The Polite Way to Break Up (With Your Therapist)

It’s not easy to share your darkest thoughts with someone and trust that they’ll understand — let alone advise with a harmonious balance between acceptance and growth. And when a therapist doesn’t hear you out, it takes only a...

Dating Yourself Any Day (Not Just Valentine’s Day!)

After British Vogue interviewed Emma Watson, the media fixated on the 20 seconds where she talked about being single and “self-partnered.” It was a conversation where she spoke about mental health, her place in the world as an activist,...

4 Common Misconceptions About Sex-Positive Bloggers

When I reveal that I’m a sex toy reviewer, I sometimes hear variations of “Really?! But you’re so quiet/wholesome/[insert another synonym for demure]!” On a bad day, I might clap back, “I’m sorry— I didn’t realize that introversion meant...

[Image: Magic Wand Rechargeable, BMS Factory Swan Wand, We-Vibe Wand, BMS PalmPower Extreme, Pillow Talk Cheeky, Blush Noje W4 compared and ranked mini-reviews]

Rechargeable Wand Vibrator Comparison & Mini-Reviews: find the best cordless & compact wands

Magic Wand Rechargeable, BMS Swan Wand Classic, We-Vibe Wand, PalmPower Extreme, Pillow Talk Cheeky, Blush Nöje W4, and more to come! I love long and filling insertable pervertables, but sometimes, I want an intense wank without taking my pants...

A Super Smashing Sex Toy Gift Guide: Find the Best Sex Giftable Toys!

Sex toys are the closest thing to giving someone on-demand orgasms. But the options can get overwhelming, even within Spectrum Boutique’s carefully curated selection. Here’s a list of my favorite pleasurable giftables, to help narrow down your choices. Some...

How to Cast a DIY Silicone Dildo at Home

If you’re a regular reader of my blog, you probably already agree that dildos can be highly collectible pieces of art. They’re functional tools, but it sure as hell helps me get excited when I find a dildo aesthetically...