Banana Split Dildo Review: Is it Climax-Worthy?
(Splitting my lips on the cumfectionary banana split dildo) I've tried silicone in silly shapes like produce and marshmallow swirls,...
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Uberrime Cthulhu Review: Huge Monster Dildo with Baseball Bat Girth
Stack two soda cans on top of one another. That's roughly the size of the large Cthulhu dildo. Is there...
Zumio X2 Review: second-generation pinpoint paradise
For someone who likes a fingernail over their clitoral hood, or some teeth when being eaten out, the Zumio X2...
Nu Sensuelle Nikita Review: the new most powerful bullet vibrator?
Nikita's power wowed me the moment it first jolted in my hands. I was both in awe at the new...
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Review: Honey Play Box Vibrosa Mini vs. Lovense Lush 4 Bluetooth Egg Vibes
When sex toy testing turns into gorilla grip coochie tug-of-war and a fight with physics. Honey Play Box has audacity,...
Review: the Gyrating Flicker tongue vibrator SERIOUSLY spins
Though "spinning" isn't quite the right word; it thrashes. It is aggressive. And that's what makes the Cal Exotics Gyrating...
Dee's Big Daddy Dakota XL Review: favorite uncut dildo?
I stop overthinking. I just thrust and cum and thrust and cum. My whimpers are enough to say I delighted in...
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Fabled Toys Review: Lucien Dragon Dildo & Octyra Tentacle for Affordable Fantasy Fucking
For texture sluts and monster fuckers (who don't love the monster sizes) Fabled Toys' Lucien dragon dildo forces me to...
b-Vibe's Slipskin Curvy 10" Sliding Skin Dildo Rocked my G-Spot
Its juicier, more pronounced head and commanding corona grab at my walls, latching onto my G‑spot when I clench on...
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