7 Kinks to Combine With a Dollification Fetish

Ever want to be posed, played with, and fin­ished inside like a fuck doll? Or tossed around? Welcome to the won­der­ful world of dollification.

What is dollification?

In sim­ple terms, dol­li­fi­ca­tion is a fetish for role­play­ing a liv­ing doll. In case you need­ed a recap of a cer­tain '90s Europop clas­sic:

Make me walk, make me talk, do what­ev­er you please

I can act like a star; I can beg on my knees

Dollification can eas­i­ly bleed over into a wide range of mild-​to-​wild BDSM prac­tices. There are end­less types of dolls and ways to defile and use your plaything.

Imagination, life is your creation.

Why might someone be into dollification as submission?

A liv­ing doll might enjoy…

• Feeling trea­sured, cher­ished, and cared for by their “own­er”
• Envisioning an alter­nate world where every­thing is per­fect and under control
• A respite from the respon­si­bil­i­ties and “big ques­tions” of life
• Pretending to be pas­sive to an exter­nal force, thus relin­quish­ing the shame of real­ly fuck­ing enjoy­ing recep­tive sex (which can loop around to feel­ing adored)
• Laying back to let their part­ner do all the work
• Imagining the sim­ple life pur­pose of servi­tude — in tak­ing cock and con­tain­ing cum like a per­fect­ly pos­able, ready-​to-​please Joytoy

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Combining dollification with other kinks

Still with me? It's not much of a detour to hyp­no­sis, bim­bofi­ca­tion, and more.

Warning: These kinks car­ry inher­ent risks. I trust that my read­ers are savvy enough to:

• Research safe­ty pre­cau­tions from peo­ple who spe­cial­ize in the activ­i­ties involved
• Read up on how to nego­ti­ate risk-​aware, con­sen­su­al con­sent and safewords
• Build their expe­ri­ence lev­els as appro­pri­ate and know their limitations

These prac­tices are not for every­one. They're not even all for me; we’re just here to explore what's possible.

Hypnosis (for mental bondage)

Dolls bend to your bid­ding, lit­er­al­ly and fig­u­ra­tive­ly. Hypnosis guides its lis­ten­er into a trance of sug­gestibil­i­ty, where­in they take on the head­space and behav­iors of a doll, like fol­low­ing direc­tions as a blank, usable slate.

The human love doll is under your con­trol not because they're phys­i­cal­ly restrained but because they've will­ing­ly shared the vul­ner­a­bil­i­ty of being some­one else's fuck toy and take plea­sure in it.

Creampies, face fucking, cum swallowing

Perhaps the most intu­itive way to dol­li­fy some­one is to imag­ine their holes as cum recep­ta­cles to fin­ish inside. Creampies inside fuck toys can feel so good in so many ways:

• The pow­er dynam­ic of claim­ing or being claimed
• A thrill from the risk of get­ting pregnant
• A fan­ta­sy reprieve from mak­ing com­plex life decisions
• Climaxing at the same time as one's partner
• The sen­so­ry expe­ri­ence of hav­ing cum inside

Is it a coin­ci­dence that my blog post about creamp­ies has been #1 on Google search results for “creampie kink,” ahead of Pornhub and Wikipedia? No, I don't think so.

I also don't usu­al­ly think creamp­ies are a kink, but that depends on the intent. If it's because of the risk and fear, I'd say it's kinky.

Americans in the 2020s are tired of fight­ing the future — and increas­ing­ly want a fuck­ing break to be blank beyond breed­ing fantasies.

FURTHER READING: 7 Steamy Skills For Soft Dominant Dirty Talk

Bimbofication (and himbofication)

Bimbofication is the fan­ta­sy of evolv­ing men­tal­ly and phys­i­cal­ly into a hot, ditzy slut — a per­fect pair­ing for dol­li­fi­ca­tion. The term “bim­bo” used to be a pejo­ra­tive stereo­type, but bim­bofi­ca­tion in the 2020s:

1. Conjures Millennial nos­tal­gia of the late '90s and ear­ly '00s (think pink-​clad par­ty girl Paris Hilton and Legally Blonde Elle Woods)
2. Is being rede­fined as hav­ing a safe space stop giv­ing a fuck

Wear what­ev­er the fuck you want. Flirt and have fun. Ride a dumb, pillow-​lipped Marine's him­bo face and get body glit­ter stuck in his beard. Most of all, claim plea­sure for pleasure's sake!

Is bimbofication problematic, or can it be feminist?

