VWELL Flex pelvic wand review: ideal beginner sex toy?

VWELL’s Flex vibrat­ing wand goes beyond feel­ing fuck­ing fan­tas­tic; it’s ther­a­peu­tic, tar­get­ed pain relief for those who need it, while mak­ing pen­e­tra­tion and pelvic floor release fun again.

Yes, it’s orgas­mic. Yes, its long and lean S‑curve makes it exact­ly my type for a deep-​diving diva, but I’m not 100% sure I can do jus­tice to what the VWELL Flex wand can do for oth­ers with its versatility.

Some would even call it a mat­ter of, “I’m so grate­ful to get my old life and hob­bies back."

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Who was the VWELL Flex vibrating massager made for?

This trig­ger point release mas­sager serves so many users:

• Deep pen­e­tra­tion fanat­ics seek­ing cervix massage
• The chron­i­cal­ly clenched gorilla-​grip coochie gang (Tender lev­a­tor ani when stressed? Overactive obtu­ra­tor inter­nus, anyone?)
• Beginner babes who want to bang on a budget

If you’ve strug­gled with pelvic floor ten­sion and pain, you prob­a­bly know what I mean. Maybe you’ve been con­sis­tent with the stretch­es and deep breath­ing. You might even be flex­i­ble but (ugh!) still lock up “down there” again, or feel a “knot” inside of you that just won’t relax, and you want to move on with your damn day and focus on exer­cise that makes you feel good.

Balancing budget, erotic effectiveness, and tender loving care

Maybe you’ve been assigned dila­tor work or a slen­der pelvic floor trig­ger point release wand and start­ed think­ing, “Oh, gosh. Obligatory pen­e­tra­tion. What a chore this has become,” and the men­tal block makes it hard­er to relax. VWELL's Flex mas­sager can help with that.

While I usu­al­ly focus on the fun on my sex toy review blog, I think it’s also impor­tant to rec­og­nize that pen­e­tra­tion isn’t always fun for every­one — and that some ther­a­peu­tic pelvic floor mas­sagers go above and beyond in bridg­ing that gap.

Oh, and did I men­tion it’s afford­able? All of these fea­tures, com­bined with price, might make it the ulti­mate beginner-​friendly toy for some­one built like me.

VWELL Flex vibrator measurements and specifications

OH MY GOSH! How does it spe­cial­ize so well and vibe with ver­sa­til­i­ty? If I could go back in time and show my past self only one sex toy, it would be the VWELL Flex Wand. It’s that good.

I give it ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5 out of 5 stars with­in its category.

Where do I personally like to press?

Everyone's a lit­tle dif­fer­ent, but here's how I like to use my VWELL Flex:

• Cervix and A‑spot stim­u­la­tion: going deep with the big end with short thrusts, rock­ing back and forth, or sway­ing side to side
• G‑spot mas­sage: stay­ing shal­low with the thin end, angled for­ward, and focus­ing more on pulling against the pubic bone, some­times with the vibra­tions turned on
• Levator ani relax­ation: press­ing the thin end along the sides of my walls — that's where my most per­sis­tent knots are — with the shaft gen­tly curved.

When I use the thin end for focused pres­sure, IT HURTS SO GOOD and trig­gers a prac­ti­cal­ly imme­di­ate orgasm for me if I press hard. After all, the legs of the inter­nal cli­toris and puden­dal nerve are high­ly active in the area. I don't rec­om­mend inten­tion­al­ly going for sen­so­ry over­load if your pelvic floor's cranky, but you know your body best.

For G‑spot stim­u­la­tion, I appre­ci­ate that the head swells and swoops and hooks — but is round­ed at the inner cor­ner, align­ing well with the dip of my pubic bone. Some peo­ple like a more severe curve and flat head with defined cor­ners for knead­ing the front wall, but that's not me. I think what VWELL did is a bit "safer" in terms of fit­ting a wider range of bodies.

I usu­al­ly don't care for G‑spot vibra­tors, but VWELL's Flex isn't just a G‑spot vibra­tor; it's looooong and adapt­able for many hot spots.

And while butt stuff isn't quite my thing, the core is sta­ble enough that you can bend and use the VWELL Flex wand for butt stuff, too. That brings me to a ques­tion I had before try­ing this toy.

VWELL Flex materials and construction

Now, some of you may be won­der­ing: can the pos­able core accom­mo­date the chron­i­cal­ly clenched goril­la grip gang? As some­one who has straight­ened out so many adjustable vibra­tors, the short answer is gen­er­al­ly yes, up to a cer­tain point.

For one, most of the shell that hous­es the vibrat­ing motor is hard ABS plas­tic under soft sil­i­cone. There will always be some cur­va­ture in the insertable por­tion even if you straight­en out the pos­able part. The met­al core occu­pies only about an inch and a half of the length, while the remain­ing eight inch­es or so remain rigid.

