One orgasm, 10 orgasms, 20 orgasms in one session? Whatever the electricity feels like for you here and now, enjoy the vibe.
Expanding Ecstasy Everywhere
You deserve to feel good. Build on your enjoyment of sex and enjoyment of life by exploring and mapping:
- Your pleasure bodyscape – finding your physical hot spots and breathing you deep to get you going
- Your pleasure mindset – prime your mind to feel good, become best friends with your desires, and focus on the fantastic feelings
- Your boundaries – say no to what (and who!) doesn’t feel good so you can make room for your fully feral fucking expression
- Toyland’s topography – toys are tools for getting in touch with the smorgasbord of sensations around you
- …and embracing the edges as you expand, so you can feel safe exploring the unfamiliar and getting creative with the totality of possibilities
How Does it All Come Together?
Brain-breath-body integration goes beyond the genitals, further into the mindfuck, and feeling it all over.
Subjectifying your sexuality and sensuality shifts from a performance for the outside viewer to the inside experiencer. Revel in the body’s innate ability to feel “oh-god-oh-fuck-yes” ecstatic.
Demystifying, destigmatizing, and savoring your subconscious desires lets you:
- Cultivate risk awareness and tolerance for the taboo
- Break binary boxes and rejecting mainstream limitations
- Navigate nuance, darkness, and dimensionality as humans
We’ll contextualize the politics of pleasure so that self-care, intimate partner care, and community care converge.
We’ll say “fuck you” to your limiting social conditioning.
Take your pleasure into your own hands. Explore new things, do your Kegels (and reverse Kegels), breathe, and enjoy. Don’t believe the bullshit that it’s inherently harder for women to orgasm. We don’t have to accept the “orgasm gap” on a cultural level.
Go deeper, feed the feral, so you can feel good about feeling good and unlock potent pleasure on your own terms.
Claiming pleasure begins with believing that your body is capable and deserving of great things — whatever that looks like for you.
Because, ultimately, my work isn’t just about enjoying sex but also relishing your radiant life.
Where Did This All Come From?
My blog originated by sharing less conventional pathways to pleasure, such as:
- Deep penetration and cervical orgasms
- Exploring the A-spot (anterior fornix)
- Fisting, vaginal stretching, and huge toys
- Stainless steel dildos to fucking bludgeon my womb
- Pleasure Princess life — because, when the culture of sexual pleasure often centers on hetero men, a woman saying “We’re doing this my way” is bold as fuck.
How to Work With Me
Sex toy shoppers and experimental fuckers can:
- Click around my reviews and buyer guides
- Email me for toy recommendations
- Book a pleasure pep talk for one-on-one peer support
Content collaborators and sponsors can check out this page about my services.
Femdom clients can text or voice call via Sextpanther.
Want to go deeper? If you:
- Are looking to learn beyond my sex ed articles, Femdom field notes, and banter
- Have questions beyond the scope of an email
