Girth Game Level-Up: SuperFit XL Dilator Review & How-To

For when “Oh noooo, is it going to fit?” isn't just teas­ing dirty talk.

If you're feel­ing intim­i­da­tion with pen­e­tra­tion, you have options, includ­ing dila­tor kits. Think of these sets as the no-​frill form of dil­dos, with grad­u­al­ly increas­ing size incre­ments, made for a mis­sion of com­fort­able expan­sion and relaxation.

They come in a diverse range of diam­e­ters — VWELL sil­i­cone dila­tors range from “a bit wider than a pen­cil or AAA bat­tery” to “about an aver­age cock” to “the width of a tall slim 12 oz ener­gy drink can.”

So if warm­ing up to any pen­e­tra­tion is your goal, there's a dila­tor size for you, and the how-​to sec­tion of this post can help.

If you're specif­i­cal­ly lev­el­ing up your girth game — maybe you:

• Had a hard time with a well-​endowed partner
• Were intim­i­dat­ed by a big dick
• Simply want to enjoy big­ger penis­es or toys…

…the VWELL SuperFit XL dila­tor kit helps you do exact­ly that. It goes well beyond the stan­dard stretch­ing set, so you can con­fi­dent­ly con­sume cocks of just about any size.

Fast Facts About the VWELL SuperFit XL Dilator Kit

• Material: medical-​grade silicone
• 3 above-​average sizes 
  • Step 1 — 6.3” x 1.7” (this size vibrates!)
  • Step 2 — 6.6” x 2.0”
  • Step 3 — 6.8” x 2.3”
• Price: $$ Mid-​to-​luxury price ter­ri­to­ry, but jus­ti­fied for a set of three extra-​large dilators
• Best for: Size train­ing, prepa­ra­tion for well-​endowed part­ners, warm­ing up to huge dil­dos, and yes, the flared bases make them safe for both vagi­nal and anal use!
• Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐ 4 out of 5. Firm and for­mi­da­ble. GET READY FOR THE THICK DICKS.

Ready to lev­el up? Shop VWELL dila­tor kits with code SUPER15 for 15% off.

As always, this post is not med­ical advice — it's a start­ing point to con­sid­er your options. Please con­sult a doc­tor or phys­i­cal ther­a­pist if you need fur­ther help with painful sex.

For when "Oh noooo, is it going to fit?" isn't just teas­ing dirty talk.

What's in this Package of Packages?

• Three-​step SuperFit XL sil­i­cone dila­tor set
• Charging cable for the Step 1 vibrat­ing dilator
• Drawstring stor­age pouch
• Warranty card
• Manual

First Impression: Serious Size Training

(These aren't your stan­dard med­ical dilators!)

Sometimes, I watch myself in the mir­ror using a fat dil­do and think, how­ev­er fleet­ing­ly, “How does that fit inside her?”

I had a sim­i­lar feel­ing when heft­ing the VWELL Superfit XL dila­tors for the first time. They're not fuck­ing around; not only are they thick, but they're also firm and for­mi­da­ble, even for those with a pen­chant for pen­e­tra­tion. (The 2.3” wide one is no joke.)

The good news is that there's a lot to work with in terms of the next step up.

The bad news is that the incre­ments between each step aren't exact­ly gentle.

Even the first sil­i­cone dila­tor in the Superfit XL kit can be a lot. At these sizes and this firm­ness, the ide­al user:

• Is already very com­fort­able with pen­e­tra­tion with an average-​sized cock
• Enjoys when an insertable is damn near rock-hard
• Really knows what they want — to be stuffed the fuck up
• Prioritizes pen­e­tra­tive plea­sure enough to take their time

If you're not quite there yet, be sure to check the ver­dict sec­tion for gen­tler alter­na­tives, and con­sid­er con­sult­ing a pelvic floor phys­io­ther­a­pist or gyne­col­o­gist if the dis­com­fort persists.

Whichever toys for vagi­nal stretch­ing you choose, here are my straight up pen­e­tra­tion pro tips.

