Before using your Pure Wand, apol­o­gize to your neigh­bors in advance for all the screaming.

Have some tow­els ready, even if you think you can't squirt. Maybe set aside some time to ful­ly appre­ci­ate pound­ing your G‑spot to obliv­ion over and over again.

If you want the absolute most direct­ly intense G‑spot dil­do, one whose engi­neer­ing is a time­less clas­sic, this is it. Most sex shops won't even send the Pure Wand out for reviews any­more because it's already so well-​praised that it sim­ply doesn't need more. So if this is your first time, then wel­come. I am tru­ly hon­ored to be the angel who bless­es your G‑spot.

Upon see­ing the Pure Wand, many of my friends think, "HUH?!?! How is that sup­posed to be a sex toy?" But what the unini­ti­at­ed eye sees as this G‑spot dildo's most intim­i­dat­ing fea­tures, are pre­cise­ly its strengths. The Pure Wand's weight, steep curve, and rigid mate­r­i­al are why I can jig­gle it back and forth and come with­in 10 seconds.

In this review...

• Dude, it's heavy AF
• Two ends to choose from, both amazing
• Prepare for squirting
• Okay, it's not per­fect, but it's damn close
• G‑spot plea­sure for life

Using the njoy Pure Wand's 1.5lb weight

Yes, it's heavy. After all, the Pure Wand is essen­tial­ly a G‑spotting ham­mer. With this steel dil­do weigh­ing about a pound and a half (or 680g), its closed stor­age case feels like a brick. But rest assured: the weight means a lit­tle move­ment goes a long way. Small cir­cles, jig­gling in place, rock­ing back and forth, or just pulling on the han­dle to hold the head in place and apply pres­sure. That's pret­ty much all you'll need.

You might gain arm strength from thrust­ing faster when you're about to come. I don't want to deny that the lighter Jopen Comet Wand might be more com­fort­able for those with mobil­i­ty issues. But the Pure Wand and Comet Wand stim­u­late the G‑spot in slight­ly dif­fer­ent ways. The Comet Wand's sil­i­cone sur­face has drag, for nestling into the dip behind the pubic bone, pulling and grip­ping on the G‑spot.

The Pure Wand, by con­trast, relies on its weight for more pres­sure. It's also eas­i­er to aim because the par­en­thet­i­cal curve does most of the work. One end reach­es and sticks up into the G‑spot, while the end that rests out­side the body serves as a han­dle. A lit­tle tilt at the han­dle is enough to direct the insert­ed head right where you want it.

UPDATE: If you'd rather have some­thing in a sim­i­lar shape but lighter weight and more afford­able, con­sid­er this glass dil­do instead.

Dipping my toes in vaginal weightlifting

Its weight also makes it a lot of fun for Kegels. Back in ear­ly col­lege and my sex­u­al awak­en­ing, I had a habit of hold­ing the Pure Wand's small end and let the dil­do hang out of me while show­er­ing, styling my hair, and putting on make-​up. I'd take breaks when I dropped it, of course, and re-​insert it.

Since I seri­ous­ly can't feel the jig­gle of Kegel balls, it's cool hav­ing the visu­al and mechan­i­cal feed­back of how long I can hold this weight. (NOTE: SAFETY FIRST! Take breaks to relax between sets. Consult a pelvic floor ther­a­pist if you have a his­to­ry of tight­ness or ten­sion — KEGELS MIGHT NOT BE FOR YOU, espe­cial­ly if you're already very phys­i­cal­ly active. Take time to stretch.)

A rad double-ended dildo

There are two heads to choose from: one 1" wide, and the oth­er 1.5" wide. Both work beau­ti­ful­ly for the G‑spot, though the small­er end might be com­fort­able for the prostate.

The small end, I use for pin­point­ed stim­u­la­tion and a quick­ie orgasm. If the Zumio is my exter­nal "instant orgasm" but­ton, the Pure Wand's small end is the inter­nal ana­log; I don't have any oth­er dil­do that so pre­cise­ly tar­gets my G‑spot. The large end, like more for steady pres­sure than any­thing else. Most times, hold in place while push­ing the han­dle down and using a clit vibe. Occasionally, I might rock it back and forth, but the pres­sure is the key.

I high­ly rec­om­mend try­ing a robust cli­toral vibra­tor with the Pure Wand. This isn't because it's not enough on its own for me, though that's prob­a­bly the case for most peo­ple with vagi­nas. Instead, I find that using a pow­er­ful exter­nal vibra­tor bal­ances the inter­nal inten­si­ty and syn­er­gizes. It doesn't even feel like I'm thrust­ing some­thing against my G‑spot; it just feels like it's in pure bliss of its own accord.

UPDATE: Find out how the njoy Pure Wand mea­sures up to my oth­er favorite met­al dil­dos!

