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Sex education
Body talk, health, how-to
- The guide to closing the "orgasm gap"
- A BS-free guide to cervical orgasms
- 11 Ways Glass Dildos Changed My Sex Life
- Exploring the A‑Spot (AFE Zone)
- Mega-guide to fisting and 24 huge dildos
- Ways I've made my orgasms more intense (including breath and energy orgasms)
- 5 Ways to Elevate Sex With Arousal Lube
- How each menstrual cycle phase affects my sex life
Erotica
Banter
Dating, relationships, and kink
- 7 Steamy Skills For Soft Dominant Dirty Talk
- My Pillow Princess Manifesto
- Are creampies a kink? Why are they so hot?
- EVEN MORE Truths about Dating as a Sex Industry Professional (UNABRIDGED)
- 3 Types of Submissive Men Who LOVE Chastity Cock Cages!
- 4 Shitty Dating Advice Marketing Ploys I’m So Sick of Seeing
- I'm a woman with a high libido. Is it nature or is it nurture?
Buyer guides
- Sex Toys for Every Star Sign & Pleasure Persona: A Gift Guide
- Sexual Body Care: My Favorite Lube, CBD, Pheromones, Condoms, Massage & More!
- Why cheap sex toys are awful for you
- 13+ unique sex toys for the collector who has everything
- 16 best Fun Factory sex toys I love, ranked
- Budget-friendly & body-safe sex toys
- Characteristics of the best sex toy shops
Vibrators
- 8 Breathtaking A‑Spot Vibrators for Deep Penetration, Ranked!
- Self-Thrusting Sex Toys vs. My Gorilla Grip Coochie: a Comparison of Contraptions
- Magic Wand OG vs. Rechargeable vs. Plus vs. Mini Review & Comparison
- Rechargeable wand vibrator comparison
- Best Bullet Vibrators: Tango X vs. Swan Maximum, Je Joue, and More!
- 20+ best air pulse pressure wave vibrators, ranked and compared!
- Rose Sex Toy Guide: Air Pulses, Colors, Variants, Plugs, and More!
Everything else
Dildos I adore
- njoy Eleven
- Uberrime Aptus
- Uberrime Night King
- Pipedream Icicles No. 70
- L'Acier Capo
- Uberrime Anurian
- L'Acier Reverb
- Vixskin Johnny
- Dee's Big Daddies Dante
- Vixen Creations Randy
- Uberrime Amante
- njoy Pure Wand
- NS Novelties G‑Spot Glow Wand
- Tantus Bishop XL Super Soft
- NS Novelties Colours DP Pleasures
- Vixen Creations Gambler
- SelfDelve Aubergine / Eggplant
- SelfDelve Corn on the Cob
Non-vibrating external toys
Powered toys I love
(Vibrators, thrusters, oscillators, and more!)
- Velvet Thruster Prime
- Fun Factory Vim
- Hot Octopuss Pulse Queen
- Magic Wand Rechargeable & Plus
- Doxy Die Cast
- BMS Swan Maximum Bullet
- Je Joue Duet Bullet
- Playboy Ring My Bell Clit-Thumper
- Dame Products Com
- Lovense Osci 2
- We-Vibe Rave
- Lovense Domi 2
- Fun Factory Volta
- Je Joue G‑Kii
- Fun Factory Stronic Surf
- Zumio I and E oscillator
- Cal Exotics Empowered Queen
- California Dreaming Santa Cruz Coaster
- BMS Factory Swan Wand Classic