They're not fuck­ing around; not only are they thick, but they're also firm and for­mi­da­ble, even for those with a pen­chant for penetration.

How to Use Your Dilator Kit to Train for Big Dick

Consider this sec­tion the con­densed ver­sion of my guide to huge dil­dos and fist­ing.

For now, let's focus on tips for safe vagi­nal stretch­ing with a large dila­tor set.

Go slow­er than you think you need to. I'm talk­ing not even a mil­lime­ter per second.

Penetration Preparation: Getting Your Body Ready

1. Take time to relax before even touch­ing your toys — con­sid­er hip open­ing stretch­es like hap­py baby, pigeon pose, or deep squats. 
   • As always, con­sult your phys­i­cal ther­a­pist for a per­son­al­ized plan for you.
2. Apply abun­dant water-​based lube!
3. Breathe deep, let­ting your bel­ly expand like a bal­loon, relax­ing with every inhale.
4. OPTIONAL: Use a mas­sager on the out­side, if it helps you relax, before and dur­ing penetration.

Active Training: Working With Your Dilators

ESSENTIAL INSTRUCTIONS

1. Alternate between steady pres­sure and gen­tle move­ment with the dilator. 
   1. Hold the dila­tor in place at the entrance and go slow­er than you think you need to. I'm talk­ing not even a mil­lime­ter per second.
   2. Turning the vibra­tions on when using the first dila­tor in the kit can help, too.
   3. Start with small cir­cles, slow rota­tion, swivel­ing motions, or sort thrusts when you're ready.
2. Relax when you inhale and con­tract just a lit­tle when you exhale — you don't nec­es­sar­i­ly have to do a hard squeeze, but get com­fort­able with the dilator's presence.
3. Push the dila­tor in on the inhale — and, of course, pause when you encounter tension.
4. Repeat with the next size up, if you're com­fort­able with it.

EXTRA SUPPORT

• Consider keep­ing the exter­nal vibra­tions going. A bul­let vibra­tor, slen­der G‑spot vibra­tor, or mini-​wand can help here.
• Place more pres­sure on the back wall, if that's com­fort­able for you, so there's less fric­tion near the urethra.
• If visu­al­iza­tion helps, and you're lying on your back, it might help to imag­ine and repeat, “My back wall is heavy” as your pelvic floor relaxes.

Aftercare: Post-​Training Recovery

• If you feel gen­er­al sore­ness in the area after, back off and give your body a break 
  • When in doubt, ask a pelvic floor ther­a­pist for help.
• You might also feel minor pain points flar­ing up; con­sid­er pair­ing your pro­gres­sive dila­tion time with a focused trig­ger release wand 
  • Kiwi by the Pelvic People is love­ly for shal­low pen­e­tra­tion and use on the outside
  • The Intimate Rose can go deep­er and is more precise
• Stretch the mus­cles in the sur­round­ing area; con­sid­er but­ter­fly stretch­es, fig­ure 4, drag­on pose, and so on. 
  • One great resource, among many, for pelvic floor-​nourishing stretch­es is Heal Pelvic Pain by Amy Stein.
  • If you have Ehler-​Danlos syn­drome, con­sult a PT first. Keep the stretch­es short and focus more on build­ing strength

The sil­i­cone firm­ness was a lot to han­dle — it hurt sooooo goood — but I came so hard.

My Experience With the VWELL SuperFit XL Kit

I'm quick­ly on the plateau and if I even so much as think extra spicy thoughts, I'm shak­ing and clench­ing again… and cum­ming again because of that and get­ting over­whelmed by the sen­sa­tion again and cum­ming again…

The size train­ing how-​to above isn't just lip ser­vice; I had to take my time and breathe deep, nudg­ing at the entrance. (Cue flash­back to all the times I've heard, “You are tight” upon ini­tial insertion.)

I do warm up and relax eas­i­ly, but it takes time.