Again, I'd say it depends on the intent. Bimbofication can be a small rebel­lion against cap­i­tal­ism when you refuse to define your worth by:

1. The tra­di­tion­al aca­d­e­m­ic establishment
2. How well you fit in with old white men in suits 
   • Men can enjoy bim­bofi­ca­tion, too, when they're just so fuck­ing sick of the pres­sure to main­tain an image. Some go as far as cock caging.
3. Your hus­tling labor output

To quote Legally Blonde's pro­duc­er, Marc Platt, regard­ing Elle Woods’ appar­ent naïveté:

“The world looks at her and sees some­one who is blond and hand­some, but no more. She, on the oth­er hand, does not judge her­self or any­one else. She thinks the world is great, she's great, every­one is great, and noth­ing can change that. She tru­ly is an irre­press­ible mod­ern heroine.”

Fisting (and roleplaying a puppet)

“We can't have you think­ing about turn­ing me into a trem­bling fuck pup­pet while you're at work,” I texted a partner.

“Fuck pup­pet” evokes a sense of con­trol over the recep­tive part­ner via their body cav­i­ty. Every lit­tle move of your fin­gers inside them takes them high­er into eupho­ria and deep­er into help­less­ness. They're at your mer­cy, and you feel invin­ci­ble. I'd know; I've both fist­ed and been fist­ed vaginally.

Yeah, this post about dol­li­fi­ca­tion is going to get weirder.

Suspension rope (an imagined marionette?)

Suspension rope bondage involves tying some­one up, lift­ing them by restraints anchored to a hard point (or mul­ti­ple), and posi­tion­ing them as the rig­ger pleases.

That can mean upside down, open­ing up their legs, bend­ing them over, and so on. Make them dance and adjust the angling and pen­e­tra­tion depth like an obe­di­ent marionette.

The excite­ment of sus­pen­sion rope also includes:

• The slow-​burn sen­su­al­i­ty of hands and tex­tured jute slid­ing across one's skin
• A sense of dan­ger, sur­ren­der, vul­ner­a­bil­i­ty, and trust between partners
• Expanding one's “vocab­u­lary” of sex posi­tions to fuck and be fucked

Roleplay geeks could take it a step fur­ther and enact the following:

• A water­bend­ing, blood­bend­ing puppeteer
• Switchy role rever­sal with one part­ner kid­nap­ping and being sus­pend­ed by the other

Let's be hon­est; we all know Hama from Avatar: The Last Airbender was a freak.

Needle play (and “Voodoo dolls”)

Another type of doll that can be kinki­ly role­played is a pop­pet to stick nee­dles in (com­mon­ly mis­at­trib­uted as a Voodoo practice).

The sharp pain of the nee­dles enter­ing and stack­ing on one anoth­er is “just the begin­ning,” wrote Kitten Valentine in the Autostraddle arti­cle, Needle Play Brings Me Back into My Body Over and Over Again. “Once the nee­dles are in, you can move, twist, tap, hit, or even threat­en to step on them.”

Play pierc­ing can come with an endor­phin rush and sense of release — poten­tial­ly emo­tion­al­ly cathar­tic and reaf­firm­ing one's bod­i­ly auton­o­my. A benev­o­lent Dominant could role­play the exor­cism of lim­it­ing beliefs for the sub­mis­sive doll to release in a ritual.

Even out­side the con­text of kink, it's not unheard of for peo­ple to push their lim­its and enjoy the process of, say, dec­o­ra­tive pierc­ings and tattoos.

Play pierc­ing is (as one might imag­ine) masochis­ti­cal­ly intense and more high-​stakes than many oth­er forms of kink. Precautions include dis­in­fect­ing the pierced area and con­tain­ment of needles.

Cyberpunk roleplay (and consensual non-consent)

Clouds always knows. Your deep­est desire — we find it. – Cheri Nowlin, Cyberpunk 2077

Last but not least, Cyberpunk 2077 gave dol­li­fi­ca­tion a sci-​fi spin. In this video game's world, the Clouds night­club was also a high-​end Dollhouse (a.k.a. tech broth­el) that offered to:

1. Scan the client's desires and fantasies
2. Transfer the data to the doll and con­trol their behav­ior in-session
3. Wipe the doll's mem­o­ry after every ses­sion, “giv­ing clients absolute free­dom and dis­cre­tion. It's a win-​win… right?”

If it sounds fucked up, that's the point. Part of BDSM's draw is a con­sen­su­al, con­trolled set­ting where you get to play with vul­ner­a­bil­i­ty. That can include the taboo of sim­u­lat­ed non-​consent, with ade­quate nego­ti­a­tion and aftercare.

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Closing thoughts about dollification

Dolls are fueled by imag­i­na­tion and fan­ta­sy, as is kink. What roles would you want a liv­ing human doll to play, and what was your favorite part of this post?

As the writer, I laughed read­ing about the legal bat­tle between Mattel, own­er of Barbie; and MCA Records, Europop band Aqua's record label. Mattel tried to sue Aqua over the song “Barbie Girl.” In response, Judge Kozinski lit­er­al­ly told the par­ties to chill.

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This post was spon­sored! Opinions expressed here are my own.