after­thought), we con­sume even more visu­al smut. There’s a lot of nuance in what entails “porn for women.” After all, we all have unique sets…

Panam Palmer cosplay photos (Cyberpunk 2077) - Part 1 17

Panam Palmer cosplay photos (Cyberpunk 2077) — Part 1

Because why wouldn’t I want to be Night City’s sassi­est nomadic heart­throb? This Panam Palmer cos­play is prob­a­bly my first some­what seri­ous attempt at cos­tum­ing. I’ve dressed up for Halloween par­ties before, that was often last-minute, and I did­n’t go all-out. This…

5 Ways Sex Toy Companies Make More Budget-Friendly Toys 21

5 Ways Sex Toy Companies Make More Budget-Friendly Toys

Affordable sex toys are the future of the indus­try. Nowadays, you can eas­i­ly find a rumbly, body-safe vibra­tor with a vel­vety fin­ish for under $50. If you’re cut­ting costs, it has to come from some­where. That could mean mate­ri­als, labor, pack­ag­ing, advertising,…

5 Top Types of Sex Toys for People With Penises 22

5 Top Types of Sex Toys for People With Penises

Sex toys aren’t just for cis­women! There’s a pletho­ra of sex toys for penis­es out there, from stro­kers and sleeves to pumps and prostate mas­sagers. If you’re look­ing to try sen­sa­tions beyond what your hands alone can offer, you’ve come to…