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Top 10 Best Sex Toys of 2019 & Year-End Recap 1

Top 10 Best Sex Toys of 2019 & Year-End Recap

My 2019 read like the premise for a Netflix Original sit­com: the tri­als and tribu­la­tions of a nomadic sex toy review blog­ger. For extra spice, throw in: The insta­bil­i­ty of my liv­ing sit­u­a­tion gave some busi­ness part­ners a chuck­le. "Oh,…

My Past Sexy Side Hustles & Free Stuff (Beyond Reviews!) 2

My Past Sexy Side Hustles & Free Stuff (Beyond Reviews!)

In the cur­rent gig econ­o­my, you've prob­a­bly heard Millennial femme friends joke about sug­ar baby­ing, finan­cial dom­i­na­tion, or sell­ing used panties to pay off stu­dent loans. Or just for extra spend­ing mon­ey. It's not a myth— there's no short­age of…

Choosing the Best Anal Toys (for Beginner & Intermediate Play) 3

Choosing the Best Anal Toys (for Beginner & Intermediate Play)

My vagi­na is size roy­al­ty, but my butt is a plug ple­beian. Even if I hadn't men­tioned that before in a review, you might have noticed my rel­a­tive lack of posts about anal play. It's not because I haven't put toys…

4 Countries Where Traveling With or Buying Sex Toys Is Illegal 4

4 Countries Where Traveling With or Buying Sex Toys Is Illegal

SEX BLOGGING COMES WITH PERKS LIKE JACKING OFF FOR WORK, BUT DOWNSIDES LIKE TRAVEL LIMITATIONS. THE RIGHT TO BUY SEX TOYS IS ONE THAT I ADMITTEDLY TAKE FOR GRANTED. It's not a minor priv­i­lege. Without dil­dos, I couldn't effec­tive­ly massage…

25+ Deep Penetration Dildos For A-Spotting and Cervix Massage 11

25+ Deep Penetration Dildos For A-Spotting and Cervix Massage

Sex Toys That Target the Anterior and Posterior Fornices Discovering cer­vi­cal orgasms changed my sex life. For myself, the orgasms from deep pen­e­tra­tion feel like potent hits of oxy­tocin — heart-​​eyes emo­jis and implo­sions far more full-​​bodied than cli­toral or…

Why I Don't Hunt For "Unicorns" / FFM Threesomes 12

Why I Don't Hunt For "Unicorns" / FFM Threesomes

Given a long enough time­line, prac­ti­cal­ly every straight dude I've been with has asked me for: an FFM three­some, espe­cial­ly with one of my (unspec­i­fied) cis female friends butt stuff, but with only me receiv­ing My response to the for­mer used…

5 Easy Ways to Have Better Sex 14

5 Easy Ways to Have Better Sex

Partnered sex is one of the most com­pli­cat­ed things we're expect­ed to teach our­selves. Some parts come nat­u­ral­ly, while oth­ers are less intu­itive at first. Here are some small adjust­ments in the bed­room that can have an explo­sive impact. 1.…

STIs & What I Wish More People Knew About Them 15

STIs & What I Wish More People Knew About Them

[Content warn­ing: this post con­tains rec­ol­lec­tion of sex­u­al assault. If that's a hard top­ic for you, skip #5.] I wish we talked about chlamy­dia the way we talk about strep throat. It's not the infec­tion that ter­ri­fies peo­ple — a…

Top 10 Sex Toys & Products for Partner Play 16

Top 10 Sex Toys & Products for Partner Play

ANY SEX TOY CAN BE A COUPLE'S TOY IF YOU USE IT WITH A PARTNER. Some toys, though, are more con­ve­nient to com­bine with par­tic­u­lar part­nered activ­i­ties than oth­ers. These are my top picks, from a most­ly vanil­la stand­point (kinki­er…

A guide to organizing your sex tools for easy access and fun presentation!

5 Ways to Optimize Sex Toy Storage & Organization!

Back in 2018, I had the free­dom to dis­play what I (at the time thought) was a met­ric fuck­ton of toys. Times have changed a lot: I have way more now! But I have fond mem­o­ries of the built-​​in bookshelf…

Fun with foreskin: tips, techniques, and .GIFs! 17

Fun with foreskin: tips, techniques, and .GIFs!

American cock vs. European cock: have you ever won­dered the dif­fer­ence? Or had aspi­ra­tions to trav­el the world and, maybe in the process, hook up with lovers of dif­fer­ent cul­tur­al back­grounds? If you're an in the U.S., you might (depend­ing on the…