Making Money Lewd & Nude Modeling: The Grind Behind It
“$140 an hour?!” a guy friend exclaimed when I mentioned a modeling gig. “For that kind of money, I'd do whatever they told me to.” It's easy for men from the…
Category: Business & Content Creation
How Do Sex Bloggers File and Pay Taxes?
My life isn’t all orgasms and rainbows; there’s much unglamorous admin work behind the scenes. If you want to kill a boner, just mention paying taxes. Unfortunately, tax returns are…
A Sex Toy Reviewer's Ethical Code of Conduct
Friends don’t let friends buy sketchy sex toys from Wish. And friends don’t let friends rely on fabricated sex toy reviews where the writer hasn’t actually fucked the toy. My sex…
3 Reasons to Deprioritize Social Media for Adult Businesses
Imagine that merely mentioning “Link in bio” on your Instagram story could get your account flagged or deleted. A photo of a brightly-colored, abstractly shaped dildo gets marked as “adult…
5 Ways Companies Screw Over Reviewers & Cam Models
The business of blogging involves alliances and collaborations with companies. How do you navigate that? Though many sex shops are delights to work with, psychic vampires also run rampant in…
5+ Worn or Used Sexy Things to Sell — Beyond Underwear
Selling used panties and bedroom props is a legit way to earn some extra spending money, especially if you're an attractive woman. I briefly touched on the practice in my…
5 Characteristics of the Best Sex Shops
I've worked with many great sex shops over the years, and many shitty ones. It's no mystery: the retailers I link to over and over again are the ones who…
5 Things to Know About Nude & Lingerie Modeling Online (Interview with Dekilah)
Modeling changed drastically in the time of COVID-19. Due to social distancing measures, there was an influx of people trying boudoir modeling or adult work online. There's no circumventing, however,…
4 Common Misconceptions About Sex-Positive Bloggers
When I reveal that I'm a sex toy reviewer, I sometimes hear variations of "Really?! But you're so quiet/wholesome/[insert another synonym for demure]!" On a bad day, I might clap…
How to Cast a DIY Silicone Dildo at Home
If you're a regular reader of my blog, you probably already agree that dildos can be highly collectible pieces of art. They're functional tools, but it sure as hell helps…
My Past Sexy Side Hustles & Free Stuff (Beyond Reviews!)
In the current gig economy, you've probably heard Millennial femme friends joke about sugar babying, financial domination, or selling used panties to pay off student loans. Or just for extra…
4 Countries Where Traveling With or Buying Sex Toys Is Illegal
SEX BLOGGING COMES WITH PERKS LIKE JACKING OFF FOR WORK, BUT DOWNSIDES LIKE TRAVEL LIMITATIONS. THE RIGHT TO BUY SEX TOYS IS ONE THAT I ADMITTEDLY TAKE FOR GRANTED. It's…