Category: Guides

A Super Smashing Sex Toy Gift Guide: Find the Best Sex Giftable Toys! 5

A Super Smashing Sex Toy Gift Guide: Find the Best Sex Giftable Toys!

Sex toys are the clos­est thing to giv­ing some­one on-demand orgasms. But the options can get over­whelm­ing, even with­in Spectrum Boutique’s care­ful­ly curat­ed selec­tion. Here’s a list of my favorite…

How to Cast a DIY Silicone Dildo at Home 12

How to Cast a DIY Silicone Dildo at Home

If you're a reg­u­lar read­er of my blog, you prob­a­bly already agree that dil­dos can be high­ly col­lectible pieces of art. They're func­tion­al tools, but it sure as hell helps…

Choosing the Best Anal Toys (for Beginner & Intermediate Play) 16

Choosing the Best Anal Toys (for Beginner & Intermediate Play)

My vagi­na is size roy­al­ty, but my butt is a plug ple­beian. Even if I hadn't men­tioned that before in a review, you might have noticed my rel­a­tive lack of…

10 A-Spotty Dildos For Deep Penetration and Cervix Massage 18

10 A-Spotty Dildos For Deep Penetration and Cervix Massage

Sex Toys That Target the Anterior and Posterior Fornices Discovering cer­vi­cal orgasms changed my sex life. For myself, the orgasms from deep pen­e­tra­tion feel like potent hits of oxytocin —…

Review: b-Vibe Anal Training & Education plug kit 20

Review: b-Vibe Anal Training & Education plug kit

Butt stuff is one of the great equal­iz­ers— every­one has a butt. But I didn't write a guide to it for so long because the folx at b‑Vibe can (and do)…

5 Ways I've Made My Orgasms Longer and More Intense 21

5 Ways I've Made My Orgasms Longer and More Intense

The sec­ond time I ever got stoned, I had orgasms for 20 min­utes straight. It hap­pened about five years ago— at the time, I thought it was an unusu­al occurrence…

5 Easy Ways to Have Better Sex 28

5 Easy Ways to Have Better Sex

Partnered sex is one of the most com­pli­cat­ed things we're expect­ed to teach our­selves. Some parts come nat­u­ral­ly, while oth­ers are less intu­itive at first. Here are some small adjustments…

Vibrating Cock Rings 101: A Guide For Vagina-Owners 35

Vibrating Cock Rings 101: A Guide For Vagina-Owners

When I moved to a new state, one of the first things I did was check out a near­by sex shop. There, my boyfriend and I found a Picobong Remoji Lifeguard…

Fun with foreskin: tips, techniques, and .GIFs! 37

Fun with foreskin: tips, techniques, and .GIFs!

American cock vs. European cock: have you ever won­dered the dif­fer­ence? Or had aspi­ra­tions to trav­el the world and, maybe in the process, hook up with lovers of dif­fer­ent cultural…

5 Ways to Make Kegels More Fun (LIKE VAGINAL WEIGHTLIFTING!) 38

5 Ways to Make Kegels More Fun (LIKE VAGINAL WEIGHTLIFTING!)

Vaginal weightlift­ing is so much more than just a fetish par­ty trick! It's also one of many fun ways to cul­ti­vate increased sex­u­al sen­si­tiv­i­ty or stronger, longer orgasms. Orgasms aren't every­thing, but…

Lorelei Lee showing Beretta James the hand's position when starting to fist someone

CrashPad's Guide to Fisting: lesbian / queer fisting porn review

"What made you try fist­ing?" my straight friends asked me. Frankly, I had always found fist­ing hot. I had fist­ed a woman before. I knew that receiv­ing a fist was something…