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Condoms 101: choosing the perfect condoms for you! 1

Condoms 101: choosing the perfect condoms for you!

It's a myth that stan­dard con­doms are uni­ver­sal and fit every­one. (Yes, even if your fore­arm can fit in one!) Using the right con­dom size is cru­cial for the wearer's comfort…

The 4 Commandments For Size Queens With Vaginas 6

The 4 Commandments For Size Queens With Vaginas

"Let's just say she's 'open' to new things," some­one com­ment­ed on a viral video of my sex toy col­lec­tion. Big dil­dos are among the most polar­iz­ing and stig­ma­tized toys for…

4-Inch Clitoris: a homology to penises in pleasure 8

4-Inch Clitoris: a homology to penises in pleasure

How often have you heard the bull­shit that female anato­my is con­fus­ing? Or worse, that male orgasms are a giv­en, while female orgasms are dis­tant and oth­er­world­ly? I'm here to…

What’s the Difference Between Dildos & Vibrators? 12

What’s the Difference Between Dildos & Vibrators?

How to Pick What Best Suits Your Needs WRITTEN BY SUPER SMASH CACHE / ILLUSTRATIONS BY SARAH WILLIAMSON If you’re over­whelmed by a plea­sure boutique’s gad­gets and giz­mos, you’re not alone. Let’s start…

6 Reasons Chastity Cock Cages Can Be Hot 19

6 Reasons Chastity Cock Cages Can Be Hot

Chastity play and cock cages may seem bru­tal and oth­er­world­ly to the vanil­las. "Do peo­ple ACTUALLY get turned on by that?" one might think. But the kink is more com­mon than…

7 Factors in Picking the Right Menstrual Cup 21

7 Factors in Picking the Right Menstrual Cup

Before I tried a men­stru­al cup, I bled all over my bed every month. Pads and tam­pons con­sis­tent­ly failed to con­tain my heavy flow. Fuck that shit. Menstrual cups have been an absolute…

Kegel Progression & Vaginal Weightlifting: beginner to dumbbell 24

Kegel Progression & Vaginal Weightlifting: beginner to dumbbell

Take your Kegels to the next lev­el! If my post about play­ing Pong/Brick with your vagi­na wasn't enough, here's a more in-depth guide into the wacky world of vagi­nal weightlift­ing. Reap…

How to Get More Comfortable With Anal Sex 30

How to Get More Comfortable With Anal Sex

All bod­ies have holes with sen­si­tive nerve end­ings, and they have things to put into holes. Sometimes it feels good, and some holes take more prepa­ra­tion than oth­ers do. Such is…

Exploring the A-Spot (Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone) 34

Exploring the A-Spot (Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone)

The A‑spot — or AFE zone — is one of the most under­rat­ed eroge­nous zones in exis­tence. It’s an area on the front vagi­nal wall, all the way in and farther…

How to Have Clean Anal Sex: 4 Considerations 36

How to Have Clean Anal Sex: 4 Considerations

Shit hap­pens. We all know that the anus's pri­ma­ry pur­pose is that of an exit. Understandably, clean­li­ness is among the biggest con­cerns about anal sex. It's only sec­ond to per­haps picking…

5 Tips for Discreet & Conveniently Travel-Friendly Sex Toys 37

5 Tips for Discreet & Conveniently Travel-Friendly Sex Toys

“Go big or go home” often doesn’t apply when vis­it­ing fam­i­ly for the hol­i­days or trav­el­ing to cer­tain coun­tries. Sometimes, trav­el­ing with sex toys is a has­sle, thanks to nosy…