Squirting with the njoy Pure Wand

With or with­out the clit vibe, the Pure Wand is enough to make me squirt, but hav­ing some cli­toral stim­u­la­tion makes it eas­i­er for me to relax. Again, I advo­cate hav­ing some­thing absorbent to lie down on so that, if you do feel like squirt­ing, you're not wor­ried about mak­ing a mess. I'm still kind of in a weird men­tal place about squirt­ing. It's total­ly okay to "just" have some awe­some non-​squirting orgasms. However, it's bet­ter to be pre­pared and com­fort­able regardless.

If you want exam­ples of squirt­ing and using the Pure Wand, Pinklabel​.TV and CrashPadSeries​.com are help­ful and eth­i­cal places to start. Specifically, CrashPad episodes 131, 191, and 234 all fea­ture the Pure Wand. I wasn't kid­ding when I said that the Pure Wand is beloved among sex toy connoisseurs!

And if squirt­ing doesn't hap­pen, enjoy the orgasm all the same! There's so much pres­sure on women to per­form a cer­tain way in bed, and there's no hier­ar­chy of orgasms. The best kind of orgasm is whichev­er one makes you feel good.

Why might someone not like the Pure Wand (...and alternatives to check out)

The Pure Wand's G‑spot stim­u­la­tion is about as intense as you can get. If you've read this far, that prob­a­bly doesn't both­er you, but I do have to empha­size that. If you don't like intense and direct G‑spot stim­u­la­tion, don't get a Pure Wand.

As well, it's per­fect for aim­ing a lit­tle past the pubic bone, which works for the over­whelm­ing major­i­ty of peo­ple. A few peo­ple with vagi­nas might find that their G‑spot is shal­low­er, and part of the spongy tis­sue on the pubic bone. For those with shal­low­er G‑spots, a shal­low­er curve and less bul­bous head might be help­ful. Try the Chrystalino Superior.

Other potential sources of discomfort

Some may find it uncom­fort­able to remove the Pure Wand because of the dras­tic dip between the head and shaft. If the Pure Wand locks firm­ly in place when you try to pull it out, I say to turn it so that the dip is fac­ing side­ways first. Then pull it out. That's a rel­a­tive­ly easy solu­tion that doesn't entail miss­ing out on amaz­ing orgasms.

Something less intense to consider first

If you're unsure whether the Comet Wand or Pure Wand is right for you, start with a curved or bul­bous glass dil­do, like the Chrystalino Champ or Superior. And if you're not sure whether even glass is right for you, a Tantus Sport. It's sil­i­cone, so it has some give to it, and a bit thin­ner. Then decide from there whether you want to lev­el up to some­thing more intense.

You'll have to put waaaaay more effort into find­ing your G‑spot with the Sport if you don't know where it is already, though. Personally, because of its ease in aim­ing, choos­ing the Pure Wand as the first G‑spot toy I ever bought was one my life's best decisions.

UPDATE: Need a more beginner-​friendly and afford­able G‑spot dil­do? See my soul-​snatching starter pack guide!

njoy Pure Wand = G-spot pleasure for life

If you've decid­ed to get a Pure Wand, your G‑spot will nev­er be the same again. Your invest­ment will last a life­time. And how many orgasms do you think you can use the Pure Wand for before you die? Short answer: a fuck­ing lot. Not "just" orgasms, but some of the best orgasms your G‑spot could give you.

The Pure Wand's stain­less steel con­struc­tion means that it ain't going any­where. Like even if there was a fire in my home, I might not even res­cue my njoy Pure Wand before exit­ing because it'd almost cer­tain­ly sur­vive. This dil­do will out­live you.

After 4 years, I still main­tain my stance on the njoy Pure Wand: from Kegels to learn­ing about my G‑spot's response to stim­u­la­tion, it was the most foun­da­tion­al toy for get­ting to know my body.

So many sex toys have come and gone over the years, but njoy's designs haven't changed much at all. They don't need to, when there's noth­ing to add and noth­ing to take away. The Pure Wand is a holy grail among sex blog­gers for a rea­son: it's the clos­est a G‑spot dil­do has ever come to perfection.

You can find the njoy Pure Wand at Peepshow Toys. If it's not on sale by the time you're read­ing this, you can still get 10% off your entire order using coupon code SUPERSMASHCACHE 

FURTHER READING:

• A rank­ing of aaaal­l­l­ll my best stain­less steel dil­dos! It was so hard to choose just one when they're all my favorite.
• A beginner-​friendly but brain-​bending starter pack for all your inter­nal hot spots

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Thank you to Peepshow Toys for send­ing me the njoy Pure Wand in exchange for a review. It's entire­ly a holy grail toy, and I under­stand why most shops won't let new review­ers try it, so writ­ing this post was a privilege.