7 Reasons I Love b-Vibe’s Vibrating Fisting Dildo

I don’t keep count of how many people I have slept with anymore; I count how often I’ve been the first person someone has fisted.

And as someone who’s walked many partners through putting their hand inside me, I must say: the sex educators who designed b-Vibe’s vibrating fisting dildo knew what they were doing.

I notice so many little details that add up to make the fisting training experience easy-breezy, with less friction and more focus on pleasure. Prep for as long as you need, and pound it when you’re ready!

After trying this fisting dildo, I can’t unknow how smooth fisting warm-up can be. But don’t be fooled — easy beginnings can still lead to ecstatic overwhelm.

Vibrating fisting dildo vs. my hand

Why might someone crave a fisting dildo instead of simply using fingers or a hand?

Let’s say the quiet parts out loud:

• Some people might find it uncomfortable contorting to fit their hand inside their own orifice. And doing all that while maintaining a comfortable wrist angle? Forget it!
• It can be easier for some users to leverage their weight by squatting over and riding a moderately firm fisting dildo with a suction cup
• They or their partner might have bigger hands than this fisting dildo
• Someone’s hands might not have the mobility to fold and compress for long sessions. Yes, fisting is an athletic endeavor for the receiver. But have you considered that it might be super straining for the giver’s anatomy, too?
• This silicone fisting dildo with softened knuckles is way more forgiving than actual hands with sharp and firm knuckles and (of course) fingernails
• Vibrations can help someone’s pelvic floor relax to let more in
• This hand dildo could also potentially use less lube than an actual hand, as I’ll explain in a bit

There are so many reasons to love fisting dildos, including b-Vibe’s vibrating silicone version.

The vibrations transfer well through the silicone and can be used clitorally as a warm-up and take the experience from ‘overwhelmed’ to ‘orbitofrontal cortex temporarily shut down.’

shape and size for fisting beginners

It’s juuuust right, and I’m not just saying that because b-Vibe’s 10.5″ fisting dildo is about the size of my hand.

I’ve been told that my “tiny” hands “don’t even count as fisting” — which would almost be fighting words, if it weren’t for the fact that fisting dildos in more than one size make sense.

Of course, given the choice between a big hand and a small hand, a fisting beginner would rather start with a dainty-but-still-adult-sized hand before expanding (literally).

b-Vibe’s hand dildos come in two sizes — a smaller one with vibrations, and a bigger one without.

b-Vibe 10.5” fisting dildo measurements

Note: The maximum circumference isn’t exactly the maximum diameter × π because the folded hand’s cross-section isn’t quite round. It’s a little smaller because of the way the palm is cupped.

Someone’s hands might not have the mobility to fold and compress for long sessions. Yes, fisting is an athletic endeavor for the receiver. But have you considered that it might be super straining for the giver’s anatomy, too?

b-Vibe vibrating hand vs. other first trainers

Here’s how the b-Vibe Vibrating Silicone Hand Fisting Dildo looks next to:

• A soda can
• Tantus’s Fist Trainer (about 2.7″ across the widest diameter)
• My own hand and forearm
• The biggest dilator in my VWELL XL dilator kit

And it’s easy to say, “How much thought could possibly go into a fisting dildo? Can’t you just life-cast a hand?” if you’ve never experienced fisting yourself.

It’s not just that it’s tapered like a folded hand for fisting; it’s also slightly stylized and simplified, so the pressure isn’t as sharp. The fingers are slender, the girth ramp-up is gradual, the knuckles are smoothed out along the back of the hands, so it’s more evenly cone-like, with less pronounced edges.

Personally, I would have folded my hands more tightly than the model for this fisting dildo did, but I understand why they didn’t, because…

OMG! THE LUBE RESERVOIR!

The spoon-like hollow holds some lube — just the right amount. It’s just enough to disperse lube along the front wall (yay, less urethral irritation) without hogging all that much liquid (or dripping off the surface).

Its concavity also means less pressure on the urethra than a totally round cross-section would; b-Vibe’s fisting dildo evaded the most easily irritated area on my front wall.

They. Knew. What. They. Were. Doing.

Sure, the big hollow along the fisting dildo’s palm, under where the pinky and thumb squeeze together, doesn’t match the crevasses of how I would fold my hand. Imagine holding water in your cupped hand. It’s kind of like that, if silicone filled in where the water was, making the reservoir wider and shallower.

But that’s by design.

This fisting fanatic loves it, especially on the silky matte surface.

My personal lube recommendation: Wicked Simply Aqua or Hybrid Jelle for vaginal use. It’s thicker for less dripping. Hypothetically, you can use coconut oil anally, but that’s not in my wheelhouse, and I cannot advise on that from personal experience.

Do not use pure silicone lube with silicone dildos — which brings me to my next point.

A body-safe silicone fisting dildo

I love that this fisting dildo is body-safe — meaning it’s easy to clean, chemically inert for spicy sessions, and will last for years and years.

(The mechanical parts might break down faster, but the silicone is top-tier. There’s also a bigger, non-vibrating version, for when you’re ready to ramp up.)

