Boobs vs. Butts & Bisexual Lighting

"In the end, boobs are noth­ing more than fake ass­es. And if I had to choose between the orig­i­nal and the imi­ta­tion, of course I would choose the original."

— Kangoku Gakuen /​ Prison School Ch. 68

So much of per­ceived beau­ty and a "great body" is luck — both in terms of your actu­al fea­tures and being born into a cul­ture that appre­ci­ates them.

You could be con­sid­ered "per­fect" by one decade's stan­dards and less desir­able the next. Or at least, that's how media trends seem to turn around, faster than you can say "Kate Moss."

Maybe I'm lucky that Gens Y & Z are more ass and leg men than boob men.

Or maybe, with expe­ri­ence, I became more aware that my lack of boobage and body fat lit­er­al­ly nev­er trans­lat­ed to a lack of options for me.

Some peo­ple strong­ly pre­fer big boobs, some strong­ly pre­fer small boobs (even if they aren't as obnox­ious­ly vocal), and most don't real­ly care all that much because they're cap­ti­vat­ed by oth­er body parts.

It doesn't mean that I nev­er get in my head about my chest. After all, you can eas­i­ly cap­ture a face self­ie with cleav­age in the shot, but butts aren't quite like that. And that's kind of a (hah) bum­mer when you're an NSFW con­tent creator.

But I'm not going to oper­ate as if my worth revolved around two sacks of fat on my chest.

Regardless of what fea­tures and body parts peo­ple focus on or what lifestyle changes I've expe­ri­enced, my body's worth does not change. It sim­ply just is. It stayed with me when Rihanna called her fluc­tu­at­ing body a "plea­sure" to have and said that she sim­ply dressed how­ev­er best fit her fig­ure at the time.

Well, I actu­al­ly have had the plea­sure of a fluc­tu­at­ing body type […] I real­ly pay atten­tion every day when I go into the clos­et about what’s work­ing for my body that morning.

To me, sex is an expe­ri­ence where the focus is how I (the sub­ject) feel — not a per­for­mance focused on how I (as the object) look. If the lat­ter is what you want, look else­where. I'm here to have fun — not to be a docile decoration.

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