4 Mental Hang-Ups About Vibrators I've Gotten Over
I've used hundreds of sex toys, and that has made me more sensitive, more hyper-aware of what steps on my "arousal accelerator," and more easily able to orgasm with a…
Category: Debunking Myths
Mastering the G-Spot's Mystique (To Unlock More Elation!)
MORE NUANCED WAYS TO UNDERSTAND (AND HAVE FUN WITH) THE G‑SPOT A dildo tilted just right can be starry-eye-inducing — and finger flexing goes a long way in pleasure if…
PMDD: A Life-Threatening Mental Illness
Getting my period is sweet, sweet psychological relief — and not because I'm avoiding pregnancy. The beginning of menstruation for me marks the end of the worst phase of my…
4 Commandments for Size Queens With Vaginas
"Let's just say she's 'open' to new things," someone commented on a viral video of my sex toy collection. Big dildos are among the most polarizing and stigmatizing toys for…
7 Factors in Picking the Right Menstrual Cup
Overnight menstrual protection without leaks Pads and tampons consistently failed to contain my heavy flow, and I used to resign to sleeping on a black towel every month. Until I…
STIs & What I Wish More People Knew About Them
[Content warning: this post contains recollection of sexual assault. If that's a hard topic for you, skip #5.] I wish we talked about chlamydia the way we talk about strep…
6 Reasons Why "Vibrator Addiction" Is BULLSHIT
Even the most supportive friends can have misconceptions. "I don't know how you still have sensitivity," I often hear when I talk about my We-Vibe Tango. "Don't vibrators numb you? I mean,…
The G-Spot Exists. Cut the Pedantic Semantics.
The G‑spot is the area of, for many people, sensitive tissue on the front wall of the vagina, near where the pubic bone recedes. It's nicknamed such because Gräfenberg coined…