7 Kinks to Combine With a Dollification Fetish

Ever want to be posed, played with, and fin­ished inside like a fuck doll? Or tossed around? Welcome to the won­der­ful world of dollification.

The overlap between human sex dolls (dollification) and other kinks.
Doll shown above: Alice from Sexdollpartner

What is dollification?

In sim­ple terms, dol­li­fi­ca­tion is a fetish for role­play­ing a liv­ing doll. In case you need­ed a recap of a cer­tain '90s Europop clas­sic:

Make me walk, make me talk, do what­ev­er you please

I can act like a star; I can beg on my knees

Dollification can eas­i­ly bleed over into a wide range of mild-​to-​wild BDSM prac­tices. There are end­less types of dolls and ways to defile and use your plaything.

Imagination, life is your creation.

Why might someone be into dollification as submission?

A liv­ing doll might enjoy…

  • Feeling trea­sured, cher­ished, and cared for by their “own­er”
  • Envisioning an alter­nate world where every­thing is per­fect and under control
  • A respite from the respon­si­bil­i­ties and “big ques­tions” of life
  • Pretending to be pas­sive to an exter­nal force, thus relin­quish­ing the shame of real­ly fuck­ing enjoy­ing recep­tive sex (which can loop around to feel­ing adored)
  • Laying back to let their part­ner do all the work
  • Imagining the sim­ple life pur­pose of servi­tude — in tak­ing cock and con­tain­ing cum like a per­fect­ly pos­able, ready-​to-​please Joytoy

Combining dollification with other kinks

Still with me? It's not much of a detour to hyp­no­sis, bim­bofi­ca­tion, and more.

Warning: These kinks car­ry inher­ent risks. I trust that my read­ers are savvy enough to:

  • Research safe­ty pre­cau­tions from peo­ple who spe­cial­ize in the activ­i­ties involved
  • Read up on how to nego­ti­ate risk-​aware, con­sen­su­al con­sent and safewords
  • Build their expe­ri­ence lev­els as appro­pri­ate and know their limitations

These prac­tices are not for every­one. They're not even all for me; we’re just here to explore what's possible.

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Hypnosis (for mental bondage)

Dolls bend to your bid­ding, lit­er­al­ly and fig­u­ra­tive­ly. Hypnosis guides its lis­ten­er into a trance of sug­gestibil­i­ty, where­in they take on the head­space and behav­iors of a doll, like fol­low­ing direc­tions as a blank, usable slate.

The human love doll is under your con­trol not because they're phys­i­cal­ly restrained but because they've will­ing­ly shared the vul­ner­a­bil­i­ty of being some­one else's fuck toy and take plea­sure in it.

Creampies, face fucking, cum swallowing

Perhaps the most intu­itive way to dol­li­fy some­one is to imag­ine their holes as cum recep­ta­cles to fin­ish inside. Creampies inside fuck toys can feel so good in so many ways:

  • The pow­er dynam­ic of claim­ing or being claimed
  • A thrill from the risk of get­ting pregnant
  • A fan­ta­sy reprieve from mak­ing com­plex life decisions
  • Climaxing at the same time as one's partner
  • The sen­so­ry expe­ri­ence of hav­ing cum inside

Is it a coin­ci­dence that my blog post about creamp­ies has been #1 on Google search results for “creampie kink,” ahead of Pornhub and Wikipedia? No, I don't think so.

I also don't usu­al­ly think creamp­ies are a kink, but that depends on the intent. If it's because of the risk and fear, I'd say it's kinky.

Americans in the 2020s are tired of fight­ing the future — and increas­ing­ly want a fuck­ing break to be blank beyond breed­ing fantasies.

FURTHER READING: 7 Steamy Skills For Soft Dominant Dirty Talk

Bimbofication (and himbofication)

Bimbofication is the fan­ta­sy of evolv­ing men­tal­ly and phys­i­cal­ly into a hot, ditzy slut — a per­fect pair­ing for dol­li­fi­ca­tion. The term “bim­bo” used to be a pejo­ra­tive stereo­type, but bim­bofi­ca­tion in the 2020s:

  1. Conjures Millennial nos­tal­gia of the late '90s and ear­ly '00s (think pink-​clad par­ty girl Paris Hilton and Legally Blonde Elle Woods)
  2. Is being rede­fined as hav­ing a safe space stop giv­ing a fuck

Wear what­ev­er the fuck you want. Flirt and have fun. Ride a dumb, pillow-​lipped Marine's him­bo face and get body glit­ter stuck in his beard. Most of all, claim plea­sure for pleasure's sake!

Bimbofication kink is often paired with dollification in behavior and attire.

Is bimbofication problematic, or can it be feminist?

Again, I'd say it depends on the intent. Bimbofication can be a small rebel­lion against cap­i­tal­ism when you refuse to define your worth by:

  1. The tra­di­tion­al aca­d­e­m­ic establishment
  2. How well you fit in with old white men in suits 
    • Men can enjoy bim­bofi­ca­tion, too, when they're just so fuck­ing sick of the pres­sure to main­tain an image. Some go as far as cock caging.
  3. Your hus­tling labor output

To quote Legally Blonde's pro­duc­er, Marc Platt, regard­ing Elle Woods’ appar­ent naïveté:

“The world looks at her and sees some­one who is blond and hand­some, but no more. She, on the oth­er hand, does not judge her­self or any­one else. She thinks the world is great, she's great, every­one is great, and noth­ing can change that. She tru­ly is an irre­press­ible mod­ern heroine.”