Big dildos in high-quality materials are a given on my blog, but not every toy manufacturer meets that standard. b-Vibe does.

When it comes to your health — and something with a sizeable surface area going inside you — it’s worth investing in the best.

(But also, even with the high-quality materials, I still said “Wow!” when I first talked to b-Vibe’s representative and asked about the MSRP.)

After trying this fisting dildo, I can’t unknow how smooth fisting warm-up can be. But don’t be fooled — easy beginnings can still lead to ecstatic overwhelm.

Firmness for stability, comfort, and vibrations

The exterior construction

Again, the shape is nicely smoothed out, which melds well with the silicone’s firmness — making this dildo easier to ride when the “forearm” doesn’t collapse under my weight.

There’s a balance here: you might want a big fisting dildo to be forgiving and not too hard. It can flex a little at the wrist. But it can’t be so floppy that it has folds under the walls’ pressure. I think b-Vibe nailed that — at least, for those already used to big insertions.

b-Vibe’s 10.5″ vibrating hand dildo might not do all the work for you — the firmness took me some effort to go from zero to a whole hand — but its massaging motor certainly helps the user relax. OMG.

Overall, yes, it’s beginner-friendly with some caveats. If you need something super soft, shop Uberrime or Dee’s Big Daddies and select the 0030 silicone option.

The vibration quality

This vibrating fisting dildo is pointy and firm enough at the fingertips to focus vibrations so I can have a quickie clitoral orgasm before hand-banging — which, in turn, helps me relax. Honestly, the vibrations were a smidge better than I expected, and they travel through the silicone surprisingly well.

My frame of reference: b-Vibe’s vibrating butt plugs tend to have deep vibrations for what they are — not necessarily powerful, but moderate weight, soooo sensual, and they make me cum quickly. I understand that your mileage may vary and that I’m just built differently, though.

Choose from 4 speeds and 6 patterns on the fisting dildo. 2 hours of charge give you 1 hour of play time. Yes, the patterns add variety, but any of the vibration settings can get me off when the silicone shape and size do most of the work for me — via pressure against my internal clitoris.

If you need stronger vibrations, consider a dildo by Dee’s Big Daddies with a Vac-U-Lock port for slotting the Blush Limited Addiction bullet.

(Please charge your vibrating fisting hand dildo before use. I contemplated my life choices, such as: should I crabwalk to the nearest outlet with the toy still inside me?)

FISTING DILDO: FUCKING FERAL IN USE

Yes, even with my gorilla grip coochie. Especially with my gorilla grip coochie.

They. Knew. What. They. Were. Doing.

While the back of the hand feels smoothed out, the edges along the pinky and thumb’s metacarpals press along some of my walls’ tensest spots, making me cum so hard, especially when twisting.

Tapping and turning on vibrations made me cum again and again. The overwhelming girth already brings me to the edge, and any added vibration or jostle takes it to “forced orgasm” territory.

I had many stages of pausing, just nudging whatever I could fit. I breathed deep, focusing more on enjoyment than getting the whole hand inside — and was pleasantly surprised when it all popped in.

Twist it. Wrap your walls around the wrist. Clench on it. Thrust it behind the cervix. (I can do that and savor the sensation, but as always, many people don’t like cervical pressure. Your mileage may vary; experiment with angling so it’s not super centered.)

Paying attention to the little details

Again, the designers of this vibrating hand dildo knew what they were doing.

The triangular suction cup base and orientation node mean you can know which way the hand is facing by looking at or feeling the base alone. That’s useful in the dark or with a partner.

There’s also a balance between the base’s flexibility and its stability. It’s sturdy when suction-cupped to a surface, but bendy enough to use an O-ring to strap or mount your fisting dildo for more stability than suction cup pressure alone.

(Could you strap it on and thrust it? Sure, if you find a well-fitting harness. It might be unwieldy using your hips alone, though.)

The triangular base measures 3.2” across the widest portion, so keep that in mind if you’re, say, popping it onto a fucking machine docking plate.

And at the price for the quality you get? I’ll say it again: Wow! Chef’s kiss. Body-safe silicone and rideable and vibrating. We love it!

TL;DR: Is b-Vibe’s vibrating hand dildo friendly for fisting beginners?

Oh, yes. I love that they put thought into so many little things that can make fisting challenging, and smoothed them out — sometimes literally.

Assuming someone has already tried their share of big insertables, I’d say yes, the b-Vibe 10.5″ silicone vibrating hand dildo is fantastic for someone just starting fisting:

• It’s just a little smaller than my hand
• It’s mildly forgiving, but firm enough to ride
• The way it’s folded lets the lube stay in place with minimal dripping along the matte silicone surface
• The knuckles are smoothed out for more gradual tapering and easy insertion
• The vibrations transfer well through the silicone and can be used clitorally as a warm-up and take the experience from “overwhelmed” to “orbitofrontal cortex temporarily shut down.”

Take 10% the b-Vibe vibrating fisting silicone hand dildo at Horny Stoner — a shop also run by a sex educator, by the way — or get the bigger fisting dildo without vibrations.

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