Second, the VWELL Flex mas­sager was designed to gen­tly press into trig­ger points, like you're soft­en­ing a toma­to with­out out­right squish­ing it. Generally, with ther­a­peu­tic work, you want a slow build as your mus­cles "reset" and your ner­vous sys­tem gets used to the pen­e­trat­ing presence.

You're not ram­ming it against your pubic bone — which is when the straight­en­ing out would hap­pen more often. (I do have a more rigid rec­om­men­da­tion for that, too, though. Keep reading.)

Third, the met­al part is stur­dier than many oth­er toys I've tried. Je Joue's Hera Flex was flim­sy. So were the Cal Exotics Pretty Little Curvy and Bubbler wands — they wish they were the VWELL Flex.

Who is the VWELL Flex not for?

With the Flex mas­sager, you're not going to get the deep pres­sure and weight you would with sol­id glass or steel, like the njoy Fun Wand or Jimmyjane Dillenia Gama.

However, by the time someone's seek­ing a pelvic floor release wand, they might find glass and steel intim­i­dat­ing, and deeply appre­ci­ate the serene aes­thet­ic of sky blue and soft curves.

The Intimate Rose is also firmer, slim­mer, and more tight­ly curved for those who want some­thing even more pre­cise and less of a stretch.

However, I think VWELL's Flex G‑spot and trig­ger point mas­sager bal­ances that sweet spot between a bois­ter­ous "YES, expand ecsta­sy every­where!" and a more gen­tle, "I'm so proud of you for tak­ing care of yourself."

And, of course, no toy can be for every­one — if someone's utter­ly unin­ter­est­ed in pen­e­tra­tion, I'd rec­om­mend a more spe­cial­ized cli­toral vibra­tor.

How are the VWELL Flex massager's vibrations?

I've raved so much about the shape that the vibra­tions have tak­en a back seat here. The short answer is they're about par as far as sim­ple G‑spot vibra­tors go, and maybe a smidge bet­ter than one would expect for the price. There are two but­tons, each for click­ing through their respec­tive motor's four speeds and 2 pat­terns. Frankly, I appre­ci­ate tight­en­ing up the menu — we don't need an end­less pat­tern selection.

Would I reach for this toy for exter­nal clit mas­sage? Probably not. I'd soon­er tip drill with it and savor the slight stretch at the entrance, where the inter­nal cli­toris gets the attention.

But we don't need any­thing fanci­er when VWELL Flex's claim to fame is its shape, double-​ended design, and build. We have reach, ade­quate pres­sure, and option­al vibra­tion to help relax — this trig­ger point release and A‑spot vibra­tor does so many things well.

My verdict on the VWELL Flex

My inter­nal cli­toris, G‑spot (also known as the CUV com­plex), A‑spot, cervix, and chron­i­cal­ly clenched pelvic floor mus­cu­la­ture all love it.

I've com­pared some of my writ­ing to a ther­a­pist wear­ing a cozy cardi­gan, cov­er­ing up a tat­too sleeve, and I think the VWELL Flex gives off the same vibe (no pun intend­ed). It looks so unin­tim­i­dat­ing, even for some­one get­ting used to pen­e­tra­tion — gen­tle but strong enough for explor­ing every cen­time­ter inside, from a cranky pub­o­coc­cygeus to the car­nal pos­te­ri­or fornix.

VWELL knew what they were doing. The pelvic floor ther­a­pists rec­om­mend­ing it know what they're doing. And I, some­one who has test­ed thou­sands of sex toys, am just delight­ed at how the design­ers (or even the mar­keters?) put togeth­er all of these fea­tures and brought it to me. It's the dream that I hadn't even thought to ask for, and I'm so excit­ed to bring it to the peo­ple who need it the most.

Get the VWELL Flex pelvic floor massager if you

• Are explor­ing your inter­nal hot spots
• Are new or get­ting back into penetration
• Need to knead those knots!
• Feel ready to try some­thing like the Intimate Rose but a lit­tle thicker
• Delight in an all-​arounder on a budget
• Want a G‑spot mas­sager that dou­bles as an A‑spot massager
• Seek sex toys with some­what of a han­dle for grab­bing and angling (see also the Boutique Voila Smartee, if that's you)
• Just real­ly love long and lean toys (but want some­thing less rigid than the Jimmyjane Dillenia Gama's glass)

Take 15% off VWELL inti­mate health and dila­tors with code SUPER15.

Further reading

• Read more of my VWELL mas­sager reviews
• Read my Jimmyjane Dillenia Gama review, of a sim­i­lar­ly curved glass dildo
• Check out my oth­er sim­ple but high-​impact, beginner-​friendly faves

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This post was spon­sored! Opinions expressed are my own — I gen­uine­ly enjoyed the VWELL vibrat­ing pelvic floor release wand and every­thing it has to offer.