Fisting (and roleplaying a puppet)

“We can't have you think­ing about turn­ing me into a trem­bling fuck pup­pet while you're at work,” I texted a partner.

“Fuck pup­pet” evokes a sense of con­trol over the recep­tive part­ner via their body cav­i­ty. Every lit­tle move of your fin­gers inside them takes them high­er into eupho­ria and deep­er into help­less­ness. They're at your mer­cy, and you feel invin­ci­ble. I'd know; I've both fist­ed and been fist­ed vaginally.

Yeah, this post about dol­li­fi­ca­tion is going to get weirder.

Suspension rope (an imagined marionette?)

Suspension rope bondage involves tying some­one up, lift­ing them by restraints anchored to a hard point (or mul­ti­ple), and posi­tion­ing them as the rig­ger pleases.

That can mean upside down, open­ing up their legs, bend­ing them over, and so on. Make them dance and adjust the angling and pen­e­tra­tion depth like an obe­di­ent marionette.

The excite­ment of sus­pen­sion rope also includes:

  • The slow-​burn sen­su­al­i­ty of hands and tex­tured jute slid­ing across one's skin
  • A sense of dan­ger, sur­ren­der, vul­ner­a­bil­i­ty, and trust between partners
  • Expanding one's “vocab­u­lary” of sex posi­tions to fuck and be fucked

Roleplay geeks could take it a step fur­ther and enact the following:

  • A water­bend­ing, blood­bend­ing puppeteer
  • Switchy role rever­sal with one part­ner kid­nap­ping and being sus­pend­ed by the other

Let's be hon­est; we all know Hama from Avatar: The Last Airbender was a freak.

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Needle play (and “Voodoo dolls”)

Another type of doll that can be kinki­ly role­played is a pop­pet to stick nee­dles in (com­mon­ly mis­at­trib­uted as a Voodoo practice).

The sharp pain of the nee­dles enter­ing and stack­ing on one anoth­er is “just the begin­ning,” wrote Kitten Valentine in the Autostraddle arti­cle, Needle Play Brings Me Back into My Body Over and Over Again. “Once the nee­dles are in, you can move, twist, tap, hit, or even threat­en to step on them.”

Play pierc­ing can come with an endor­phin rush and sense of release — poten­tial­ly emo­tion­al­ly cathar­tic and reaf­firm­ing one's bod­i­ly auton­o­my. A benev­o­lent Dominant could role­play the exor­cism of lim­it­ing beliefs for the sub­mis­sive doll to release in a ritual.

Even out­side the con­text of kink, it's not unheard of for peo­ple to push their lim­its and enjoy the process of, say, dec­o­ra­tive pierc­ings and tattoos.

Play pierc­ing is (as one might imag­ine) masochis­ti­cal­ly intense and more high-​stakes than many oth­er forms of kink. Precautions include dis­in­fect­ing the pierced area and con­tain­ment of needles.

Cyberpunk roleplay (and consensual non-consent)

Clouds always knows. Your deep­est desire — we find it. – Cheri Nowlin, Cyberpunk 2077

Last but not least, Cyberpunk 2077 gave dol­li­fi­ca­tion a sci-​fi spin. In this video game's world, the Clouds night­club was also a high-​end Dollhouse (a.k.a. tech broth­el) that offered to:

  1. Scan the client's desires and fantasies
  2. Transfer the data to the doll and con­trol their behav­ior in-session
  3. Wipe the doll's mem­o­ry after every ses­sion, “giv­ing clients absolute free­dom and dis­cre­tion. It's a win-​win… right?”

If it sounds fucked up, that's the point. Part of BDSM's draw is a con­sen­su­al, con­trolled set­ting where you get to play with vul­ner­a­bil­i­ty. That can include the taboo of sim­u­lat­ed non-​consent, with ade­quate nego­ti­a­tion and aftercare.

A Cyberpunk 2077 screenshot of the receptionist who greets you when you walk in. Also n this collage is a photo of Valerie (female V protagonist) topless in pink light.
This is an unof­fi­cial fan work and is not approved/​endorsed by CD PROJEKT RED.

Closing thoughts about dollification

Dolls are fueled by imag­i­na­tion and fan­ta­sy, as is kink. What roles would you want a liv­ing human doll to play, and what was your favorite part of this post?

As the writer, I laughed read­ing about the legal bat­tle between Mattel, own­er of Barbie; and MCA Records, Europop band Aqua's record label. Mattel tried to sue Aqua over the song “Barbie Girl.” In response, Judge Kozinski lit­er­al­ly told the par­ties to chill.

This post was spon­sored! Opinions expressed here are my own.

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3 Responses

  1. Cam says:

    Being Barbie sounds fun

  2. D. Der says:

    Thank you so much for the bril­liant idea to turn my gf into a pup­pet, I adore it.

  3. Trix says:

    Of course the him­bofi­ca­tion aspects speak most to me…

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