Even the first dila­tor in this kit was a lot, since it's so rigid. I clench and cum on its unyield­ing pres­sure when tip drilling. The vibra­tions — 3 steady set­tings and 7 pat­terns — are buzzy but welcome.

And once it's all the way in, I find myself at times pulling it in with my contractions.

I love clench­ing around it when I cum, and even more so with the sec­ond dila­tor, com­bin­ing deep breath­ing with (hard) squeez­ing and replay­ing scenes and daydreams.

Orgasms via breath­ing and clench­ing are a com­mon occur­rence for me (thanks, Barbara Carrellas!), but hav­ing some­thing girthy inside me takes it to the next lev­el. I'm quick­ly on the plateau and if I even so much as think extra spicy thoughts, I'm shak­ing and clench­ing again……….. and cum­ming again because of that and get­ting over­whelmed by the sen­sa­tion again and cum­ming again …………..

That's not to say that you will have huge orgasms on these huge dila­tors. Every body is a bit dif­fer­ent. However, try­ing more girth and clench­ing around it can place more pres­sure on the inter­nal cli­toris for more intense orgasms, if you're into penetration.

(And if you've read this far, you prob­a­bly are.)

Verdict: Is SuperFit XL Your Next Size Step?

Drooling at the plea­sure pay­off, but think it might be a chal­lenge? As always, you have options.

Who Should Use Something Else For Size Training?

Skip the SuperFit XL sil­i­cone dila­tor kit if:

• …an average-​sized penis or mid-​sized dil­do already feels like a lot
• …you know you want some­thing squishy
• …you crave focused pres­sure beyond a big stretch

The firm­ness means you'll feel a more intense stretch than you might expect — espe­cial­ly if your frame of ref­er­ence is a cock or a squishy dildo.

If you seek more gen­tle dila­tion with some­thing soft­er or small­er, con­sid­er the fol­low­ing toys:

• A dif­fer­ent dila­tor set from VWELL — you have 5‑piece and 10-​piece options, includ­ing one that starts a bit big­ger than a pen­cil in diameter
• Squishy vagi­nal plugs, such as: 
  • Uberrime's Sensi, which is about aver­age diam­e­ter, locks in against my walls and ceil­ing when I squeeze
  • SquarePegToys’ G Squeeze, which comes in eight sizes for a deli­cious range, and has a gen­er­ous G‑spotty swell
• Dee's Big Daddies sil­i­cone dil­dos, which gen­er­al­ly start with an aver­age size (the Dee's Wee Daddies line), come in four larg­er sizes, and can be made in two firm­ness­es: squishy and squishi­er

I wouldn't say the SuperFit XL incre­ments are the most prac­ti­cal for sex with a well-​endowed part­ner — ide­al­ly, they'd be soft­er with small­er spac­ing in between each step. However, the kit need­ed to exist, and there are clear­ly shop­pers who crave such a set.

Who Would Love the VWELL SuperFit XL Kit?

The hard sil­i­cone and pro­gres­sive siz­ing make this large dila­tor a must-​have for those who:

• …are already com­fort­able with girth but want to main­tain elasticity
• …adore some­thing firm to clench around
• …love a challenge
• … are will­ing to take their time to warm up
• … don't want to spend big bucks on sev­er­al sep­a­rate sil­i­cone dil­dos for stretch­ing, and don't care to have any added “frills”
• …oth­er­wise want to enjoy big dick, but it takes some work to get it in

The Superfit XL dila­tor kit bun­dles beyond the stan­dard sizes for seri­ous stuff­ing. It's for those who want to get filled so good. Get straight up stretch­ing for a fair price, from above aver­age to absolute­ly aAaAaaaaAAAAAA.

Claim your size roy­al­ty status.

Shop VWELL dila­tor kits, from basic to buzzing to big bad­dies. Use code SUPER15 for 15% off.

Related reading:

• My mega-​guide to huge dil­dos and fisting
• Top sil­i­cone vagi­nal plugs for sta­tion­ary squeezing
• 4 com­mand­ments for size royalty

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