Fifty Shades of Grey. Secretary. Chains and whips in Rihanna's 2010 dance-pop hit, S&M. When the mainstream thinks of BDSM, they think of a neat binary of: But BDSM is far more faceted and nuanced — with far more shades of…
by Super Smash Cache · Published August 14, 2023
· Last modified September 15, 2024
Happy 27th birthday, FUN FACTORY! It’s been about 9 years since this Germany-based luxury sex toy company stole my heart. FUN FACTORY has shaped the industry in many ways we take for granted. For one, they were the first to…
by Super Smash Cache · Published July 27, 2023
· Last modified May 23, 2024
I'm not sure why I thought The Penis Book would be super serious. There were no fewer than 11 nicknames for the penis and 26 puns in the introduction alone, including: Dr. Aaron Spitz made it fit. While the subject matter…
by Super Smash Cache · Published July 3, 2023
· Last modified July 19, 2024
Torment with pleasure and discipline with praise. Soft Domination can have a hard-hitting psychological impact with tears of overwhelm and ecstasy — no chains or whips necessary. Our focus here is the brain and cunning linguistics. So you want to…
by Super Smash Cache · Published June 18, 2023
· Last modified July 16, 2024
400 SEX TOYS! TEN YEARS! It's been a decade since I started collecting sex toys — and five years since I made my blog into a business! Can you believe it?! My sex toy collection has grown so much since…
by Super Smash Cache · Published June 11, 2023
· Last modified July 28, 2024
My spirit slightly sinks whenever I see that damn U‑shaped Bellesa Airvibe promoted on Instagram. It's not going to fit my anatomy — I can already tell from the shaft's flexibility in videos and photos that it lacks the structure…
by Super Smash Cache · Published May 31, 2023
· Last modified July 16, 2024
Your partner deserves better than flattening intimacy down to a pass/fail grade. Go deeper. You deserve playful teasing and banter like, “Tell me what you want. Use your words. I know you can do it,” while watching the other person…
by Super Smash Cache · Published May 15, 2023
· Last modified July 19, 2024
Ever want to be posed, played with, and finished inside like a fuck doll? Or tossed around? Welcome to the wonderful world of dollification. What is dollification? In simple terms, dollification is a fetish for roleplaying a living doll. In…
by Super Smash Cache · Published April 24, 2023
· Last modified March 11, 2024
Novelty and anticipation are vital to salacious thrills — and an arousal lube can level up that exploration! Once you set aside the linear routine of kiss-foreplay-intercourse-ejaculation-done, you elevate your erotic ecstasy and open yourself up to a broader buffet…
by Super Smash Cache · Published February 2, 2023
· Last modified October 10, 2023
In March of 2022, Fun Factory USA interviewed me for their blog post, "6 Truths about Dating Sex Industry Pros." I — along with four other sexuality professionals — spilled the tea on what it's like to date us, from…
by Super Smash Cache · Published January 24, 2023
· Last modified July 5, 2023
“His pants don’t come off until I orgasm,” I say in my Pillow Princess paradigm. Sometimes, though, he cums while his pants are still on, too. Sometimes, we both finish at the same time while neither of us is moving. …
by Super Smash Cache · Published November 4, 2022
· Last modified July 17, 2024
Why male chastity is more versatile than you might think “I want to drink cum out of your ass with a straw,” initiated a new naughty chat customer. Oh, you’re one of thooooose people, my inner monologue observed. I've heard…