Tagged: Personal

High Libido Woman: Nature or Nurture? 1

High Libido Woman: Nature or Nurture?

Am I con­sti­tu­tion­al­ly wired to be hornier than the aver­age woman, or is there a "nur­ture" com­po­nent that I have inter­nal­ized? Today, we exam­ine some of the exter­nal fac­tors influ­enc­ing a woman's high libido ⁠— and her will­ing­ness to act…

Are Creampies a Kink? Why Are People Into Them? 2

Are Creampies a Kink? Why Are People Into Them?

On today’s episode of pas­sion­ate, play­ful seman­tics: are creamp­ies a kink? Cue Carrie Bradshaw typ­ing at her Macbook with the voiceover, “And I couldn’t help but won­der…” Some of my read­ers have said, “If you call them creamp­ies, they def­i­nite­ly are…

Diary of a Sex Educator: My Job & My Dating Experiences 3

Diary of a Sex Educator: My Job & My Dating Experiences

I want to find a sanc­tu­ary in my long-​​term part­ner. That applies dou­bly when you're in a polar­iz­ing career field. Sometimes, being a sex edu­ca­tor can put me in uncom­fort­able sit­u­a­tions in the dat­ing world, but I have to remember…

"Oops, That's My Kink": 2 Turn-Ons I've Discovered on Accident 4

"Oops, That's My Kink": 2 Turn-Ons I've Discovered on Accident

Do you ever jack off to some­thing unortho­dox and then, in the post-​​nut clar­i­ty, think, “Oh gosh, what have I done?” Sometimes, a kink catch­es you off guard. And some­times, you own it. The human brain is a fun­ny place.…

2 Spicy Outfits I Wore to Dirty Show 22 5

2 Spicy Outfits I Wore to Dirty Show 22

A friend described this look as “a witch who’s benev­o­lent to chil­dren and women but will poi­son a man for hav­ing bad intent.” Cue Russian witch house music in the back­ground on repeat while I dance in front of the…

"Pillow Princess": 5 Ways I'm Reclaiming the Title 6

"Pillow Princess": 5 Ways I'm Reclaiming the Title

The orgasm ratio between me and my male part­ners is eas­i­ly over 10:1 — 10 of mine for every one of theirs. I'm hav­ing a good time, and so are they. So why does the inter­net seem to hate Pillow Princesses…

Menstrual Cycle Tracking Basal Body Thermometer Vector

How Each Menstrual Cycle Phase Affects My Sex Life

If some­one says that cis women are wildest dur­ing their peri­ods, they've nev­er seen me sex toy shop­ping and booty-​​calling dur­ing ovu­la­tion. One of my Instagram fol­low­ers com­mis­er­at­ed: You're not alone, girl. My Tinder bio when I'm ovu­lat­ing goes from,…

Boobs vs. Butts & Bisexual Lighting 8

Boobs vs. Butts & Bisexual Lighting

"In the end, boobs are noth­ing more than fake ass­es. And if I had to choose between the orig­i­nal and the imi­ta­tion, of course I would choose the orig­i­nal." — Kangoku Gakuen /​​ Prison School Ch. 68 So much of perceived…