How to Have Clean Anal Sex: 4 Considerations
Shit happens. We all know that the anus's primary purpose is that of an exit. Understandably, cleanliness is among the biggest concerns about anal sex. It's only second to perhaps picking…
Category: How-To & Health
LetsGetChecked Mail-In STI Test Kit Review: Basic 3 (Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, & Trichomoniasis)
Get tested for STIs discreetly and at your convenience — your health is your business and yours only! My readers are sexually savvy, getting tested often and talking openly about…
5 Ways I've Made My Orgasms Longer and More Intense
The second time I ever got stoned, I had orgasms for 20 minutes straight. It happened about five years ago— at the time, I thought it was an unusual occurrence…
5 Easy Ways to Have Better Sex
Partnered sex is one of the most complicated things we're expected to teach ourselves. Some parts come naturally, while others are less intuitive at first. Here are some small adjustments…
STIs & What I Wish More People Knew About Them
[Content warning: this post contains recollection of sexual assault. If that's a hard topic for you, skip #5.] I wish we talked about chlamydia the way we talk about strep…
Fun with foreskin: tips, techniques, and .GIFs!
American cock vs. European cock: have you ever wondered the difference? Or had aspirations to travel the world and, maybe in the process, hook up with lovers of different cultural…
Vaginal Weightlifting & Ways to Make Kegels Fun
Vaginal weightlifting is so much more than just a fetish party trick! It's also one of many fun ways to cultivate increased sexual sensitivity or stronger, longer orgasms. Orgasms aren't everything,…
Foreskin's Function — And the Fucked-Up Connection Between Circumcision and Cornflakes
Like many other Americans, I grew up with the vague notion that foreskin was something that some people removed, but didn't know much beyond that. I didn't know that most…
Cervical Orgasms & Stimulation: a BS-Free Guide to Deep Erogenous Zones
Cervical orgasms are perhaps the most polarizing type of orgasms. Some people feel like their cervix and the surrounding areas (the vaginal fornices) are divine white light. Others can't fathom…
6 Reasons Why "Vibrator Addiction" is BULLSHIT
Even the most supportive friends can have misconceptions. "I don't know how you still have sensitivity," I often hear when I talk about my We-Vibe Tango. "Don't vibrators numb you? I mean,…
The G-Spot Exists. Cut the Pedantic Semantics.
The G‑spot is the area of, for many people, sensitive tissue on the front wall of the vagina, near where the pubic bone recedes. It's nicknamed such because Gräfenberg coined…
4 Tips For Basic Blowjob Troubleshooting
An anonymous follower asked this question about oral sex: Hello, when I give blowjobs to my boyfriend, sometimes he shakes and quivers but recently he has stopped doing that. He also…