6 Reasons Chastity Cock Cages Can Be Hot

Chastity play and cock cages may seem brutal and otherworldly to the vanillas. "Do people ACTUALLY get turned on by that?" one might think.

But the kink is more common than people realize.

Just like any­one you walk past could be wear­ing a panty vibe or butt plug, a per­son with a penis could be wear­ing a cock cage under their clothes.

Let's dive into rea­sons why some­one with a penis might enjoy chasti­ty play.

CONTENT NOTE:

This post dis­cuss­es tease and denial, humil­i­a­tion kink, own­er­ship kink, and gen­der play. Some read­ers may find it triggering.

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1. Chastity Is the Ultimate Tease and Denial

It's no secret that get­ting a bon­er while wear­ing a cock cage is restrict­ing and painful. The penis doesn't have room to engorge ful­ly, while the scro­tum gets squeezed. The wear­er can't stay hard with­out pain or stroke their cock, much.

It's not "just" a denial of release (though that can be pow­er­ful, too)! Such an expe­ri­ence can also mean an adren­a­line rush or even a renewed New Relationship Energy.

A man I know who enjoys caging com­pared the expe­ri­ence to an air­plane tak­ing off. It's phys­i­cal­ly dis­ori­ent­ing and unground­ing, like the wear­er is los­ing control.

They're at the keyholder's mer­cy. Cue my cack­ling and taunt­ing in a faux-​excited voice.

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2. The Cage Can Occupy the Wearer's Mind All Day

Though not every­one can or should have one on in the long-​term, it's an option! Having a cock cage on affects how so many dai­ly activ­i­ties feel:

• Choosing what clothes to wear
• Walking and running
• Sleeping — dicks go hard and soft at night

My boyfriend said a wear­ing a cock cage feels weird­ly like being naked since his under­wear isn't direct­ly touch­ing his penis.

We also can't ignore that unex­pect­ed bon­ers hap­pen some­times. I enjoy read­ing my inter­net sub's neu­rot­ic ram­blings about how inescapable his cock cage is.

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3. Or It Can Be Part of Disciplining and Punishing Your Partner

Let your part­ner earn their orgasms if that's what you both enjoy. Their cock is use­less to you until they can prove to you how good they are. Your affec­tion is the great­est gift to them — the least they could do is offer you the world by prov­ing their love and devotion.

See, I don't care for play­ing games in "real-​life" dat­ing. However, pair­ing good com­mu­ni­ca­tion with a con­sen­su­al kink in a con­trolled envi­ron­ment is a beau­ti­ful thing.

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4. Or It Can Be a Play on Ownership Kink

That brings me to my next point: chasti­ty play can be an exten­sion of Dominant/​submissive ownership.

Being the keyholder for a cock cage more explicitly states:

• I own all your orgasms.
• You're only allowed to be with me.
• You've sworn your loyalty.

It's like col­lar­ing some­one, but poten­tial­ly more extreme or less pub­lic. The realm of pos­si­bil­i­ty includes col­lar­ing some­one only in pri­vate or exhibit­ing the cage in open play spaces.

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5. Cock Cages Can Be Degrading to One's Masculinity

(Or reaffirming to trans and nonbinary people with penises!)

The cock bondage can lim­it a cis dude of his mas­cu­line self-affirmation.

He can't get hard or expe­ri­ence his dick at its biggest, after all.

Psychologically, there are many rea­sons why a man might find the feminization/​sissification spec­trum appeal­ing. One exam­ple is that per­haps he's proud of his mas­cu­line pub­lic image, but wants to take a men­tal break from the oblig­a­tion of keep­ing it up.

Kink can be someone's way of pro­cess­ing the lim­i­ta­tions of their social role, but in a con­trolled envi­ron­ment with one (or a few) trust­ed partners.

On the flip side, a per­son with a penis might not iden­ti­fy as a man. In that case, things like pee­ing while sit­ting down or not get­ting a big bon­er can be affirm­ing to their gen­der identity.

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6. Chastity Kink Can Play Into Mental Humiliation

Any of the four above points can cul­mi­nate in the taboo of not only accept­ing cock caging but also enjoy­ing it. Some guys like the kink of being degrad­ed and remind­ed of the losers they are.

What might it mean about their sta­tus and self-​respect? They're suf­fer­ing for a vague rea­son: just because it's their role to be sec­ondary to some­one else. That could be their part­ner, or it could be a sat­is­fied, self-​possessed bull jack­ing off over the cuck's caged cock. Not allowed to come, but mere­ly serv­ing as a human cum rag for anoth­er guy's load.

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Wrapping It Up!

There's a range of rea­sons why some­one would enjoy chasti­ty play. Likewise, there are just as many ways to exe­cute it, from "just for fun" to a more extreme 24/​7 lifestyle.

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Further Resources on Cock Cages & Chastity Play

Another Post I've Written

While this post is a 101-​level overview of the appeal of cock cages, I've more recent­ly writ­ten anoth­er one about the types of cis male kinksters who enjoy it — and what oth­er kinks they're into!

The Dildorks Podcast

This pod­cast has a fan­tas­tic episode on cock cages and chasti­ty play, so I sug­gest lis­ten­ing to that.

Super Sleepy, the guest host, talked about:

• Their expe­ri­ence with it
• How that com­pared to their expectations
• Getting com­fy and eas­ing into the experience
• What urol­o­gists have told them about the health risks
• Unexpected perks of wear­ing a cock cage

You can also read Matt Bischoff's Twitter thread log­ging their pent-​up feels through­out the journey.

Sexy Fun World shop

If the kink appeals to you, Sexy Fun World is the place to get cock cages. The World Cage is sim­ple, easy-​to-​use, avail­able in a vari­ety of sizes, and body-​safe. SFW also stocks the CB-​6000, the super well-​known cock cage that Super Sleepy men­tioned in the pod­cast episode.

Discourse about tox­ic toys for penis­es is less com­mon since it's assumed that they're less del­i­cate than vagi­nas. However, health and mate­r­i­al safe­ty mat­ter when any­thing comes into con­tact with mucous mem­branes — includ­ing cocks.

Thank you to Sexy Fun World for sponsoring this post!